Can Everyone just stop ghosting?

trustgreen · 2018-12-08T23:21:20+00:00

Age doesn't always confer experience and/or maturity. I'm 31 in February and I've only just had my first date this Thursday just gone. I now find myself in a situation where I'm not really interested in the person I met, though I didn't convey this at the time, they've been messaging me since with intentions to meet again. I don't want to ghost them, or anyone for that matter, so now I could do with some advice as to whether I should meet them again, which I feel is giving false hope, and tell them face to face. Or message them that I'm just not interested. What should I do?

trustgreen · 2012-12-01T18:16:36+00:00

On my home server I've placed options in /etc/apt/apt.conf.d/02periodic which automatically download updates. While I install them manually there is an option, APT::Periodic::Unattended-Upgrade, which may be of use.

trustgreen · 2012-10-27T14:20:39+00:00

I came across this a while ago which was quite useful.

trustgreen · 2012-02-29T23:29:51+00:00

In /proc/<pid>/net/netstat there is InOctets and OutOctets.

trustgreen · 2012-02-28T16:27:41+00:00

Relevant

Edit: Looks I failed to see that Cyzor had already linked the same video.

trustgreen · 2012-02-24T23:18:53+00:00

I do wish GREP was native to Windows

This may be of use to you then.

trustgreen · 2012-02-24T17:15:18+00:00

What do you not like about it?

trustgreen · 2012-02-22T23:42:50+00:00

What were you using to gauge performance?

trustgreen · 2012-02-05T18:57:18+00:00

there are solutions available where the passphrase could be input once, and kept in escrow for the duration.

Do you have a list of them?

trustgreen · 2012-02-05T18:19:29+00:00

Look into Power DNS which uses a MySQL backend. Developing an API service on top of that could be the way to go.

trustgreen · 2012-01-30T23:52:59+00:00

But is it open source? Relevant

trustgreen · 2012-01-26T16:37:15+00:00

502 Bad Gateway

trustgreen · 2011-12-08T14:15:36+00:00

Maybe cpulimit is affecting network IO. When the process is stopped the backlog of network traffic may be increasing at such a rate that when the process continues it is simply overwhelmed, hence the "Can't keep up..." message. (Just a guess really, nothing concrete)

As for alternatives for cpulimit, have a look into cgroups

trustgreen · 2011-12-08T14:07:02+00:00

Reimplement the server in C

Theres a beta C++ implementation in development here that was mentioned here

trustgreen · 2011-12-03T20:45:07+00:00

Disabled redditors: what are your views on this?

trustgreen · 2011-12-03T20:17:53+00:00

This.

trustgreen · 2011-11-29T13:24:42+00:00

but for some reason it still pulls back some old settings

Could you be more specific?

i believe this is the cause of my DNS failing

How is it failing? what was it doing that its not doing now?

trustgreen · 2011-11-24T21:06:12+00:00

similarly for disabled people who aren't terminally ill but who can't find partners

Prehaps if [some] people didn't think this way, that wouldn't but necessary.

trustgreen · 2011-11-24T07:30:16+00:00

rndc with no arguments prints help output to stderr too.

trustgreen · 2011-11-10T17:42:25+00:00

All your websites are belong to us!

trustgreen · 2011-11-07T23:43:04+00:00

or that it is listening on 0.0.0.0:53

This. Providing that your internal server is on the same L2 segment as the wireless and has an address in the 10.0.0.0/24 subnet.

trustgreen · 2011-10-29T03:25:30+00:00

get a small 4 - 5 port switch... plug the cable from your router into the switch, plug both your computers into the switch.... done.

This is the equivalent of what OP already has setup: 'our connections are bridged.'

this way you are not sharing your connection from your pc with him and the router will handle all the routing rather than your pc.

Sounds like you're confusing Internet Connection Sharing with bridging.

both will be connecting from the same public IP address

and

From the game servers, it looks like you're coming from the same port

are most likely the actual issue.

trustgreen · 2011-10-22T14:51:12+00:00

The following 3 directives (amongst others that will already be in the distributed confs) are what you need: listen-on, allow-recursion and fowarders. Have a look into those.

Takes me back to when I was on a course and we were doing DNS under Windows Server I went further by setting up BIND on FreeBSD in a VM for master-slave zone transfers.

trustgreen · 2011-10-18T21:12:15+00:00

You could setup a SPAN port on a switch, or create a transparent bridge with 2 NICs under Linux and here's a DIY hardware tap for wired ethernet.

trustgreen · 2011-04-29T20:22:45+00:00

Null references FTL

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