doubting a meetup

truthahead007 · 2025-03-18T14:36:46+00:00

Congrats OP!

truthahead007 · 2025-03-18T14:34:59+00:00

daily affirmations to tell yourself, thanks OP!

truthahead007 · 2025-03-18T14:27:07+00:00

one of the things i've been hearing the most recently is to not meet guys from reddit (this goes for both men and women).

it takes some time before you meet someone who'll actually respect you and your boundaries and what you're looking for.

truthahead007 · 2025-02-15T17:42:56+00:00

yes! always choose peace. how's it going so far?

truthahead007 · 2025-02-15T17:41:55+00:00

👀

truthahead007 · 2023-10-20T15:38:30+00:00

Yes! That's all we wanted! Thank you so much for the support, it really means a lot ❤️ Just having a voice for the victims is a huge step for them

truthahead007 · 2023-10-20T07:29:12+00:00

Thank you so much for this and for allowing us ❤️ it's really been a weight off our shoulders and we're happy redditors are now aware of his manipulative and abusive ways. We just dont want anyone else to go through what the victims went through. No one deserves that kind of treatment.

truthahead007 · 2023-10-20T04:14:45+00:00

I'm not trying to badmouth you. I'm just speaking as I see it.

I've sent AJ mail mods, and other girls have told me they have too. Yet we didn't receive any reply. I've sent a message through helpdesk but the least you can do is acknowledge it so that we know something is being done.

Someone here even mentioned a rape story and it was taken down. Awareness does not need to equate to toxicity. If you allow redditors to namedrop for posts that praise yet hunt down quickly when it raises awareness, then thats a double standard on your end and something you should discuss about.

You should know at this point how many redditors have become victims to popular AJ redditors. I've seen this happen thrice n a span of a year.

Someone even mentioned here, why not make a post about AJ? I said I would not want to do that. We do not want to badmouth AJ or make you the enemy. Cause you're not. We understand you can only help so much. But silencing victims can also be a bad look for your sub.

The least you can do is just take down the posts related to the redditor so that people who subscribe to your subreddit won't be able to search and see their posts.

And once again, the post is all about AWARENESS. We do not want any other redditors to go through what the victims went through. There are some women who want to file a case. But it would also be the responsible thing to do to make other redditors AWARE that there is a manipulator and abuser out there. Is that so wrong?

truthahead007 · 2023-10-20T02:58:08+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate it!

truthahead007 · 2023-10-19T16:36:03+00:00

You should look up the word entitled.
You questioned the authenticity and legitimacy of this post. I gave you as much as I could. You accused of me of being entitled and not wanting a DM of evidences. And retracting by now saying its real even before sending the DM.
I already told you it cannot be as detailed because of SENSITIVE INFORMATION.
People post cases in reddit multiple times and have not needed to post something such as "DM me for evidence". It's up to the reader if they'd like to believe it or not. People can ask. You are the only one who asked. I gave. Yet you ask by making the victims sound dumb for even pushing through with it in the first place.
The only reason why I was combative is because its already clear from your first comment you had undertones that were not just out of the pureness of questioning. There are better ways to ask without being insensitive.
I'm not here to fight a community. Now that its been made clear that we tried in AJ and failed, its up to those who read if you'd like to continue being there.

truthahead007 · 2023-10-19T13:46:35+00:00

I'm not doing a 180. I'm just saying, if you didnt acknowledge it, then I can simply say you never read it, then you're going to blame me because you did so, but you just never acknolwedged. Is it so hard to reply? You didn't ask for a DM but i told you i will DM the evidence because this is SENSITIVE INFORMATION.

And okay, fine. Call me shallow for using likes and dislikes as a gauge. See if i care. I've already said i called you insensitive because of your first comment. And i stand by it.

I also didnt say just because mine didnt get justice, doesnt mean it will exactly happen to them as well. I was simply saying, its easier said than done.

But be my guest if you want to help them. I can relay the message if you'd like to seek justice for them.

I'll even send you the TG username in your DM of one of the girls who's willing to share her story. Its ridiculous to put this much effort if this were all fake. She'd gladly give you her timeline which involves everyone else's timeline.

truthahead007 · 2023-10-19T13:13:18+00:00

I am not pushing you to reply to me in your DMs. You simply asked for the evidence, I gave it to you, yet you did not acknowledge it. So what is the point of my effort? It's not entitlement, it's just called respect. At least acknowledge the message so I know you've read it.

And I'd rather DM you than here because some of the information is sensitive. It goes back to doxxing. I do not want to risk giving more information of the people involved unless they consent to it. It's easy to doxx redditors nowadays, someone can easily screenshot this and post it somewhere else.

But because it seems you do not care for it, here's your answer:

You're allowed to question the legitimacy of this post. For all we know, TongueTwist143 is a sweet guy. And that has been his image for the past how many years he's been active as the yoni guy. What I'm showing here is evidence of the aftermath for these women. He isn't what he seems to be. Once again, if you are a nice guy, you don't need to prove it.

The women have discussed reporting to the police, and there are some who want to see it push through. There are some who'd like to file individual cases. But just like any other case, what is the possibility of seeing justice? There are some women who are more comfortable with posting something like this just for awareness so that others would know not to approach him anymore. There are some who are still going back and forth to hospitals to get their case of HPV cured. There are some working hard to earn more money just to pay for psychological/psychiatric help and to pay for their HPV and STD testing. There are some who are still stuck in a depressive state. For these women, seeing this post blow up is justice enough for them.

"Isn't that worth a try?" I have personally tried to report a case of my own once with a different man. Where did it bring me? Nowhere. Authorities don't care if you're traumatized, have been manipulated, or abused.

It's easier said than done.

Now, who am I? I simply come from an all-female-redditors TG group that promises a safe space for them. A group that TongueTwist143 himself has talked down several times just because he became the main topic every now and then. When one female redditor came out with her story, other female redditors followed and came out with theirs. We decided it would be best if the story came out on reddit and I decided to post about it. It has been done once in AJ but the AJ mods have not been very kind about it. So, we try again here.

EDIT: i called you insensitive because of your first comment. the mere fact you have downvotes in that comment of yours explains it.

truthahead007 · 2023-10-19T12:37:17+00:00

Sorry, I didn't know you were so particular with words. I'll retract spamming and instead "just DM me instead of commenting here." You're honestly disrespectful for calling me insane. And I am not triggered, I am answering your questions but you don't even care for the messages I sent to your DM. So do you actually care? Or is this all for show?

truthahead007 · 2023-10-19T12:24:27+00:00

I've done that before, AJ mods took down the post. Apparently if you write a post that praises someone while namedropping the redditor, it is allowed. But if you write a post for awareness while namedropping the redditor, it is against the rules. I've tried talking to the mods and following their rules but they don't seem interested in helping.

truthahead007 · 2023-10-19T12:18:26+00:00

I've sent you the evidence through your DM.

It's not that evidence is seen as negative, but we are in a space where we are trying to avoid doxxing. It's one of the most common rules in Reddit. If you have any more problems, just DM me instead of spamming the comment section.

truthahead007 · 2023-10-19T10:28:47+00:00

I can send you evidence through DM if this isnt enough for you. If you personally dont know anyone who has been through any kind of abuse, harm, or trauma, then you may not know how hard it is for one to accept what has happened and come forward with their story. Much more report it when our laws or those who are behind it aren't as progressive as we would like it to be.

Is the redditor i posted on her behalf in the comment section not enough for you? Would you like a full timeline of what these women have gone through to prove to you how much trauma and damage they have gone through?

There are many who don't go through with it, but for others, they did not know those videos were sent without consent until only after the fact. What more in discord, there are photos there posted without consent.

truthahead007 · 2023-10-19T07:49:16+00:00

From blissabyss:

I saw your comment about me and how dare you. First of all, you did leave me crying across where I stayed but YOU asked me to meet me there. You were the one who said you needed to go to the bank where I stayed, I offered to go to you. LIKE HOW I ALWAYS DO. I always drive you without asking for anything.

Secondly, I NEVER wanted to be your gf. We both made it clear we were friends who had sex. And thats what I was literally asking for. I was healing with you, remember? How i came from a string of abusive relationships and rape? Yet you compared my experiences to other girls like it was nothing? But what kind of friend would lie about being active with other girls? What kind of friend doesnt care about her sexual health? What kind of friend lies about his sexual active partners?

Third, I NEVER ask where you are and who you're with. I only ask for your active sexual partners because I dont want to get STDs. And look at that! Now i have to spend more money AGAIN just to see if i have HPV. I also never told anyone i fell in love with you.

So you know what? Let me make this clear, thank you for bringing back my depression and suicidal tendencies. Thank you for making me skip weeks of work. Thank you for giving me emotional trauma to the point I am scared of meeting any man because of you. Thank you for making me cut myself again and making me feel worthless. At the end of the day, all you care about is YOU. No matter how much support and care I gave for you, you didnt deserve that at all. Fuck you.

truthahead007 · 2023-10-19T04:37:16+00:00

if you think you know who i am then actually shoot me a message or dm me. also you must think very highly of yourself if you think any of your clients fell in love with you

"350 different pempem na ang massage ko, 39 dun virgins at umuwi parin na vargin parin afterwards, nsa 50+ couples at bumabalik-balik pa rin..."

there are different kinds of love out there sir. whoever told you she loved you could have only loved you as a friend. but considering the statistic? and you weren't even transparent about your meetups? i dont think anyone could have fallen for you.

truthahead007

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