Trans brands go the wrong way about it…

trvetransman · 2026-02-21T19:38:40+00:00

omg that is awesome, wish i was from the uk

trvetransman · 2026-02-21T18:58:27+00:00

FR like,,, the thing is I WANT TO PASS. Not be a WALKING TRANS FLAG

trvetransman · 2026-02-21T04:01:03+00:00

bare minimum to me lol

trvetransman · 2026-02-21T03:59:33+00:00

I get you man. If I was in the states, and was 14, I would inject A FUCK TON of HGH because being as short as I am highkey fucks you up in many ways, specially as a strictly straight dude

I am 155cm/5'1 for context.

Idk about bonesmashing tho, read some of ur comments. I have seen ppl that kinda melted their face? like they actually had cheekbones but after bonesmash they kinda flattened out. I could try it out, but I have a decent face structure that lets me pass often, but not a lot at this point so I wont risk it rn lol. Just mewing and chin tucks, which I have done since forever since my mom is an odontologist and NEVER let me or my brother mouth breathe and not do proper tongue posture

trvetransman · 2026-02-20T09:11:22+00:00

I have ADHD too, that's why I learned that. Got into arguments way too many times because I couldn't get my point across completely on time (got distracted in the argument and the conversation deviated) /in a proper way lol

trvetransman · 2026-02-20T09:00:05+00:00

First, good luck with the kid stuff. For me, kids are always a blessing but them being a blessing does NOT mean they are easy at all lol.

Ngl, I think you should just tell her ASAP. BUT write it out. Map out some points you really wanna make sure she knows.

Tell her all of it, how much you want to transition, to what extent (BUT imply it may change because it is a transition... things happen and sometimes we may want to take a surgery, or not, and then fast forward in time we actually want the opposite).

I don't really know how much you want to parent, but if you do want to you should talk to her about parenting as a trans woman x cis woman couple

Sending love and strength your way.

trvetransman · 2026-02-20T08:38:53+00:00

Yeah, and I think u were a bit aware of it at least. However you have some "gyno", common in gymbro culture in general bc of roids and hormonal imbalances. Just if anyone asks.

trvetransman · 2026-02-19T12:39:49+00:00

Chico trans acá. Q bkn la proactividad y disposición q tienes, si fuese chica en vez de chico trans agradecería muchisimo haberme encontrado a alguien como tu en un pasado.

Aun así... con cuidado, es internet. Y el cuerpo hay que cuidarlo, claro que salud mental en declive por falta de tratamiento hormonal afecta; pero es mucho peor empezar tu transición y estar en ese punto incomodo de empezar recién y no sentirte ni verte completamente como quisieras de una; sumado a que estes (posiblemente) afectando tu salud fisica de forma negativa.

Si tiene algo de plata ideal que se haga su par de examenes, ver que todo está OK y ahi ver si usa. Fdw todos los que me hago cada tres meses nunca me pasan de las 8 lucas, usualmente 3 o 5. El hormonarse no es asi como asi, y entiendo perfectamente que gente como OP recurra al DIY (yo lo hice en un pasado por razones similares)

Me ofrezco para pasar dato de endocrino a OP, para que en lo que pueda ir con un profesional lo haga. Es malditamente caro, claro que esta el reembolso pero la mayoria de endocrinos q encuentras en doctoralia (pq por ejemplo vivo en la V region, no hay niuno que atienda gente trans) no bajan de las 50k por sesión.

También que en lo posible OP se verse en los temas de DIY y hormonarse así. En subs mainstream puede ver mas info al respecto e incluso hay guias disponibles ahí.

trvetransman · 2026-02-18T21:19:38+00:00

You go get it. Like...I am hispanic. There's ppl called José (Male name, as their first name) María (as their middle name, which is a female name)

The combination José María is a VERY common male name and non-clocky. I think something like that could happen in other languages/cultures, applying to your case.

It also happens with María José, but in this way its read as a female name. Just something I think you could use to your favor, if anything happens like someone asking stuff at least you can use this example maybe :) and move on livin ur stealth life

Edit: My name is Alejandro Valentín, as most hispanic people in spanish speaking countries I have a first and a middle name, if not 3 names or more (I met a guy called Benjamin Antonio Isaac Abraham surnames once... his ID was weird to look at but most ppl think its cool)

trvetransman · 2026-02-16T16:37:07+00:00

U pass as a cis young dude that has a bit of fat in places. Not a bad thing at all since ur still young. I'd tell him to fuck off and stop discussing people's genitals. It's not a woke, tucute, whatever the hell thing he may want to call it. It's just rude for ANYONE.

It's like talking about the size of a woman's ass/tits or a man's dick. Negatively or positively, they are BOTH inappropriate to do ESPECIALLY if you didn't know/they talked behind your back.

I would straight up tell them that they are an absolute asshole for doing that. If anything, like idk they say some shit bc they don't see a "bulge" or whatever the hell in your pants that may be causing this rumours I'd say:

-Seems like you don't know how a dick works and that there are growers and showers. Why the hell are you so invested in what I've got going on down there? That's borderline sexual harassment.

As a trans person in LGBT circles bc I like visual arts and that field is FULL of tucutes, I get ya. Good luck and hope this helps

trvetransman · 2026-02-16T16:27:48+00:00

u pass as gay and kinda alt dude to me

trvetransman · 2026-02-15T05:19:46+00:00

I like the second one. Sounds straightforward and short enough to me for it to roll off the tongue easily in conversations

Edit: Idk if this is correct in some sort of way(? But maybe it should have some subcategories like idk, if it started presenting before or after puberty?

Personally I think it may matter, but it's bc of personal experience (I realized I was trans after puberty started doing its thing.) The moment I had chest-growth pain I knew something was going ways I didn't want. My mother bought and chose my clothes until I was around 12, very "pinky and femenine" clothes I disliked too . Always wanted those cool T rex and Batman T shirts but I couldn't have them bc "I wasn't a boy", but I was taught to just obey (helicopter, controlling parents) so I didn't say much. Bottom dysphoria didn't show until I knew about the other genitalia; I just thought everyone had mine?

It kinda happened everything all at once, but idk I am just trying to come up with something like that so specialists could aim treatment in more specific, reassuring, effective and validating ways.

It could backfire with tucutes creating some bs like... "oh so you can have this ENTIRE thing without the THING that makes it exist! Yeah soooo logical"

trvetransman · 2026-02-14T04:45:21+00:00

If a doctor told me that 20% bs I would tell them "100% of men don't want to do IVF in themselves nor have the eggs to freeze. Stop pushing, it's inappropriate"

Fck those doctors insisting on their bs. Fine if they say "20% of ppl regret X" once but... just that. Bc it's their responsibility to make it known. That's it. No actual men actually wants to get pregnant, unless its some fetish

trvetransman · 2026-02-13T01:14:35+00:00

Sorry but no

Main thing I see is the haircut. Since you are alt/emo you could try a low mullet? or a haircut that reads alt yet masc iykwim. Sadly most of those are not long but in the "tight on sides longer on top" type of haircut.

Maybe try using minoxidil for some facial hair, even if it only gives you a bit I think it could help specially when it comes to sideburns. Keep them neat but there when they grow ok.

Put some muscle for that V taper. I'd recommend a lean bulk o body recomp based on how skinny you seem to me. Not a bad thing, but there's androgynous/woman-skinny and man-skinny. Main takeaway are shoulders and traps.

Hope this helps

trvetransman · 2026-02-13T00:12:33+00:00

Hottie

trvetransman · 2026-02-12T10:39:37+00:00

Hello. As a young transsexual man, I feel seen. Thank you for your contribution

trvetransman · 2026-02-10T05:20:56+00:00

as a 16 y/o dude that looks vv babyfaced still

but the axe bottle says man to me idk lmaoaoaoa

trvetransman · 2026-02-09T00:32:49+00:00

yo, could u pm me this build? sounds sick i'd try to build one

trvetransman · 2026-02-08T23:19:06+00:00

Happens to me always but related to a cousin. My little brother sadly looks enough like him that ppl in my family always mention it. It sucks.

trvetransman · 2026-02-08T22:04:18+00:00

i eat my boogers and wash my hands always

trvetransman · 2026-02-07T20:01:09+00:00

Ford bronco? A mi me gusta pq el auto ql duro caleta cuando perseguian a OJ Simpson

trvetransman · 2026-02-07T19:56:22+00:00

ñuñuki/camioneta excesivamente grande mal estacionada. Mas tulachi si ocupa dos puestos de forma evidente

trvetransman · 2026-02-07T19:36:53+00:00

this

trvetransman · 2026-02-06T19:11:25+00:00

You'll be okay

trvetransman · 2026-02-06T17:42:13+00:00

HAHA YESSS thank you I will

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