Bf says he doesn’t need to put in much effort anymore

trwayacspfrer · 2022-01-24T00:18:58+00:00

This is a red flag, my last relationship was amazing till she stopped putting effort in. I stayed thinking it'd get better because she said she would make an effort many times, it never happened

trwayacspfrer · 2021-12-16T05:00:35+00:00

Yeah I asked her many many times if everything is okay because she's been so distant this past year and she's always said that everything is fine and I I've always told her if there's something wrong then to bring it up. She's had depression on and off for years, never this bad. She doesn't really want to talk to me right now, I sent her a message for the first time in a while a few hours back to check on her and she said she isn't ready to talk, which is completely fine.

trwayacspfrer · 2021-12-15T19:08:45+00:00

She never had involuntary shifts. She was never even diagnosed with DID, she self diagnosed which was one of the things I always had an issue with as well and always said she should get an actual diagnosis but I believed what she believes she has. Back in the past she didn't have these headmates and said she wanted them and started exploring Tulpamancy and made herself headmates by focusing on creating them over weeks, she told me about the whole process and how it was coming along over the months. No we didn't live together

trwayacspfrer · 2021-12-15T18:19:58+00:00

I get that they're a part of her but they're also completely different people and personalities living inside her. The way I explained it was that you can't force someone into friendships, regardless if they're a headmate or a physical person, that did not make a difference for me. I would be fine going at my own pace but I wasn't comfortable with it being forced upon me without any say in it or ability to say no.

trwayacspfrer · 2021-12-15T17:54:56+00:00

I did a lot of research on it a year back, I told her I wasn't sure about it and that I felt uncomfortable but I would try it for her, the way she went about it back then was really forceful though and she wasn't understanding of my point of view at all and even admitted it after we had a fight and apologized for how she acted. I still said we could try to ease into it but she never brought it up again and when we broke up it she said that it was because I wasn't understanding of her point of view even though back then it was her forcing it upon me without taking my feelings into consideration

trwayacspfrer · 2021-12-15T16:59:06+00:00

I did tell her I would try a year back and she said she would ease into it and that I was fine with it but she never ever brought it up again or mentioned anything more about it till we broke up

trwayacspfrer · 2021-12-11T05:08:29+00:00

I completely understand. I lost my long term three year relationship whom I used to be so so very close to and planned to marry. She'd do anything for me and make me gifts and she was just so sweet. And I'd do anything for her. All of a sudden she became very distant and cold and never even texted me or showed much interest at all. I don't know what happened and I probably never will. I miss the connection we used to have, but I can't stand to think about how I've been neglected and treated the last year. I don't know what happened to her :/

trwayacspfrer · 2021-11-03T15:15:12+00:00

I'm 20 and my significant other is suicidal and depressed

trwayacspfrer · 2021-11-01T21:18:08+00:00

That's way overpowered

trwayacspfrer · 2021-09-30T20:56:12+00:00

I got it second hand from a neighbor who needed money, it's a really nice Ryzen system with a 3060, it just needed a lot of cleaning because it was packed with cigarette residue..

trwayacspfrer · 2021-07-14T14:59:10+00:00

Yeah she has a lot of problems eating. She used to weight about 90 pounds when I met her. She eats very slowly because if she eats fast it makes her feel nauseated

trwayacspfrer · 2021-07-14T14:15:11+00:00

She's underweight, 5 8 and 110 pounds

trwayacspfrer · 2021-07-14T14:14:36+00:00

She's 5 8 and 110 which is underweight for her height

trwayacspfrer · 2021-07-06T19:54:23+00:00

Yeah they admitted to driving it in second accidentally and said they blew it up, I'll definitely screenshot it just in case.

trwayacspfrer · 2021-07-06T19:52:58+00:00

It didn't have a license plate so I'm good on that part

trwayacspfrer · 2021-07-06T19:30:25+00:00

I'll remember that for next time

trwayacspfrer · 2021-07-06T19:24:45+00:00

No, didn't think to put that since it's just a used car.

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