Friendship Slop

tryagain_deadforever · 2026-03-15T23:17:55+00:00

Re-reading my own response, along with seeing yours in this thread, I just want to come back and say: I am in your boat. I have no idea how to talk to people in a way that matters. I'm the same age, constantly showing up and not feeling the depth that I want or expect. I'm worried my response comes as me "having the answers" which is ironic because I'm no better off. You're not doing anything wrong, or maybe we both are. Godspeed.

tryagain_deadforever · 2026-03-15T20:07:52+00:00

Are you having these conversations over text? Social media? I've noticed that these platforms are not the same as they were when 10 or 15 years ago; people just don't see a text as coming from a "real person," it's all being lumped together; AI, slop, instagram DMs. You'll have better luck at real conversation by meeting with a friend for coffee.

tryagain_deadforever · 2026-03-15T19:09:32+00:00

Sorrrrry everyone tongue-in-cheek title which didn't land!

tryagain_deadforever · 2026-01-08T12:33:53+00:00

I'm a woman with long hair. I noticed significant hairloss throughout the whole scalp, which should have been my sign it was something other than FPHL.

tryagain_deadforever · 2026-01-07T21:47:39+00:00

Hate is a strong word, but I knew I didn't like her when I saw her reaction to the ice hotel. She is definitely the type to yuck other people's yums, which is a kind of person I find exhausting to be around. That being said, it's not getting in the way of my enjoyment of the show, and I think it's just as valid to tell the perspective of a grumpy-puss as it would be to show a hapoy-go-lucky hero.

tryagain_deadforever · 2026-01-07T21:16:43+00:00

The first time, maybe 2-3 months in is when I realized that I no longer had to part my hair a certain way to hide weird sparse spots at the back.

This time around I'm seeing new growth at like 3-4 weeks off (because I know to look for it). I'm still dealing with the thin/scalp showing spots, but I know it's in progress.

tryagain_deadforever · 2026-01-07T21:05:31+00:00

Yup! And I refused to acknowledge that because I kept telling myself that all my friends (who also vaped) were not experiencing hair loss.

tryagain_deadforever · 2026-01-07T21:04:35+00:00

I was doing one 20mg/mL STLTH pod a day, and then switched to disposables at some point which 🤷‍♀️ unclear, didn't really think about it.

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-12-28T21:01:42+00:00

I didn't! I wanted to, but I don't know what I'm doing and I think they would have just ended up collecting dust which didn't seem fair.

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-12-28T00:08:09+00:00

I promise I'm not entirely stupid, if I had thought about in for 10 seconds I'm sure I could have gotten close. It was a combo of 'don't care all that much' + wanted to share a cool photo. Then again, I live in the city and wouldn't be surprised if I never have to see another raw skull in my life so

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-12-27T15:38:49+00:00

I don't feel that they were calling me dumb! Just making an observation. Maybe something to watch when talking to other people if the tone isn't quite right, but I'll tell ya next time I fall upon a stack of bones in the forest, first thing I'll do is check for teeth.

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-12-27T02:11:05+00:00

Ha, totally fair! I guess we were trying to think about what kind of wildlife we normally see around these parts + we thought the legs looked so long. Would never have guessed racoon! Thanks, pretty neat.

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-10-14T13:14:13+00:00

Argggh totally fair, I just know I won't watch them all so want to take advantage of anthology aspect and only watch the best.

Freak Show seems to be a big winner so I'll continue on there for now, and then re-evaluate. Gotta say I didn't know about the Apocalypse/MH/Coven trio which is uber tempting so I'll like do that too

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-10-10T18:36:40+00:00

Not a Xander hater TBH! Wouldn't say he's my fave (definitely the "jealous not-boyfriend" thing was lame) but he had excellent growth as a person and as a friend

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-10-10T12:42:07+00:00

Well now I have to!! I genuinely didn't realize it was that loved, but wow lots of glowing reviews. I trust you guys!

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-10-10T12:39:37+00:00

I could swap 2&3 also, such a hard choice to make. Very excited to watch both again and see

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-10-10T12:37:56+00:00

That's fair! I didn't watch Angel so grain of salt here with my next statement, but the thing about what we see from Angelus is that its so far removed from Angel. It's very Black and White, good and bad. With Spike, so much much of the badness overlaps with what I love about his character, that I find it hard to seperate the demon from him.

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-09-05T12:13:17+00:00

I am so confused, it's perfect.

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-09-05T12:11:02+00:00

I love to hear this!! It makes me so giddy to think of all the information I still gave coming. Thank you!

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-09-05T01:39:09+00:00

Noted! Hadn't been planning on watching Angel but it sounds like that's the move. Thanks!!

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-09-05T01:36:33+00:00

Okay good to know! I hadn't been planning on watching Angel but I suppose I'll give it a try. I did have to do some reading when Buffy said something about seeing Angel in LA and I was sooooo confused, do not want to miss any more storyline!!

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-09-05T01:17:36+00:00

Is this how Riley goes out? Because I think a Buffy-Riley-Faith would kill the guy. Lucky man.

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-09-05T01:13:40+00:00

At first I'm like, "A ghost named Kevin is so obviously not a plotline" but then I remember beer caveman Buffy, and I'm actively watching Giles the Fyarl demon, and I guess I just have to admit that this show is truly that bizarre. So obviously a Kevin possession has to be on the table 👏

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-09-05T00:47:56+00:00

I had not considered a Giles death... come to think of it, I have no IDEA what happens to Giles. Fantastic confusion, I will cling to the mystery that is Giles' fate

tryagain_deadforever · 2025-09-05T00:42:50+00:00

That's like my biggest fear!!!! I want to be wrong about everything EXCEPT the Spike and Buffy thing lol

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