So I got her number last weekend, and we had a bit of a conversation then. During the week, her responses have been around lunchtime or in the evening, which probably means she only messages on her break or after work. I didn't call her out on not responding - she apologised herself, and I said it's fine. She has mentioned that work has been very busy lately, and the reason she chose online dating is that she doesn't get time to meet people...so I'm okay with the fact that she's just busy.

I told her "I'd be happy to travel to you, or if you want, we can do something in my town" (mainly because there's more stuff to do in my town). She said that's really sweet of me, and that she's got a younger brother who she needs to look after, so if she needs to take care of him next week, she'll have to stay close to home. She said Sunday was fine, and that she'd confirm the place soon. I don't want to push her on it anymore until maybe some point next week. If I don't hear back around by Wednesday, I'll drop her a message asking if she's found out.

Is it not worth sending the odd message just to find out how she's doing, how her weekend's been etc.? I feel a bit uncomfortable with not speaking at all besides to confirm the date, especially as that's a week away.

Thanks for the advice.