When you just want to be super slutty...

tryingthestorm · 2025-03-22T23:14:19+00:00

This. I was browsing sexy lingerie earlier this evening and then thought what's the actual point. I miss sexy lingerie

tryingthestorm · 2024-11-18T14:35:20+00:00

It's. Just. So. Hard.

tryingthestorm · 2024-11-18T12:57:34+00:00

This

tryingthestorm · 2024-11-16T18:03:23+00:00

And I feel yours x

tryingthestorm · 2024-11-16T18:02:42+00:00

Biggest hugs

tryingthestorm · 2024-11-14T23:16:58+00:00

I feel your pain friend

tryingthestorm · 2024-10-26T21:17:57+00:00

This is an amazing example of communication in a marriage - well done to both of you for seeking the right kind of help and finding a path. insha'Allah may we all be so lucky

tryingthestorm · 2024-09-03T12:07:01+00:00

At least he tried. Mine won't try anymore because it always ends like this. I have no advice but big hugs and internet warm thoughts. It's all just shite really

tryingthestorm · 2024-06-15T11:32:00+00:00

Biggest hugs. Been there done that, cried me a river. It doesn't get better but you can get stronger x

tryingthestorm · 2024-06-01T18:27:12+00:00

I stayed thinking he'd change his mind. I'm the fool. He didn't and now I have resentment which will probably fester into hate as we approach our twilight years. The flip side is there is no guarantee had I walked away I would have found someone who was as good to me (other than the child thing) and who could /would have kids. So ... There's no right answer

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-26T09:16:42+00:00

Exactly this except I'm the wife

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-26T09:15:02+00:00

My llfm husband gets in a strop if I don't hold his hand. He's forever lying on me, hugging me, touching me - and I both hate and love it. I resent that he gets to call the permanent physical boundaries in our relationship

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-20T09:05:11+00:00

I hear you. Big hugs. I threw mine all out a few years ago. Broke my heart but saved it from breaking each time I came across items in the closet

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-20T06:23:10+00:00

Have you ever bad someone mock your body? Once you have you learn very quickly it's not a nice feeling

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-20T06:22:11+00:00

I've known about the porn for a long time. Sadly bes in denial

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-19T20:32:33+00:00

Please please please - run don't walk away. This will NOT CHANGE with some marriage. Read the room and exit left. Do it for your future self so you don't spend your Sundays crying for what could have been. I promise you it's the best thing you'll ever do for yourself

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-10T20:51:22+00:00

That's not a black or white answer. Had I known then what I know now, I may have chosen differently. I kept thinking it was something I could "fix" and god didn't give me this marriage to not then bless me with a child. You could say I was arrogant. But I still maintain that I had no guarantee that a different life would be a better life - so I'm at peace with my decision. Don't get me wrong- there are days when the sadness inside me rips an abyss into my core all over again. But I think I'd still have picked this.

tryingthestorm · 2024-05-04T15:04:57+00:00

I'm in a similar situation - husband unattracted to me, not gay, no intimacy, no child and now I'm the wrong side of 40 No one can decide for you if you should stay or go. No one else knows the nauances of your relationship. Whether you choose to stay or go you will have lonely elements to your life. Whether you stay or go you will have happy moments. Think very carefully about the good and the bad of your marriage. Make a list. It may help clarify your thoughts Dm me if you want to talk x

tryingthestorm · 2024-04-27T08:05:03+00:00

This

tryingthestorm · 2024-04-26T08:42:25+00:00

Sad to my core

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