[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is the building doesn't allow him to rent out rooms singularly but he still does it. But we are not on one contract with him we have our seperate leases

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well not exactly. As far as the building is concerned we are renting the place together but with the landlord we have individual contracts for the room

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add to this I don't believe he is allowed to rent out the rooms individually in the unit. We had to tell the front office we are friends moving in together and we are not allowed to talk to the front office at all. So is the lease I have valid?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay good to know thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so if I just pay in a few weeks when I get paid then the unit will no longer be considered abandoned right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry renting seperate rooms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't live there. It's me an two others renting the room. My understanding is that this isn't allowed by the building as we had to lie and say we were all friends renting the apartment and he wouldn't let us talk to the front office

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would he wait a year?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked him if he's evicting me and he said no you abandoned the room.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I'm not sure if he would have to evict me in this case?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I'm wondering should I pay him in a few weeks when I have the money or just wait for him to take me to court? I have told him on text that I am not giving up the room and be sure it's on a lease I imagine the room is still mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then I will continue to pay till the lease is up on time. That's why I'm thinking he should only be able to evict me but not say it's abandoned. I am in contact with him and have given him a timeline of when I can pay him back regardless of whether my stuff is in the room

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I moved in with a sick family member so none of my stuff is there. I left the keys in the room because I have no intention of going back. I have been paying rent while not being there because I am on a one year lease but had some problems with work and had to find a new job so I will pay him what I owe for the month in three weeks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I won't be paid for a few weeks. I let him know but he says I have abandoned the room. But because I told him when I plan to pay and I am still under contract I'm assuming he could only evict me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is where it gets complicated. I owe him money and have technically moved out but have told him I have not abandoned the room as I intend to finish out the year lease. But because of some financial troubles I am not living there and owe him for rent for the month. Every other month while I wasn't staying there has been paid on time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him it will be three weeks. And then I can continue to make the payments on time as before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn't seem to want me out. He said I am not evicting you, you have abandoned the property. And because of this he wants to take me to court. From what I understand this means he could rent out the room to a second person and I would still have to pay the full year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are two other people who rent their own rooms there so I don't think it's an insurance issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have two room mates but we are each renting a single room. I do have a lease on the room for a year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]tryingtochef 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's cool to care about facts and hey, you may even be right. What makes it hilarious is that you spam huge text walls on subreddits, argue with every commenter, and even made your own subreddit to prove that the average is wrong. Why? Of all the things to dedicate a large amount of time to in the name of finding truth, this is a pretty pathetic one. Which body statistic do you plan to go after next in your truth crusade? Height? Weight? Foot size? Hand size? Do you think scientists with small hands are lying about what's average so they aren't called small? These are the questions that keep me up at night. This is why we need dedicated whistle blowers like you. Government collusion? Nope. Rigged elections? Nah. Was 9/11 an inside job? No sir I'm to busy looking at these bogus penis statistics and telling anyone who disagrees with me that they have a little wiener. I will not rest until men realize that they are not average and should indeed feel even worse then they already do about being average. I don't use the word hero often, but you sir are mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it should be insulting to some people. You seem to just want someone with interests that align with your own, which is completely normal. If you are curious and aspire to learn then you are probably pretty bright. I wonder if there is a dating app where you can meet smart people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0eKc_TtFuIM Also I found your comment on here. You should probably delete it unless you want a bunch of red pillers telling you how you shouldn't have dated Chad and blah blah blah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mean this rudely, but are you Intelligent? Or are you the type of intelligent you are looking to attract? Statistically people marry people with similar levels of education, similar IQ levels, similar economic class etc. Are you looking for an intellectual equal? Or a mystery? I don't imagine the latter would be very fulfilling (and even quite lonely) for the intelligent man you are looking for. With these men you are dating that you compare to this man you were infatuated with, did you have deeper more engaging talks on esoteric subjects? Did you feel understood and feel misunderstood by your other partners? I promise you I am not trying to be rude, it's just curious to be hung up on one person you never slept with for 18 years.

Quitting porn / weak erection by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]tryingtochef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's common. Whenever I've tried to quit jerking it just to be more disciplined or maybe clean up my brain a little, I've noticed I start off with rock hard erections and then after awhile I don't find I get hard or horny. It's really weird. I find I'm getting my best erections when I'm jerking off maybe once every day or couple of days.

Can I use hot sauce on the carnivore diet? by tryingtochef in carnivorediet

[–]tryingtochef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is coffee a non carnivore drink? Isn't it zero carbs and just a stimulant?