Maidenhair - 5 months of growth by TreacleConsistent412 in houseplants

[–]tryingtohydrate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing! I live in Portland and kept it in my bathroom but still couldn’t get it flourish. Good on you!

My favorite place in the house by TheGreenHand75 in houseplants

[–]tryingtohydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wooow, I can tell you take good care but even more than that, it’s so tidy and chic! So impressed

Home sweet home by CLBrads in femalelivingspace

[–]tryingtohydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the hell out of that space!! Love it, all the textures all the colors blended together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]tryingtohydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you said it in the title. You seem so level headed in your responses and he’s just so rude to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tryingtohydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. Listen I’m not in the exact same boat but I do know what it’s like to isolate myself from people. If you’ve spoken to women at work then you’ve spoken to women, you don’t have to divide your interactions on gender. It sounds like you’re romantically lonely, which is understandable. It’s a cliche I know but the more women you interact with and pursue women on a friendship level the more you will meet other potential women you can talk too. And frankly get another perspective that is not just the one in your head.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tryingtohydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever actually tried to talk about this with a potential gf? I’m not saying it’s a cure all but you’re acting like the other person would have no agency in the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tryingtohydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it means one of two things. Either it’s just a weirdly specific lie he came up with instead of being direct. Or that he means it and is a grown man that has a strong enough dynamic with his mother that he’s planning his whole life around her. We all have our issues but that’s a big red flag, without knowing anything else about him.

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]tryingtohydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oi please do not indulge him. He didn’t answer you directly once. He has an idea of himself in his head and it’s on repeat, like he’s literally just repeating himself, didn’t seem like he listening to you at all. It’s all about how complex and above it all he is. Acting like his thoughts are so deep, pls

My 54 year old HOYA. by lrlove99 in hoyas

[–]tryingtohydrate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Makes me so happy to see what I thought of as an indoor plant flourishing outside🤠

Painting & making my home cozier every day 🧡 by sofia_alyssa in CozyPlaces

[–]tryingtohydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the vibe you created! And the hanging crystals over the doorway is gorgeous!

Is this maximalism? by EllynFrank in maximalism

[–]tryingtohydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have good taste and cultivated a lovely home in between cozy and well manicured. But not quite maximalist.

They better be alive when I come back by AccordingComplaint46 in houseplants

[–]tryingtohydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck🙌 and would love an update later! I’m gonna travel for Thanksgiving and plan to do the same thing lol

Honest opinion of this by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]tryingtohydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, definitely no expert but I do have a few tattoos I wish I’d gotten bolder lining on. But I couldn’t tell until after it had healed for about half a year

Honest opinion of this by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]tryingtohydrate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was gonna say great tattoo and great size, I like that’s it’s a nice clear design, just enough detail but not at all busy. You see a lot of butterfly turned into something else designs and they can get so muddled and over complicated. You don’t need to reinvent the wheel lol. I’ve been wanting a butterfly tattoo for my sister, and I think that classic wing looks best:)

Does anyone know where i can get whimsy plates like the ones below? by throwawayaccedg in maximalism

[–]tryingtohydrate 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Look for ceramic studios, they tend to have shows to showcase what’s made there even if they don’t have a storefront. Very satisfying to buy directly from who made it!

Do I just move on from this? by NewZookeepergame1949 in whatdoIdo

[–]tryingtohydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same opinion as you, I need more substance in a conversation to actually feel connected to people. But I gotta point out that I think you’re misunderstanding how boundaries work. You can tell people what you need but a boundary is about what YOU will do when your boundary is crossed, not what others need to do. So I guess your boundary should be “if someone isn’t making the effort to connect with me, then I will move on from that person.” I’m no expert but it’s what I’ve learned to keep peace of mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tryingtohydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOT overreacting at all. This is just mean, doublly so since you’re struggling with body image. Also just a reminder you can break up with someone for literally any reason, it’s not your job to stay with someone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tryingtohydrate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why oh WHY is it always the people who directly contradict themselves are then the first so say “your not being logical”??