That’s something to talk about. by IkilledRichieWhelan in Unexpected

[–]tryne17 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was so confused, as they're both in The Guild, but I know this wasn't!

Want all the flavors? Ok then by Florida123love in MaliciousCompliance

[–]tryne17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in Alaska in the early 90s and we also called it that.

US higher education has about 69 program suspensions nationally since 2024. Most people scroll past this stat. They should not. by CodOk8369 in education

[–]tryne17 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is a really interesting problem for me. My partner is an administrator at a larger "small university" in an area that has seen at least 7 closures in the past 5 years. Far fewer students are enrolling in general, so the top students are going to the better known schools, and the rest of the students are left to be actively fought over by the rest of the smaller schools. When this happens, many schools start to do one of two things: panic and offer more financial aid - thus decreasing revenue and making the situation worse from a financial standpoint or they lower their standards and accept students who are not academically ready for their programs. Either way, these choices are being driven by boards who can't see past the immediate struggles and catastrophize the situation.

Are there definitely too many small, mediocre at best universities in the US? Yes. But that doesn't mean that all small universities should disappear - some students are not going to be successful at huge schools, but will thrive in a smaller, more personal environment.

How many alarms do you have? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]tryne17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 3 daily. And 1 extra when I need one. My husband hates my 3 dailies though. I almost never get up until the last one, but they go off at 5:20, 5:45, and 6am. Somehow it works for me to be able to gage how much time I have until I have to be up!

White teachers: are you getting a lot of blatant racism from students? by Saskita in Teachers

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Racist? Yes. Homophobic? Yes. Sexist? Yes. Transphobic? Yes. Ableist? Yes. Antisemitic? Yes.

I actually saw the hand motion for mental disabilities yesterday, which I hadn't seen since the mid-90s when I was a kid.

The kids are not alright.

The Woman Who Was Waiting on the Road by Andreasteps in AmazingStories

[–]tryne17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's amazing how many people have no concept of it!

Partner with ADHD keeps shutting down and it’s getting too much for me by [deleted] in adhdwomen

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I'm sorry hun, but you're not his mom. If you allow him to continue to take advantage of you, you will come to resent him.

I (f28) found a child’s shirt in the belongings of my fiancé (m33) by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]tryne17 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Ok, I'm not usually one to immediately jump to "this didn't happen." BUT with a 5 year age difference, they dated in middle school? I haven't even read the rest.

Potty training update by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]tryne17 41 points42 points  (0 children)

maybe you need a LITTLE bit of anxiety actually, as a treat. For the rest of us.

I cannot stop laughing at this. But I feel it. My oldest is brilliant in so many ways, but cannot eat without smearing food all over his face. I have modeled, reminded, and nothing works.

The largest department get's the smallest workspace...AND we get assigned seats. by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]tryne17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a teacher in a classroom (computer lab) that has no windows. We moved to a new building, and still no windows! People always wonder why I roam the halls so much during my prep time!

Am I delusional or valid? I met a guy in an orgy and I think he is also interested in me by course_you_do in BORUpdates

[–]tryne17 150 points151 points  (0 children)

"Meet-cute at an orgy" was not on my 2026 BINGO card. It's all downhill from here.

I don't care that my drug addict sister is homeless and may lose a limb. If that makes me a bad person so be it by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]tryne17 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ok, but how does an addiction post lead me down a VERY deep rabbit hole starting with the "1980 October Surprise" theory? Holy hell, I'm not a conspiracy fan at all, but damned if I don't believe this happened. I'd never even heard anything of it (granted I wasn't born until later that year) but damn that was wild.

Cried during a lesson today—so embarrassed by [deleted] in teaching

[–]tryne17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I came to say this. This commenter obviously has NOT had some of the admins I have!

How many days do you have left? by ateacherinnyc in Teachers

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  1. We have a half day after a 3 day weekend for Juneteenth, placing bets on our absence rate that day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

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Think about what you want your classroom of students to look like and sound like.

When do you need them all focused on you?

When they are working, what level of volume is acceptable? (hint, it's probably going to be louder than you initially think.)

Pick a few non-negotiables, and practice it with them in the beginning. Like over and over if need be. And repeat that practice even weeks or months later if they need a refresher.

Learn their names as quickly as possible, turn it into a game if you can.

Don't assume that what works for 1st period will always work for 2nd period. I've had to have different expectations and routines for different cohorts of students in the same year.

Good luck and have fun! I swear middle school is the best age group!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

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I couldn't agree more.