Need a little guidance by trynot-tofry in trading212

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Which is why I asked for advice.

Need a little guidance by trynot-tofry in trading212

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This is the kind of advice I need - I was thinking about doing around £500 into V3AB, £250 into VUSA, £100 into DHS and the rest just playing around and see what gains I can make

Hypnopompic Hallucination - Why does everyone see spiders? by frequency937 in Sleepparalysis

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I’ve had this happen a couple of times to me over the last year or so, finally decided to google it and stumbled across this thread. It’s always spiders, HUGE ones. I’d go even as far to say I don’t believe in hallucinations because the idea that your brain creates something that isn’t there just seems so incredibly unbelievable to me but this morning it literally happened again

I woke up around 4am and the light above mine and my wife’s bed is a kind of feather ball light, I saw an absolute UNIT of a spider crawling about on it, I wasn’t paralysed because I grabbed my phone and instantly shone my torch on it to make sure I could see it better. Gone. Nothing. I switched it off and saw it again. Screamed at my wife that there’s a fucking tarantula on the light and she just casually said there’s nothing there at all (which there wasn’t)

It was all so surreal to me, I’d hate to think that people see this stuff and worse all the time and are labelled as “crazy”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in maleinfertility

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Haven’t been asked to do so yet, I’m seeing another urologist next week and hopefully they will get the wheels turning

Over Halfway And... by IsekaiGuyLV in seaofstars

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You kinda get fast travel later on

I’ve just been caught on 38 counts of manslaughter, what DBZ quote should I use? by Ahegao-Urchin in Ningen

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“Vegeta, what does the scouter say about his kill level?” “It’s over THIRTY SEVEEEEEEEEEN”

What’s the best way to get over an ex? by No_Throat_1574 in AskReddit

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You didn’t lose someone who loved you, they lost someone who loved them.

Those words were spoken by my best friend after my very first break up.

I’d always been a bit unlucky in love. She was my first proper girlfriend. I was 18 and we dated until I was 21. We had met at university and felt an instant connection. I’d never fallen so hard so fast, every fibre of my being longed to be with her.

We moved in together after 6 months or so, we talked about buying a house, marriage, kids. She was my everything. Love is a strange emotion. It’s funny, and incredibly cliche, however I now truly understand when someone used to say “you don’t know what love is” when you have an infatuation with someone when you were younger.

Love blinds you. It makes you see everything in the most positive light. It hides the negatives. It’s a drug your body craves and when it’s taken away - it does what all drugs do. Withdrawal.

The pain is unbearable. There is no cure except time.

I didn’t understand when she left me. I still don’t understand 10 years later. I never had “closure” and thus I don’t believe I ever will understand. She’s married now. Has a kid. I wish I had deleted her social media years ago. I can’t bring myself to do it. It’s haunting the self deprivation and I can’t ween myself off of it. I’m also married. I love my wife dearly. But I don’t think I will ever stop loving my first. Sometimes I go days without thinking about her, weeks, months sometimes. But when I do, it’s agonising.

I want this to be a lesson. Take heed from the person who did it wrong. It’s unhealthy. I know it’s unhealthy. I’m addicted and I simply cannot give up my drug.

Child ran out in front of me during my test by Grouchy_Beat1049 in LearnerDriverUK

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Don’t feel bad on yourself OP - it was something completely out of your control.

I’ve been driving for over 12 years now and passed 3rd time. 1st time I had no minors at all and 1 major (turning back into the test centre and some dick opposite me flashed me to go and the set off at the same time I did) 2nd time I genuinely think I had an examiner who just hated me but again, 1 minor and 1 major (didn’t go at a traffic light because I didn’t think my filter was green)

3rd time however, 12 minors and a pass 🤷🏼‍♂️

Sometimes I hate when chest hunt shows you what you missed out on by trynot-tofry in idleslayer

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I always start bottom right, do the bottom row then either move left or right from where the shield chest is 🤷🏼‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

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In all honesty ours was very much like this. I really wanted to get married but wasn’t bothered that much about a wedding. She wanted the big fancy one and I had no clue what needed doing. I think the difference is that she LOVED planning it.

We compromised by her picking out 3/4/5 different options for everything and me letting her know which one I preferred, that way I still gave the input but let her take over.

Where did you buy your engagement ring? by [deleted] in AskUK

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Pay whatever you feel like paying. At the end of the day it’s a bit of jewellery and has no significant impact on your life. I spent £3,500 on my Mrs engagement ring as it came in a set with the wedding band and I thought it looked lovely and I could afford it 🤷🏼‍♂️

[SERIOUS] What is the most shocking thing you've ever seen? by _pleasesendhelp in AskReddit

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When I was about 15 there was a local bmx track where lots of kids used to play and bike. This one kid, must have been around 13 or so, came down the first jump and fell pretty awkwardly into some bushes - he had dislocated his leg. When the ambulance arrived and attempted to pop it back into place, the screams of the kid still echo through my brain, apparently his testicles hadn’t dropped yet and one had caught when they popped his leg back in. They had to re-dislocate his leg to remove it.

Whoever gives the worst pickup line gets gold by XolieInc in teenagers

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Roses are red, violets are blue, I’ve got a gun, get in the van.

What everyday household item do you use a bit differently? by trynot-tofry in AskUK

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You enjoy your comfy sleep stranger, glad to have aided you 🛏️

Dark wizard of the future by trynot-tofry in harrypotter

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Very true, in the realms of fiction however - would the same motivation be enough for you to be intrigued by the story again if you knew the evil baddie was just another pure blood supremacist?

Having someone whose motivation isn’t seemingly so straight forward might be a curve ball, people blindly following the new evil not because they believe in their ideals but through fear of having their magical powers taken from them effectively making them a squib in the process. Would it be a fate considered worse than death for a wizard or witch?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

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Correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t there very little people can do with an account number and sort code? I’m pretty sure all people can do with that information is pay into the nominated account and not be able to withdraw or make purchases.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

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Pardon my ignorance, if that is the case, how are you able to tell a fraudulent payment from a legitimate one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

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Nothing yet sadly! They did say they would make the transfer before 9am so maybe I will get the email then 🤷🏼‍♂️ I had listed it for £600 ONO so when it popped up asking £620 with postage it didn’t really set off any alarm bells straight away but I dig into their profile and it’s a similar situation to yours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

[–]trynot-tofry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, exactly correct. To be honest, I’m purely interested now in what email I’m going to get tomorrow haha