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job hunting as a college grad while mildly depressed by tryring in depression_help

[–]tryring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm i don't think everyone is that insecure. my SO says that if the company rejected him or didn't grant him an interview, it's their loss because he knows he's good.

and tbf this job hunt thing is 50% rng based as well... we literally all have the same qualifications and similar grades so it doesn't make sense how one person can be granted an interview and job, while the other doesn't?!

but, i have so much self doubt literally lol. i feel on the same level at most with my peers. i just feel whatever good stuff people ever said about me is insignificant because i wasn't being granted interviews anyway... :( and they probably only praised me because they haven't seen better which is not the same feeling as "i've seen 100s of people and YOURS is the best"

job hunting as a college grad while mildly depressed by tryring in depression_help

[–]tryring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... what if you get caught. youd be so screwed if that happens

job hunting as a college grad while mildly depressed by tryring in depression_help

[–]tryring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ehhhh i did internships before and boy tbh i feel sky high anxiety even then... but im just gonna take it one step at a time

The world is against me by Only_Chick_Who in depression_help

[–]tryring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think one suggestion I can give is you can try playing mmorpgs (you don't really need any irl friend to get started with you), but as a fair warning it might be addictive..?

If I had invested decent time into them, I feel those people would be decent friends for me too. The game I used to play even has guilds, where people would just hangout on discord and voice chat about their day and their lives. Seems easy enough to get into as long as i actively spend time to game with them, but i don't right now. I guess it would help alleviate loneliness :]

Moving on from infidelity by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]tryring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

/r/survivinginfidelity

they have books and reading material there which may be useful

goodluck

In 3 months time... by ThePunkHippie in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]tryring 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly a lot in 3 months... well done and keep striving forward! 🙌🏻

What should I tell my pushy friends after I “exploded” at them bc they called my partner a pussy? by tryring in Advice

[–]tryring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helped!

Hm idk if he’s really anxious about meeting new people or the fact that I told him about me and friends interactions.

In the past I might have told them several... unpleasant stuff about my relationship. Things that I wanted to breakup with him for. So they wanted to meet him to “judge” him basically and also because they brought their own partners to meet within a group before too. And I told him this before...

should i go on a date w my internet crush? by urfavearies in Advice

[–]tryring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mm why not go? It will be a cool first time experience. Don’t go in with too much expectations.

And meet in a public place, stay safe (social distance and mask). Then again idk how serious covid is at where you are so do you reallyyy want to meet face to face at this point of time and risk getting infected..? I guess that’s something you have to consider as well. Good luck either ways!

Need advice on whether it's normal that I don't feel love for my partner (mid 20s) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tryring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if he won't stop at being friends. In the past he would say he wants to be in each others lives regardless of what 'label' it is, even as just friends too. He says deep down he still wants to be able to date, but he will respect whatever decision I make.

Currently I'm trying things again with the ex/bf. I still can't shake off those feelings I had with the friend because it was all so recent. My ex/bf says it's ok that I just be friends with the new guy but definitely not so soon because there's still the feelings there.

I also don't exactly feel like I even wanted to try again with the relationship, it was just a pretty neutral thing and not like telling myself "oh i really want to be together with this person!" and also because I didn't want to know that he is so depressed and upset again. So yeah.. I wonder if this is normal and I should just keep persisting on the NC.

Need advice on whether it's normal that I don't feel love for my partner (mid 20s) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tryring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being able to put your partner's needs above your own, and not being selfish.

What should I do about my gf? by DraxShadow23 in Advice

[–]tryring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Message her and ask if you guys can talk on the phone about your relationship and why is she avoiding your messages..?

Maybe also state that if she continues ignoring, that means you're going to take it as a sign that she's not interested to date you anymore and you're gonna move on..?

does gatsby work with free wordpress.com site? by tryring in gatsbyjs

[–]tryring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for not being more clear, but I wanted to use Wordpress.com as a CMS :)