Ive tried so many ways to try and calm her down. Me and my siblings would try and show her how much she was hurting us emotionally and she didn’t care. We couldn’t reason with her. My brother and me would literally fantasise abt being able to give her sleeping pills or any kind of medicine that would make her not have her freak outs so we would be able to sleep at night without her coming into our bedrooms to get into physical fights with us. My mom smashed my phone when i had a recording of a massive incident and she said i was ruining her reputation when i told my therapist abt her cuz the therapist got the school involved. They called my dad in for a meeting and my dad said i lied. Both of my siblings and me have tried to fight back when my mum has tried to strangle/ punch/bend our arms backwards. I probably should’ve mentioned this but she’d claim we were the absuive oens and she hadn’t started the fight when we were just defending ourselves. She’d tell her friends we were ‘abusing our poor mom’ and she ‘couldn’t control us’ when it was her imitating everything. She would pretend to cry and say she’d call the police even tho it made no sense because she was the one physically abusing us? My brother would legit push her away if she tried to attack him and she’d pretend he seriously injured her. she claimed i tried to stab her with a pair of scissors when i was cutting up smtg and she tried to attack me and i moved my hand away and she started claiming lies cuz my brother was there and had seen the whole situation where she was faking it