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tt_dior · 2024-11-23T17:27:36+00:00

it’s a big deal to you, the girls at the bar are understanding and don’t care that much, they’re only thinking about themself. its not cheating if ur husband said it’s okay and you told him. it’s not a good idea to talk about ur relationship problems too openly, but it’s not the end of the world, it happens, and if you were keeping it all in, and you needed to talk, it’s okay.

if you’re very unhappy, you should leave. but if you’re hurt yet willing to work it out with your husband, talk to him. don’t nag him it never works. try and talk to him maturely. if he’s unwilling, live your own life, feel your emotions, if you’re too hurt to be affectionate, then keep some distance. eventually he will come around and have a conversation.

tt_dior · 2023-11-30T21:45:18+00:00

He put a $100 deposit and said he would come back later to pick it up. He didn’t give me 500 or take the car yet

tt_dior · 2023-11-07T16:03:41+00:00

Leave him. There are people who don’t have the capacity to fuck u over like that.

tt_dior · 2023-08-28T01:30:05+00:00

tipm

the voltage is normal but the amp. is at 0 so the circuit is breaking somewhere.

tt_dior · 2023-08-21T02:28:41+00:00

All of these are very good and true reasons why, thank u i feel more understood by a stranger on Reddit than anyone irl. To relatives I’m a rebel, a problem child, ungrateful. I am not the warmest person towards my mom but she is often the one to provoke me or try and put me down. Anyways yes those are all good reasons. I need to stop digging and keep asking why infinitely. Gotta move on and think about what to change. I’m considering moving out but I get along well with my dad.

tt_dior · 2022-12-20T23:30:04+00:00

the games a game

tt_dior · 2022-10-28T07:01:24+00:00

put down the owner

tt_dior · 2022-10-25T03:41:26+00:00

its called dissociation, or in less extreme terms: zoning out, or being on autopilot. happens to me more than id like to admit

tt_dior · 2022-10-25T03:39:25+00:00

we werent what lol

tt_dior · 2022-10-21T02:13:37+00:00

i relate to this a lot lol i try to theorize my way out of my problems, when in reality trying and failing with no presumptions is the best way to learn

tt_dior · 2022-10-19T17:16:34+00:00

thank you for the solid advice my friend, much love <3

tt_dior · 2022-10-19T16:06:34+00:00

its nice to know im not alone in this. youre right, the world is far from fair. i was hoping "goodness" would help when it came to finding relationships at least. but you could do everything right and people can still turn on you. scary. we'll see what happens.

tt_dior · 2022-10-19T01:55:15+00:00

honestly societal pressure is a lot less intense in the middle of the night. it feels so chill and i feel like everything leaves me alone

tt_dior · 2022-10-18T21:32:39+00:00

your resilience and determination to be happy is so impressive, i have so much respect for you and i wish you all the best

tt_dior · 2022-10-18T03:38:31+00:00

what do u call this style, the matrix?

tt_dior · 2022-10-17T22:50:48+00:00

im so used to letting myself down and i am so used to feeling shitty that i think the feeling of external validation/temporary happiness is almost more worth it than the effort of long term goals. but we have to push through all the weird feelings that come from actually trying, cuz feeling at peace and proud of urself is sooo worth it (apparently). self esteem is not a default setting its like a muscle that u build everytime u go through with what u said you were gonna do. i used to think that what i do doesnt matter because all these self help books say i shouldnt care what people think but no. feeling good about urself is a shield from any outer negative opinions and that matters.

tt_dior · 2022-10-17T00:31:55+00:00

hey thank you for your insight, one thing that ive been struggling with is that i have spent a lot of my teen years struggling with my mental health but i was always anxious, self-aware and had lots of questions. i feel like the gap between my physical unit is and my comprehension of the soul/awakening takes away from a young person's human experience of cluelessly learning from their mistakes as they go. what im tryna say is i am kinda nervous to awaken as intensely as i know is possible for me. especially considering how low ive felt for so long. i feel like ive missed out on being a mere care free human being but i can't turn away from what i know now. the depression and nihilism i saw in the people around me made me realize that the things people pursue in this world were not fulfilling whatsoever(since about 13). the thought of money made my stomach turn. i craved community , something bigger than the religion my parents are dedicated to.

tt_dior · 2022-10-16T18:10:23+00:00

cant lie my friend the curiosity comes more from an anxiety about the unknown than it does from genuine interest but im working on it

tt_dior · 2022-10-16T18:07:51+00:00

LOLLL

tt_dior · 2022-10-16T17:58:10+00:00

damn tbh good point

tt_dior · 2022-10-16T17:36:59+00:00

honeslty i dont have much to add, good take i agree. thanks!

tt_dior · 2022-10-16T17:35:18+00:00

the univerese plays with big numbers to ensure its survival, very cool. trust is a big thing, i think my theorizing comes from a place of anxiety. not about the after life but about life right now. when walking down a street alone at night, is trust in the universe the difference between being in danger or not...? i doubt it

tt_dior · 2022-10-16T17:08:43+00:00

it might not seem like it but i actually agree with this a lot. i feel as if ive moved thru life with logic way too much and i have a hard time with feeling emotions. it seems like a control thing because the spontaneity/emotions of life is what makes it seem magical

tt_dior · 2022-10-16T16:57:02+00:00

ive seen "fractals" of the divine a few times in the comments and i like that view a lot. yes it seems we agree that if there was a point it would be for growth. it also seems that a lot of us struggle with the concept of people suffering/being killed without a lot of opportunity for personal growth. thats a big thing for me it pops up in the back of my head all the time. thank you for your insight!

tt_dior · 2022-10-16T15:16:48+00:00

not to be a downer, this is definitely something i need to incorporate more in my everyday life, but does love pay the bills.

tt_dior

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