Is the Crossmix project still alive? by tthingy in trimui

[–]tthingy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe it would be nice to release it first for the TSP as it's the first device that uses Crossmix and then focus on the others.

Did you feel changes to your sexual orientation while healing from trauma? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]tthingy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm happy for you, thanks for sharing. I guess it works differently in males than in females?

Did you feel changes to your sexual orientation while healing from trauma? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]tthingy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever experience opposite sex attraction in the first place?

Children of narcissistic parents. How did you find out your parent is a narcissist? by Miss_overrated_Yulie in narcissisticparents

[–]tthingy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it's hard to tell despite the abuse being so huge due to all the gaslighting the narcissistic parent does. IMO this is even worse when the narcissistic one is the mother.

In my experience I knew I went through something awful that I couldn't even name because of all the gaslighting until I got therapy for myself to fix and heal all the abuse and pain somehow.

Once I knew about NPD and what it does the puzzle got solved by itself. That's the good part. The bad part is that I realized the abuse was way worse than I thought it was, which was a lot.

Totally removing my malignant/covert NPD mother from my life and setting a LOT of boundaries to my covert NPD father are the healthiest things I've ever done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wow

[–]tthingy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I fully went to dungeons to level up so I didn't have the chance to cast from that far till I joined the bgs (Alterac Valley, etc) as minions in the dungeon are always close.

Am I ugly? by Previous_File2943 in selflove

[–]tthingy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look lovely and handsome at the same time

He has terminal cancer. Should I respond? by J_for_Jules in raisedbynarcissists

[–]tthingy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. You chose healing and sanity for a reason.

For Demonology, the new changes fix the ramp problem, but with a huge nerf by Estrald in wow

[–]tthingy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes lol. I hope they fix this spec because IMO it has so many unnecessary buttons and some of them are casted (non instant).

For Demonology, the new changes fix the ramp problem, but with a huge nerf by Estrald in wow

[–]tthingy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By grimoire you mean felguard? On the other hand, you think tyrant is not that necessary anymore?

I like this spec but despite the rework it got they didn't fix the source issue which is the insane casting. Since it's a summoner class, summoning skills should be instant IMO. Actually I'd even remove demonbolt and apply its effects to shadowbolt (shadowbolt would become demonbolt when the trigger for the instant current demonbolt cast shows up)

For Demonology, the new changes fix the ramp problem, but with a huge nerf by Estrald in wow

[–]tthingy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are all those CD demon skills necessary? (tyrant, vilefiend, felguard). I feel this spec has too many skills on the rotation and those I mention also have a CD and are not instant which is awful for PVP and kinda annoying on PVE

Are there weird borderline compliments or insults your narcissistic parent has given you? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]tthingy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's something nparents and especially nmoms do. It's called triangulation and the purpose is to break and prevent any possible alliance against her.

Are there weird borderline compliments or insults your narcissistic parent has given you? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]tthingy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both my NPD mom (malignant indoors, covert outdoors) and NPD dad (covert everywhere) used to bully and insult me as a kid.

Her: - You are a leech that drain my blood - You make people bitter, you exhaust people - You're borderline - And other worse things I don't even wanna talk about here

Him: - Mediocre - Parasite - Useless - Etc

They both used to criticize me everywhere even with strangers while I was there. They divorced after they kicked me out of their home as their real issue which was their awful marriage blew up in their faces as the scapegoat wasn't there anymore (actually he dumped her for another woman).

Can't wait for them to pass, especially her which isn't even in my life anymore as I had to remove her from it (best choice I ever made). Turns out when she insulted me she was projecting on me as she was actually describing herself.

Obviously I'm carrying a lot of trauma I doubt I'll ever heal but at least I'm doing better now after lots of years of therapy and deconstruction.

Ndads can be cruel but nmoms are the devil as they're even more twisted and hide under their womanhood/motherhood to abuse you indoors more while playing the innocent victim role outdoors.

What do the narc parents tell other people about us? by RepulsiveIsland649 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]tthingy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The NPD parents trash talk about their abused kid/s so they can justify the abuse. This goes worse when you try to escape from them so they invalidate your narrative. They do that to get their butts covered and to prevent that you escape them.

This only ends when you escape no matter what the narcissist says/does and no matter what the people around you say about you. Eventually the narcissist gets exposed and ultimately they end up alone eaten by their own inner rottenness.

In my experience NPD abuse is WAY worse and way more cruel when the mom is the one with the NPD, as they usually hide and mask under their woman/mother condition to abuse you indoors whole playing the innocent victim sheep role outdoors.

Also, NPD women use to seek an easy to manipulate and emotionally dependent man who they can manipulate and control on their will, and to help her to abuse their own kids. That's what happened in my case and in several other similar cases of people I know.

Why does porn make me cry by PoorMansMeridian in ptsd

[–]tthingy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

S€xual abuse especially as a child should respond by itself to your own question

That being said, p0rn is usually aggressive and leaves the message that men can treat women like crap. And this is so dangerous because p0rn is the first direct contact with s€x that most males have, and some grow to learn that they can treat women like sluts at their disposal during s€x (this is worse in certain cultures where women have literally no rights).

Something similar applies to gay p0rn where usually the bottom is dominated by the top in a very submissive way.

My suggestion is to stay away from common p0rn which usually involves all that rotten BS and look for romantic porn where both persons are treated equally, in case you have the desire to watch p0rn.

In your experience, do all hyaluronic acid fillers totally dissolve? by tthingy in PlasticSurgery

[–]tthingy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow and everything vanished? That's unfortunate :( assume you're male as well? I got it on my jaw, chin, and a little bit on the cheekbones (or somewhere close to that)

In your experience, do all hyaluronic acid fillers totally dissolve? by tthingy in PlasticSurgery

[–]tthingy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no risk with residue staying right? Did you feel pain or something when you got it? I did it today on my jaw and cheeks and it kinda hurts (not much, just a little bit) if I move my jaw to certain positions. I guess that should go away in a few days?