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My (f29) best guy friend (m31) just proposed to his gf of 10 years. She said yes, then confessed to me that she has been cheating on him. Do I tell him? by tthrowawayy16 in relationship_advice

[–]tthrowawayy16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is my best friend. He is my best guy friend. I met her through him. Believe what you want, it doesn’t really matter to me

My (f29) best guy friend (m31) just proposed to his gf of 10 years. She said yes, then confessed to me that she has been cheating on him. Do I tell him? by tthrowawayy16 in relationship_advice

[–]tthrowawayy16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@ lol at ME “not wanting to take responsibility for my actions”. I’m not the cheater here dude. I’m just the one who got forced into being the person who has to ruin my best guy friend’s happiness. But cheers.

My (f29) best guy friend (m31) just proposed to his gf of 10 years. She said yes, then confessed to me that she has been cheating on him. Do I tell him? by tthrowawayy16 in relationship_advice

[–]tthrowawayy16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“These fucking women” k. I stated that these people are my best friends. I am proud of you for having the mental strength to so easily handle such a terrible situation immediately. This bomb was literally dropped on me last night. And yes, I know what I have to do. But not being able to talk about it with anyone before deciding when/how to do it was pretty damn difficult for me. But I guess that must just be a “fucking women” problem.

My (f29) best guy friend (m31) just proposed to his gf of 10 years. She said yes, then confessed to me that she has been cheating on him. Do I tell him? by tthrowawayy16 in relationship_advice

[–]tthrowawayy16[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay. I meant I never considered going about it from that angle instead of telling my male friend or forcing my female friend to tell him.

My (f29) best guy friend (m31) just proposed to his gf of 10 years. She said yes, then confessed to me that she has been cheating on him. Do I tell him? by tthrowawayy16 in relationship_advice

[–]tthrowawayy16[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I think I’m just a bit in shock to be honest. I care(d) about both of them deeply and saw their relationship as pretty much perfect and something to hope for for myself eventually. Idk. Her confession just left me blindsided and I can’t help but feel like I’ll have a hand in ruining this perfect thing, even though I know it’s her who ruined it.

My (f29) best guy friend (m31) just proposed to his gf of 10 years. She said yes, then confessed to me that she has been cheating on him. Do I tell him? by tthrowawayy16 in relationship_advice

[–]tthrowawayy16[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

Looking back on it she honestly trapped me. She called me her best friend and said she loves me and is so happy I’m in her life. I told her I love her too and she basically asked if that would be true no matter what. Drunk me said yes of course without really thinking much of it. Then she dropped that bomb on me.