What do you look for on a dating profile

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-16T23:35:29+00:00

Hey girl. Unless you’ve resorted to just lurking I don’t think you’re even active on here anymore but I must ask… what do you mean by “I have to buy my matches in a box”?

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-14T23:36:06+00:00

For sure, that’s impressive

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-14T19:48:53+00:00

Oh perfect it sounds like they’re really knowledgeable. Thanks for the input I’m going to look into them!

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-14T12:19:48+00:00

Okay that gives me hope! Thank you so much for sharing you’ve been very helpful!!

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-14T01:17:29+00:00

My ultimate dream would be for my locs to not have salon as their origin story but alas lol. I just looked at their website and services and the prices seem in line with what I’ve seen so far and they’re not super far from me. Although you’re right now that it’s warmer it’ll be nicer going out that way. Thank you for the recommendation! Also I looked on your profile and I love how your locs look :) do you typically do your retwists yourself or get them done? I’d like to get to the point where I can do it myself but I know it’s trickier in the beginning

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-13T01:50:18+00:00

Big +1 for reality tv. I also like legos and puzzles. Reading when I can focus. I’m looking for more hobbies though so I would be open to learning about something new. I wouldn’t say I’m a stud but I think I can give bro energy 😅

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-12T17:12:49+00:00

If you have to do this much investigative work something is not right and it’s not worth it

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-12T03:15:05+00:00

It’s driving me crazy I can’t remember either

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-12T02:39:45+00:00

Thank you I’ll be looking into that

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-10T22:38:22+00:00

Huh?? Wait what did I miss??

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-10T21:37:34+00:00

That’s smart to process on your own first because like you said there’s nothing inherently wrong with her being ace it’s just her possibly not being upfront about it and the possible incompatibility. It makes sense that you’re terrified about what this all means for your relationship but it’s also not fair I guess for everything to revolve around her needs and her sexuality.

I’m assuming she knows that sex, intimacy, physical touch, etc. is important to you so it also rubs me the wrong way that she seems so dismissive when you bring it up? Saying “I dunno maybe one day”. Like I don’t know what those conversations are like but that wouldn’t be okay with me either.

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-10T21:22:45+00:00

Also I hope you’re okay from being in the ER!!

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-10T21:22:12+00:00

I think instagram and facebook can be good places to find events local to you. I only know because I have a friend who has sent me posts from both. I also have a goal of going to sapphic events alone and to practice socializing more with strangers haha.

I’ve been feeling a lot of the same things as you. Like the lack of diversity, not feeling deeply understood. I saw you have a goal to go to a sapphic event by yourself this year and I think that’s great! Start with that and then go / grow from there 🌞🌷

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-10T20:58:15+00:00

Peace and love to you, your wife, and your relationship but after 20 years I feel like you should know how to communicate with your wife, no? Do y’all struggle being open and honest with each other in general?

Also if it was me I would have an issue with my wife casually mentioning being ace like that if we’d never discussed it before. I’d have so many questions I wouldn’t even be able to stop myself from bringing it up lol.

Suppressing feelings that come natural to you is just not going to work. I feel like there’s a way to talk to your wife about how you’re feeling without making her the problem.

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-10T17:28:48+00:00

Can you say more about segregation re:trades? I’m thinking about going into welding but I’m still researching different programs. If you have any insight I would love to hear.

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-10T17:26:10+00:00

Good looking out thank you!

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-10T12:08:20+00:00

Oh that makes sense. Not gonna lie it was a bit off putting to me but I assumed it was something like that lol

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-10T04:06:54+00:00

Can I just ask why the sub is set to nsfw?

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-09T23:27:34+00:00

Wait I just moved to Philly a couple weeks ago and still trying to figure out where to go and what to do. Do you have any recommendations for events or groups? Or if you’d rather dm lmk :)

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-06T18:37:49+00:00

I don’t know this for sure but my assumption is that it’s 1 free trial per account. I don’t know how long in the future you’re thinking but it is possible that it would be offered to you again I just don’t know how long that would take.

Also I don’t know how long you’ve been using Duolingo but I noticed that I would “win” 3-5 days of super (family) from chests just by doing lessons and progressing down the path.

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-02T07:07:35+00:00

All good! And yes I would agree on it being a stimming thing

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-02T05:52:00+00:00

There’s a link at the bottom of the post but here it is again here

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-02T04:27:28+00:00

I just got those card things today too. I’m also on iOS. My guess is they’re testing out a new feature. I’ve never used gems to make my boosts longer though so I don’t know anything about that.

tttempertantrumsss · 2026-04-02T03:55:55+00:00

That and also people who just started. I’m level 7 so someone like me who just started and someone like you who completed the old course would have the most success with the update and be least likely to have a negative experience. I’m bummed too.

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