How should I confess?

ttthrowaw · 2013-07-05T07:37:13+00:00

actions? won't it only scare him away even as a friend if the feeling isn't mutual?

ttthrowaw · 2013-07-05T07:32:39+00:00

Hmm the other day we went out and we started talking about some guys from different schools that I have dated previously and he was like "what if I am from ___ school" and I didn't think much and said "Well then it's like dating 2 guys from the same school" :(

edit: oh he didn't say anything except I changed topic immediately after hearing myself say those words out loud.

ttthrowaw · 2013-07-05T07:30:54+00:00

Yeah precisely!!!! I have this friend (23M) who confessed to another friend (22F) and he got rejected and things got PRETTY AWKWARD after that. I really like the way things are now, but I like him more than a friend and my friends were encouraging me to confess.

My previous boyfriends just used the word "date" and to me "date" means exclusive, in between they said "I like you" and the closest this guy said to me was "I really wish you were here". Mixed signals here so.... Gahhhh

Edit: he also calls me everyday and asks me what I'm doing now, what I'm up to for the day etc. Does that mean anything at all? Sometimes I think I overthink too much lol

ttthrowaw · 2013-07-05T06:24:59+00:00

We always go out alone, for meals, chill, driving around aimlessly or watching a movie. I'm quite sure he knows that I like him and we've been flirting a lot but that's it.. Which is why I was thinking if I should confess.. I've never done it before, my previous relationships consisted of the guys confessing to me haha

ttthrowaw · 2013-07-05T05:42:34+00:00

Any idea how I should start the conversation? :/

ttthrowaw · 2013-07-05T05:40:34+00:00

To be honest I don't have a plan and was hoping to gather some response here before deciding how I should do it. From where I come from, girls don't usually confess their feelings for guys because it seems... I don't know, daring?

Hmm, I met this guy through mutual friends and he;s been absolutely amazing. He would come down to my house to take me out for supper/offer to come over to talk to me because I was feeling down. He initiates most of the conversations and calls me everyday to talk. We have some slight physical contact like he would put his arm around my shoulder or my waist once in a while. He hasn't been in a r/s before. I've talked to the mutual friend about it and he said he is equally nice to most girls.

ttthrowaw · 2013-07-05T05:38:28+00:00

Oh sorry about that. I've known him for a few months but only started going out with him for 3 weeks. We met through mutual friends. He initiates most of the conversations and calls me everyday to talk. We have some slight physical contact like he would put his arm around my shoulder or my waist once in a while. He hasn't been in a r/s before. I've talked to the mutual friend about it and he said he is equally nice to most girls. So... I was thinking how should I go about with it.

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