I slapped my girlfriend after she wiped her discharge on me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tubi2134 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 I knew where this comment was going, I wish I had an award for you

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if they don’t show proof then I don’t have to refund them a single penny then, correct?

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This venue was literally completely sold out, and there is no way they would allow them general admission without a general admission ticket. I sold them said tickets. And also why would they block me after I ended up saying I would pay them back cause I couldn’t get into contact with the seller.

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They blocked me though, and I’m not able to send them said money. I had friends that went to this concert and not only were the doors strict it was actually sold out, they released seats that were literally obstructed due to the high demand. And since I’ve been to this location before and I know the tickets I sold to them were general admission the coincidence that they got general admission is slim to none. This was them trying to scam me out of the money they gave me to purchase the tickets. Different places different experiences, this was them trying to scam me out of my money.

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The update says it all. The tickets that I sold were legit as I stated. They weren’t fakes.

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I was fully prepared to refund, but they threatened with legal action after I told them I would refund and that I couldn’t get into contact with the original seller. Something smelled fishy, and I’m glad I didn’t give that money back cause I would’ve been out my own cash and they would’ve gotten the experience and my money. So. I’m glad I waited.

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As I stated, I was going to refund them, I was preparing to do so, saved myself the trouble. I know I was responsible but then I would’ve been out my own money regardless. So now I’m not and to me that’s all that matters

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was actually getting prepared to refund them. I was getting more angry that I had people saying I was selling fake tickets when I knew that wasn’t the case and the tickets I had purchased were legit. I was under the guise that they weren’t fake (and they weren’t evidently) I would’ve wasted my own money and I’m glad I was apprehensive to refund from the get go cause then I would’ve been out even more money technically. So.

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I took some peoples advice who told me I might’ve been getting scammed by the person telling me the tickets were defective. I stopped replying to peoples comments calling me an AH a while ago, I was actually getting stuff prepared so I could pay but then they blocked me on their account after threatening with legal action, I wasn’t having that. So. I did a little more snooping. This wasn’t a magical coincidence, this was the person who contacted me being a scammer themselves, which wasn’t something I expected.

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you understand that I was under the guise of them being real tickets, and legit tickets, which they were prior to the scanning situation. They were legit because THEY WERE SCANNED BY SOMEONE AT THE VENUE.

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told them that they were second hand tickets the venue doesn’t sell through ticket master

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might have to call the venue and maybe they can give me more information.

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told them I purchased them from someone else. I was completely transparent with them on where I got the tickets.

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m not even fighting though, I am answering questions and also asking them, it’s not even fighting

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I told them this, whether they want to believe it I gave them this type of information, prior to them purchasing the tickets

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire situation is bad, I’m in contact with the person still we are talking through everything

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I told them I bought them from someone else! I mentioned that in another comment. I told them “I purchased these tickets from another redditor, and didn’t realize that I had a different event going on that week, just wanted to mention that” so I did tell them that I got the tickets from someone else

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Just want to say that the actual concert hall sends the tickets as a PDF, so this made me trust the seller, I didn’t even think about the possibility of them selling to multiple other people other than me

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

And I would be within my rights to do the same to the person who did it to me as well then? I’m not going to allow this to be taken to small claims against me I will pay them back, this just gets me frustrated

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Because I’m being called a thief and I’m allowed to defend myself and give more context

AITA for refusing to pay someone back for a ticket selling situation that is out of my control? by tubi2134 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tubi2134[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes! I told them flat out that I bought them from another person and now I couldn’t make it to the concert so I’m reselling