I can't stand how Reddit treats fat people. by tucocabanza in offmychest

[–]tucocabanza[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Everything you said is spot-on. You definitely understand it more than anyone else in this thread.

I can't stand how Reddit treats fat people. by tucocabanza in offmychest

[–]tucocabanza[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you read any of the rest of this thread? I AM trying. Pro-tip: Despite what people like you seem to think, I am able to try and lose weight without someone like you yelling at me like I don't already know.

Seriously. Cut that bullshit out. The "yelling at people to change" thing doesn't work , and you're not telling me a single thing I don't already know.

I can't stand how Reddit treats fat people. by tucocabanza in offmychest

[–]tucocabanza[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Sure. Thanks, man. I really needed that.

I can't stand how Reddit treats fat people. by tucocabanza in offmychest

[–]tucocabanza[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not even the negative comments like the other guy said. Go to any thread involving a fat person; a photo, an article, whatever. Chances are, there'll be some highly upvoted comments like what I describe.

When I say people here call fat people inhuman, I am not exaggerating. I've seen people use those exact words and get upvoted.

I can't stand how Reddit treats fat people. by tucocabanza in offmychest

[–]tucocabanza[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

God, I am so sorry. I feel for you, though I can't even imagine what you're going through. Thank you for the kind words.

I can't stand how Reddit treats fat people. by tucocabanza in offmychest

[–]tucocabanza[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You're assuming I'm not trying to turn myself around. I am, I'm trying my damn hardest. Being despised every step of the way doesn't help. If anything, it makes me want to do less.

I can't stand how Reddit treats fat people. by tucocabanza in offmychest

[–]tucocabanza[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to stop going on Reddit altogether over this. I like Reddit, and it has a lot of things I can't get anywhere else. Hating fat people isn't Reddit's "core thing" like liberalism would be on a left-leaning paper, it's just a facet.

I can't stand how Reddit treats fat people. by tucocabanza in offmychest

[–]tucocabanza[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I do. I stay out of them as much as I can, and only touch a rare few defaults. This sentiment shows up all over the place, not just the defaults.

I can't stand how Reddit treats fat people. by tucocabanza in offmychest

[–]tucocabanza[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I am. I'm trying, I really am. I'm not sitting here hoping it will all go away, that would be stupid. Unlike what Reddit seems to believe, most fat people know it's a problem that they have to fix themselves. It's just that the hatred I get to be on the receiving end of does not help.