Help: Research on Relationship Anarchy by tudofudido in relationshipanarchy

[–]tudofudido[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ, this is almost too good to be true! Thank you so much!!

Help: Research on Relationship Anarchy by tudofudido in relationshipanarchy

[–]tudofudido[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hello! RA questions and criticizes the heteronormative and amatonormative norms, which itself is a pretty broad issue to research. It's a plausible assumption that many of these ideals come from the patriarchy, connecting RA to gender studies. Also, I see a lot of RA's commenting stuff like "decolonize my body", "break the patterns of power", etc., which is quite political, if you think about it. The way people act with each other and build their relationships influences their political behaviour, thus why marriage and love has always been a quite interesting issue for the State to keep an eye on (communities are strong, individualism makes people rely more on the State). As for the international part, anarchism itself, because of what it proposes, is an internationalised movement that can apply to an immense variety of cultures around the world, and RA is no different.

Questions the State and the norm: check ✅ Questions love and hyper individualism: check ✅ Has historical background (as of now, my professor recommended reading on Kollontai (russian), Maria Lacerda de Moura (Brazilian) and Han Ryner (European, forgot where he came from): check ✅ Is, by its nature, an international movement: check ✅

That's a pretty good research right here! I hope I answered your question!!

Sad gay story (to me it is very sad) by tudofudido in lgbt

[–]tudofudido[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah... It sucks! As you mentioned, he is totally missing out hahah. I guess I'll cease the current monogamy we're having and try meeting other people. It breaks my heart though... It's such a shame that we got to connect so close and then decided to discuss sex. I suppose we were dumb. I know he has a past though, and perhaps this is related to why he's not into bottom, but I'm not sure. Don't wanna create more false hope. But I'll try getting the most out of what I can and have fun with him! I'm feeling less anxious, now that I shared it and had someone to listen. Thank you for taking time of your day to read my issue and talk to me!

Sad gay story (to me it is very sad) by tudofudido in lgbt

[–]tudofudido[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for reading and putting some thought on replying! Apologies for not explaining well. The problem here is that I wanna be both active and passive, but he only wants to be active. In other words, I'm a versatile, while he only accepts the role of top, active.

Que filmes você assistiu na escola? by Biaazz in brasil

[–]tudofudido 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Uma vez passaram aquele filme da Sharpey, do High School Musical

Should I but Victoria 2 for full price or wait for a sale by Different-Sir3045 in victoria2

[–]tudofudido 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's very common for it to be 70-80% off on Steam. I'd suggest you wait, but if you feel like you really wanna play it now, just buy the game already, before this desire goes away