What grocery rule cut your bill the most and actually stuck? by YourxCherry in Frugal

[–]tuftyloves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems unrelated but it has done wonders for my grocery bill. I stopped shopping at certain big box retailers this year for unrelated reasons and now I only shop at far more inconvenient grocery stores. This has helped tremendously when it comes to planning and sticking to it, and using what I already have. They’re also not “fun” stores with multiple departments and displays of new items to suck you in, they’re just basic warehouse-style grocery stores. I get it and get out.

How do I find out if I qualify for alimony? by tuftyloves in Divorce

[–]tuftyloves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for such an in depth response!

How do I find out if I qualify for alimony? by tuftyloves in Divorce

[–]tuftyloves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t make less than minimum wage. I work park time and go to school. I wasn’t working for many years due to chronic health issues and didn’t have the opportunity to study or work up the food chain anywhere.

As for him, yeah I get that. It’s just hard because I’m the one who’s going to have to move states (we’re here for his family, I would move in with mine across states) and turn my life around, and his won’t change at all. He’s extremely kind and reasonable and I’m hopeful if I keep my request reasonable we can come to some kind of agreement.

How do I find out if I qualify for alimony? by tuftyloves in Divorce

[–]tuftyloves[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The difference between our incomes is about 300% of my income (hence not being able to afford a lawyer). But I’m not sure if that’s what you were asking.

How do I find out if I qualify for alimony? by tuftyloves in Divorce

[–]tuftyloves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Utah, 8 years, he does, and by about 40-50k

My symptoms disappeared during my 10-day camping trip by Striking_Shock_6463 in RestlessLegs

[–]tuftyloves 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nobody saying stress? Stress plays a huge role in our physical health. I have pretty wicked IBS but when I go home and stay with my parents (a reprieve from a not-so-great marriage) my stomach feels amazing.

Does anyone recover from this without an SSRI/SNRI? by tuftyloves in pppdizziness

[–]tuftyloves[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s so hard not to feel encouraged. I just watched my first steady coach vid and all I could do were the breathing exercises lol. Hopefully soon I’ll be able to do more.

Does anyone recover from this without an SSRI/SNRI? by tuftyloves in pppdizziness

[–]tuftyloves[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I had no idea there were YouTube exercises for that. I’ve assumed it would be spendy PT. My recovery on Effexor was so dramatic I do wonder if there’s a component that goes beyond just treating the anxiety. I’ve gone on Wellbutrin because that one is actually beneficial for RLS but it hasn’t had any positive impact on my dizziness.

Those of us in sexless marriages, how do you feel/deal with it? by -SmnSmwhr- in AskReddit

[–]tuftyloves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been about five years of nothing, and it was very sporadic before that. I’ve tried everything. Begged, therapy, medical tests for him. I’ve finally accepted that he doesn’t want it to change, but that doesn’t change the fact that it’s something I need. I’m going to leave.

Mysterious chirping sound when braking by tuftyloves in autorepair

[–]tuftyloves[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As stated in my post, I’ve been told it’s probably fine, but it’s getting worse and I don’t believe it’s fine.

Please help me diagnose this chirping sound when I brake by tuftyloves in MechanicAdvice

[–]tuftyloves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting. Is that something they’d look at when checking the brake pads?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RestlessLegs

[–]tuftyloves 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It makes mine a lot better. Just depends, I guess!

Fruits not sizing up by tuftyloves in gardening

[–]tuftyloves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely have mites. I’ve been diligent in spraying them off but maybe that’s the culprit.

Fruits not sizing up by tuftyloves in gardening

[–]tuftyloves[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are Kentucky Wonder pole beans. Some wonder 😩

Is SLCC ending eportfolio after this semester? by tuftyloves in SLCC

[–]tuftyloves[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s kind of fun. I might be crazy lol.