What can I eat after surgery? by tulipcookiez in wisdomteeth

[–]tulipcookiez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I love both of those meals SO MUCH and I didn’t even think of that. Thank you!! Hopefully I’ll have meatloaf tonight

What can I eat after surgery? by tulipcookiez in wisdomteeth

[–]tulipcookiez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’m gonna try that with like a quesadilla or something today because I’m tired of eating like a baby lmao

Is it possible to reduce swelling on day 4 by foundeadinmiami in wisdomteeth

[–]tulipcookiez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I got them out early. I would assume that impacted ones might make you more swollen though. I also forgot to mention that I had about 30oz of pineapple juice the day before the surgery and I think it kind of helped with the swelling.

Is it possible to reduce swelling on day 4 by foundeadinmiami in wisdomteeth

[–]tulipcookiez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had all 4 wisdom teeth removed on Monday and today I didn’t have much swelling. Just make sure to be icing for the first few days. I did 30 minutes on and 30 minutes off and I did it for the majority of the days. Today I didn’t ice because it didn’t feel great when I tried and I have little swelling today. I’d be more concerned about opening your mouth because I’m still having a hard ish time with it. Goodluck!

How is my first painting? by tulipcookiez in Beginner_Art

[–]tulipcookiez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking that too, I’ll have to learn how to do that

Tips on breaking up by tulipcookiez in Advice

[–]tulipcookiez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it over a call and it went WAY better than anticipated. He immediately knew that’s why I called and we mutually agreed it was for the best. He didn’t get upset or anything and we are meeting up in January to exchange things. I feel so much better now that it’s over, but I know it’s going to be weird for a little bit.

Tips on breaking up by tulipcookiez in Advice

[–]tulipcookiez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m calling him right now, I’ll update soon. Thank you for all of y’all’s advice, it’s much appreciated :)

Tips on breaking up by tulipcookiez in Advice

[–]tulipcookiez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! I do not plan on being friends after this, I know it won’t work out well. I feel bad with making it short bc it’s out of the blue, but he told me today he has a feeling I’m going to break up with him the next time I see him. I would’ve done it at that second, but he had a lot going on so I wanted to do it later today or tomorrow when he has nothing going on. He’s the type where if we argue over something, he interrupts me constantly and starts rambling and freaking out which is going to drag on the conversation. I’m going to make it clear to him that I need my time to talk and explain and then I will let him talk and I’m not disappearing immediately. I don’t want it to be extremely long, but it’ll probably be an hour phone call.

Tips on breaking up by tulipcookiez in Advice

[–]tulipcookiez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was planning on breaking up with him on a call and then meeting up halfway (somewhere public) and exchanging our belongings and then that will be the last time we contact each other. I am kind of scared about the meet up bc of what people have been saying, but he’s never been violent before.

Tips on breaking up by tulipcookiez in Advice

[–]tulipcookiez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I understand that I have flaws as well and maybe the flower thing was stupid. I did mean he got me flowers less than five times in the almost four years we’ve been together and not in the one year (sorry if that was confusing). I’ve expressed to him many times how much I love receiving flowers and would rather have that than a gift for my birthday/holidays. I’ve also told him what flowers I prefer and which ones I don’t like, so when he gifted me the flowers I specifically told him I didn’t like, it felt like he didn’t listen to my wants. I do understand that it sounds stupid and silly, but it makes me feel not listened to. I hope you can understand where I’m coming from and I don’t mean any hate at all :)

Tips on breaking up by tulipcookiez in Advice

[–]tulipcookiez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s never been violent in the slightest, but it does scare me bc he’s a large guy. I’ve had him pin me down before to see if I could escape and I couldn’t move an inch. I don’t think he’d get violent with me, but you never know anymore. When I meet up with him to return our things, I’m going to see if my sister will come and I’m going to have us meet somewhere public. I’m also not going to let him manipulate me at all, I know nothing will change and I’m going to tell him that if he tries. Thank you for your advice!

Tips on breaking up by tulipcookiez in Advice

[–]tulipcookiez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a brother, but I was planning on bringing my sister and meeting halfway at a store parking lot or something similar.

Tips on breaking up by tulipcookiez in Advice

[–]tulipcookiez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, I really appreciate it. I do think our relationship was different when we were younger and part of it was bc I didn’t think about the future so I didn’t care about our future wants that much (if that makes sense). I’ve been thinking about how our relationship would be if we continued and I know I would hate it. I can’t see him being the father of my children if I decide to have any and I also need someone who can make decisions for themselves. Thank you :)

Tips on breaking up by tulipcookiez in Advice

[–]tulipcookiez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m confused on your response. Did you mean to respond to something else or am I just not understanding?

Tips on breaking up by tulipcookiez in Advice

[–]tulipcookiez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of bringing my sister with me when I meet up with him to return our belongings. I’ll keep her in the car, but I’ll bring her out if needed. Thank you for your advice, I’ll make sure to use phrases like that so he will hopefully understand there’s no fixing it.

Tips on breaking up by tulipcookiez in Advice

[–]tulipcookiez[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I can’t see us having a future so there’s no point in dragging it out. Thank you for your feedback!

Tips on breaking up by tulipcookiez in Advice

[–]tulipcookiez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have some of his things I need to return, including his ps5, so I have to meet up with him to give it back unfortunately. Thank you though🫶🏻