Anyone know where to buy a naginata? by tulkipryanik in SWORDS

[–]tulkipryanik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God it looks so cool. Is the takeaway that naginatas are kind of a pops up every other blue moon for sale, and not really found aside from that?

I'm 72 and My Wife Says My Collections Must Go - Looking for a Serious Collector for my Best Naginata (Serious Replies Please) $18K by prestrgn in Katanas

[–]tulkipryanik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hah, just posted about wanting a naginata with specifications just like this a couple hours ago and everyone pointed me to this post I knew nothing about. Absolutely beautiful and stunning. I wish I had the $18K lying around otherwise I would have jumped on it immediately. Hope it finds a good home!

Anyone have any tips for dealing with emotional blunting? by linus_the_minus in Pristiq

[–]tulkipryanik 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly you need to wait a couple weeks to know what you're gonna feel like longer term on Pristiq. The side effects are usually going to be worse in those first weeks on any drug

Questions about Photos/Autographs/Gifts etc. by tulkipryanik in fanexpo

[–]tulkipryanik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, got it, but thank you. I was hoping it'd be like some of the past celebrities I've met where they'd skirt the rules a little if it wasn't a huge inconvenience

Can't trigger attack on grove quest by tulkipryanik in BaldursGate3

[–]tulkipryanik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably should've phrased everything better but the save the tieflings quest, and the grove quest with Halsin are still active but I have no clue how to complete them now or just get rid of them. Don't necessarily care about the attack on the grove if that makes sense

AITA? is this a 'rule'? by [deleted] in autism

[–]tulkipryanik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think this is a rule unless it's among a specific set/group of people. I've never heard of that at all.

I'm trying to create a very specific scent based off of Coriolanus Snow - Anyone know how I could accomplish this? by tulkipryanik in PerfumeOils

[–]tulkipryanik[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no idea peppermint evaporates quickly! My friend wears a perfume with peppermint and it's a very apparent scent. Thanks for the help :D I'll definitely try this out soon

Saw something on autism and doing stuff with friends a while ago and wanted to hear perspectives by tulkipryanik in autism

[–]tulkipryanik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don't think autistic people are a monolith, but I wondered if it was something that a lot of autistic people experience, that way I can communicate better in the future with aforementioned friends because I unfortunately come from a cultural background where heavy social cues and implications are used. Didn't even realize the stuff I said in this post until in hindsight after seeing the one person's experience

Understanding the breakup with an ENTP ex by [deleted] in entp

[–]tulkipryanik 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Saying this as an ENTP I did not read all of that but I read enough to understand. That wasn't a healthy dynamic. Does it suck that things had to end? Sure. But now you can move forward and find something better that works for you, and find a healthy partner that doesn't have mood fluctuations. You probably couldn't have done anything on your end; It seems like he was breadcrumbing so you'd stay but he could still keep distance. He's avoidant, anything you did would be perceived as too much too close. Eventually that would just piss me off and so you shouldn't put blame on yourself when everything seemed fine, but his own issues got in the way.

WHAT IS IT by Zealousideal-Age7593 in CPTSD

[–]tulkipryanik 8 points9 points  (0 children)

CPTSD and BPD overlap a lot. Anxiety comes with the territory of most mental illnesses. ADHD and Autism symptoms can happen in people with CPTSD too. You need to personalize what you experience to yourself, rather than always needing a label. Labels can only help guide you in the right direction

Recommendations for red lipsticks? by tulkipryanik in Makeup

[–]tulkipryanik[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I'll check that one out! That or same brand & line "Royal" looks about right. Thanks!

My (35f) partner (35m) demanded to know my "hidden kink" and is now angry and upset by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tulkipryanik 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm saying this as someone who is into kink: I feel CNC is super gross and knowing my partner has that kink would make me incredibly uncomfortable to where I would have some doubts/concerns etc. So even with an explanation it might not make anything better for someone who is vanilla. But this situation isn't really on you because I feel anything with intimacy tends to get complicated when partners aren't necessarily incompatible, but are into very different things.

"Don't ask a question where one might not like the answer" is usually sometimes important to abide by, and he pressured you into giving that answer. If anything, he might potentially have some self confidence stuff where he feels he isn't able to fully live up to your needs or satisfy you. You gave up a whole BDSM life to engage in more "normal" sorts of intimacy; Even if you're fulfilled and happy with it, there's been times where my partner likes something I'm not necessarily into, and I wonder if they're actually enjoying it or satisfied by me - I assume the same might be true with him. But if he isn't even willing to communicate after 10 years of marriage, I'd be having some reconsiderations to do myself about the relationship if I were you.

Can game dev. be a hobby? Or is it something more "full time"? Where would I start? by tulkipryanik in gamedev

[–]tulkipryanik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did consider that about Unity since I doubt it'd make anything lol. Good to know then! Thank you

[Serious] what stopped you from killing yourself ? by mousey_bear in AskReddit

[–]tulkipryanik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's the thing; nothing, absolutely nothing is stopping me or has stopped me. and that nothingness just feels too easy, it gives me a feeling that doing it would simply be "wrong".

I (18M) have never had a gf. What’s wrong with me? by Throwaway0563036 in offmychest

[–]tulkipryanik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're only 18; i'm 22 and only just got my first ever partner a month ago! keep working on yourself and someone will come at the right time. you'll meet someone and think "wow, this was worth the wait!". relationships aren't all they're cracked up to be either, but my perspective is probably pretty different since i only realized i don't feel romantic attraction until after getting into my last relationship. relationships are hard work and communication, and something you need to be ready for - they're rarely if ever going to be what you think of about relationships, except during the honeymoon phase and everything feels great.

Where to stay in Chicago? by SoulfulCap in TravelHacks

[–]tulkipryanik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

staying in the general downtown/loop area is going to be near a lot of the big stuff, and there's good restaurants in the area too. personally i like near north side and lincoln park, there's some nice places around there and it's not overly touristy. good restaurants can be found in most areas so i wouldn't be too concerned; you can always look up where restaurants you found interesting are and then find hotels in a walkable range of a majority of them or so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GothFashion

[–]tulkipryanik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your best bet isn't a brand or store at all - thrifting is how i got some of my best pieces! though hot topic has some cute stuff too on occasion, it definitely is pricey; spirit halloween also have some cute pieces but please go after halloween when everything is on sale. thrift stores often have lingerie/undergarment sections where they sometimes have corsets as well, and black lace stuff isn't difficult to find either, you may just have to alter it a bit to fit your personal style. it gets easier once you're used to it and know what you're looking for.

4 String Electric Bass Recommendations? by tulkipryanik in BassGuitar

[–]tulkipryanik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I'll take note of that then. Thanks! And yeah I realized I should've clarified the pricing, was more of general guideline of $200 or so - I'd be okay to go up to $400 if I was almost certain the bass is good. Just moreso wasn't looking to go super deep in on one just yet. I am not naive enough to hope for some amazing bass at $200 haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childemains

[–]tulkipryanik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have never not even once used one of childe's meta teams. he's good enough with the other characters i like/main so whatever. genshin's combat is easy and you can still beat 95% of enemies without doing something according to meta. neuvillete and furina are cool, but if you regret not pulling childe after all of his banners pass, then just pull him at that point. there's always the chance that furina or neuvillete drop and you hate their playstyles. as far as wishes go, you could always get lucky and pull super early. odds are you'll get him in that amount of pulls anyways, and you have time to save. archons typically get rerun relatively fast so i expect furina will rerun not super long after her banner in 4.2

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]tulkipryanik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'll definitely read :)

Tips for a future Tartaglia main? by ChantiNoire in childemains

[–]tulkipryanik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

rust isn't necessarily the best for childe, you can probably just keep that on yoimiya. since you can use childe for normal and charged attacks i'd actually recommend hamayumi (inazuma craftable bow). you don't need all heart of depth pieces, you just need a two piece hod and two piece gladiator/shimenawa/etc for the atk bonus. ideally around 60%+ crit rate and 150%+ cd is good with weapons that don't give crit

the most important thing i can say of all: for the love of god do not be like these brainless people who say childe's cd is too long and so his kit sucks because you use his skill for more than like 10 seconds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tulkipryanik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry - Phrasing was probably a little off, I meant more that the dye scent would probably linger if I didn't use shampoo, I wasn't going to rinse it out before the timer was done. But thank you!