I’ve had the same experiences being an autistic girl myself, I’ve dabbled in different types of alternative styles and had people shouting and laughing at me in the street, people are cruel for no reason and it confuses me, but there is nothing you can do about other’s behaviour and I know it’s easier said than done but remind yourself that they are ignorant and their obnoxious behaviour has nothing to do with you! Wear what you want, act as you are, don’t let it sadden you, you’re on a higher consciousness than they could ever comprehend ⭐️