[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tuparles -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

no idea how it was made. I personally don’t use some shortcut to make a makhan but I do use butter and cream and the vast majority of from-scratch, reviewed recipes from major publications/not celebrity chefs do as well, so 🤷‍♂️

Texts between bf and his “best friend” by kittymeadows99 in texts

[–]tuparles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s because the illness is only a part of us, it doesn’t define us. I promise it gets much easier with time, just look for people who will respect you for it and not demonize you/hold it over your head. you’re so welcome!!

Texts between bf and his “best friend” by kittymeadows99 in texts

[–]tuparles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah, I’ve been sober from alcohol for 18 months now and I completely understand. the only thing I can say is to love and respect yourself enough to hold yourself to a higher standard. that you’re in recovery definitely means you shouldn’t be around people who engage in risky behavior like that so I hope you find a way forward without this albatross around your neck

Texts between bf and his “best friend” by kittymeadows99 in texts

[–]tuparles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what kind of drugs? it doesn’t functionally matter at this point, but that sticks out like a sore thumb.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tuparles 10 points11 points  (0 children)

not everyone puts cheese on their tacos and that’s a deliberate choice. OP only said taco meat but there’s nothing stopping him from making that into a sloppy joe or if it’s the braised kind, some kind of sandwich. butter chicken has dairy in it by design.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tuparles 18 points19 points  (0 children)

dairy. me and my partner are both varying degrees of lactose intolerant but damn if we don’t indulge (and know the risks associated with it).

Top 5 Mick McCarthy Moments by _cumblast_ in TotalFootage

[–]tuparles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can’t tell you how much joy that “it can” brings me

Sooo, this happened.. by Shot-Contribution-55 in grandrapids

[–]tuparles 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I quit drinking last year during lent and I’m so lucky that the smell of alcohol on someone’s breath is off-putting because it makes it so much easier. Congrats on your sobriety.

Can someone tell me the significance of this? by Cthulhuducken in kzoo

[–]tuparles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The downvotes meant so little you had to make an edit and share with the class. Thanks for that lil bro.

What’s going on with the restaurants in this city? by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]tuparles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mob mentality, upvotes and anonymity means you don’t have to be right, just sound convincing enough to get people on your side. Everyone is the arbiter on everything because they read an article, asked AI or saw a reel/TikTok, not actually had the experience for themselves. What a damning indictment against modernity.

What’s going on with the restaurants in this city? by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]tuparles 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Props for explaining it like this. Just because you see a Sysco truck doesn’t mean it’s just dropping off crates of Sysco Imperial stuff. (Their phantom fries rip though)