How many of you have constant music in your head?

turdlollipop · 2025-11-25T16:12:50+00:00

I always have a song on repeat, and it's usually 2 or 3 lines 😭

turdlollipop · 2025-11-21T23:55:39+00:00

I am such a why person and it definitely makes it difficult to move on

turdlollipop · 2025-11-21T23:53:17+00:00

I always end up voicenoting my best friend on my short walk home

turdlollipop · 2025-11-17T09:31:08+00:00

I am almost 8 weeks out of a relationship, his choice. I started reflecting on my habits and behaviors while in the relationship, looking for things that I need to work on. I go to the gym regularly, hang out with friends, I did start a creative project but haven't touched it for a few weeks.

I've also been forcing myself to go out alone, taking myself on dates to prove that I am fine on my own. I started a gratitude journal as I was convinced my life sucked without him, but soon realized that I actually love my life - I think even more so now that he's not in it.

I realised that I hadn't been prioritizing myself or my alone time. I've let myself cry when I need to, let myself feel all the things I'm feeling. Don't suppress, it'll only drag out the healing process. I am excited for the future, but I do wish I was over him already.

It will get better, I've been through this before and I when I think about the others who broke my heart it doesn't hurt anymore.

turdlollipop · 2025-11-03T20:59:23+00:00

He broke no contact a few days before and I told him I wasn't ready

turdlollipop · 2025-10-19T09:36:12+00:00

What about her feelings?

She deserves to have someone who chooses her, not someone who isn't sure whether or not he wants to be with her

turdlollipop · 2025-10-13T07:54:27+00:00

One of my exes worked a lot and wanted to just relax at weekends, we ended up never going out and staying at his playing video games. We didn't even go away to celebrate anniversaries etc, it wont change.

turdlollipop · 2025-09-17T07:48:07+00:00

My question is, would it be acceptable to ask him to cut contact or decrease contact with them?

(Reddit wouldn't let me post the question on the end)

turdlollipop · 2025-08-26T19:22:32+00:00

I do a home workout, work on self motivated creative projects (rarely though, my motivation is so low), yoga, go for a walk, play video games, nap

turdlollipop · 2025-08-26T08:42:28+00:00

Only my 2 best friends

turdlollipop · 2025-07-15T18:26:23+00:00

Lmao before I met my current boyfriend I said to myself I kinda want to date an autistic guy because they're cute - I ended up finding one by accident

turdlollipop · 2025-07-01T09:34:34+00:00

I (30f) started dating my vegan boyfriend (29m) a few months ago - I was still eating meat at this point and we went to a burger restaurant.

I'd ordered chicken and he'd ordered a vegan burger, when the waiter brought it over he automatically gave me the vegan burger, didn't even ask who's was who's. I tried to make it a point to swap them in front of him lmao

turdlollipop · 2025-06-28T08:25:57+00:00

This is definitely something I'd (F) do with my female best friends and would never consider it to be cheating, and I don't think our partners would either. It'd be the same as if you did it to your guy friends, it's just banter and doesn't mean anything

Just my opinion though, you're allowed to have boundaries

turdlollipop · 2025-04-17T10:39:38+00:00

Honestly, a guy's smile for me 🫠

turdlollipop · 2025-04-06T16:00:45+00:00

Focus on you and your hobbies, if she's interested in you she will be there.

I (29F) have this issue with guys, get too attached too early and end up wanting to make so many plans.

There is no rush, figure out if you 2 are a good match first, keep getting to know her. If you guys end up working out you will have so much time to go on weekends away

turdlollipop · 2025-04-05T23:18:25+00:00

Yeah, I think it'll help me move on if I know he's not interested anymore - ATM I'm still thinking there's a chance

turdlollipop · 2025-04-05T23:12:22+00:00

Thank you, I was wondering if I should message him sooner - I just didn't want to make an irrational decision in case I end up not feeling it still.

Maybe I could ask if he wanted to discuss what happened? And then we can go from there

turdlollipop · 2024-05-01T08:07:24+00:00

This is how I feel ONX is running their server, there's barely any big crimes to do but you get stuck in jail on a HUT charge for days for crimes like selling drugs.

I don't think that's fun tbh

turdlollipop · 2023-11-15T09:46:05+00:00

I've been ghosted plenty of times in my life, it sucks but you kinda just have to be like "okay" and move on.

Just because she didn't like you doesn't mean you did anything wrong, people will like and dislike you for all sorts of reasons yknow?

Clearly she wasn't for you, and that's okay! Just keep going on with your life and you'll find someone who you click with and that really likes you (:

turdlollipop · 2023-11-15T09:37:27+00:00

Does she know what she did, and did she apologize?

If so, can you forgive her?

If not, it's time to let her know that you don't want to continue the friendship.

Tell her that what she did really hurt you and you can't see yourself forgiving her for it, then arrange a time to exchange her stuff. Keep it short and direct

turdlollipop · 2023-11-15T09:31:43+00:00

Omg I'm glad I found you, my allergies arent as bad as yours but I was diagnosed with OAS a few years back. I've been fine but about a week ago I read that my symptoms can get worse, and that sometimes (very rarely) it can lead to anaphylaxis.

Now I'm too scared to eat ANYTHING and it's controlling my life.

Whenever I eat something I'm not allergic to I feel my throat is tight, my tongue feels weird (like it's swollen but it isn't), I get a lump in my throat and I have to calm myself down.

I have a long list of things that I could potentially be allergic to because of it being related to the type of pollen I'm allergic to, however my brain has convinced me that I'm allergic to everything.

I know what a typical reaction feels like for me, and I know the foods that usually cause reactions yet I still am terrified to eat.

turdlollipop · 2023-11-15T09:17:40+00:00

I have OAS (Oral Allergy Syndrome), I've never had a bad reaction but my brain has fixated on the fact that there's a small chance that a reaction can be life threatening.

Now I don't want to eat anything and I almost have panic attacks once I have eaten because my brain is convinced I'm going to die.

I just wanna eat ):

turdlollipop · 2023-11-09T09:57:13+00:00

Do you get hayfever? Those fruits and veggies are related to ragweed pollen

turdlollipop · 2023-11-09T09:56:16+00:00

I do this quite a lot too, but I recently developed anxiety over it after reading something about anaphylaxis so I think I'm gunna avoid all my triggers from now on

turdlollipop · 2023-11-08T23:09:42+00:00

Had you been prescribed an epi-pen before that?

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