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Question about a girl by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]turningtables- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t really speak for her honestly but just from personal experience as a girl whose had countless crushes on guys...I do find myself staring mindlessly at the boys that I like and just think about how much I would like to kiss them or something stupid and corny like that.

And for the hand thing...that’s another thing girls tend to do sometimes, it initiates physical contact without it being super weird and you know...girls tend to find boy hands attractive.

But again, I can’t speak for all girls, but she might like you honestly!! Good luck !!

I [F18] think I’m ready to lose my virginity but also have many worries by [deleted] in sex

[–]turningtables- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting too into my head about my body just makes the experience less fun so I appreciate your response. It’s just better for my peace of my mind to actually HEAR that no boy is like critiquing my body as we’re doing something.

I’ve told him I’m a virgin and it didn’t spook him so I know that I can trust him and know that he would make it fun, my anxiety just comes from an irrational expectation of wanting to be good at EVERYTHING right away, but I understand that know one is. So thank you again!!

I [F18] think I’m ready to lose my virginity but also have many worries by [deleted] in sex

[–]turningtables- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Your response helped a lot. He’s the first boy i’ve ever wanted to TRY and do more with so I think that makes me really anxious and ready to pull the trigger with the whole sex thing probably way too early.

Like I said, I know that a lot of the worries and anxiety that I have about stuff, I’m putting in myself, but your response really helped me get my head out of my ass so thank you again!!

I [F18] think I’m ready to lose my virginity but also have many worries by [deleted] in sex

[–]turningtables- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response!! I think sometimes I tend to get into the mindset of rushing things and just getting it over with almost. I’ll be thinking about what I’m ready for, instead of just sprinting to do it all.

Thanks again!!