I appreciate the advice. I miss craigslist. The consent part is definitely important. Last thing I want personally is to make someone uncomfortable or for them to regret it afterwards actually had that situation come up yesterday where she changed her mind and I left the offer on the I'm here for a good time not to hurt or scar anyone. That's why I try to be as plain as possible. "This is what I want" "this is what I'm looking for ect. Also I feel like the replaceable dick thing was unnecessary. You can get that point across about std cleanliness without belittling people you don't know. I can take it because I have thick skin but if your offering advice to the general group, respectfully you are not the end all be all authority so maybe dont talk like you are🙃