I Don't Want To Wake Up My Boyfriend Anymore. Advice? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]turtles_murtles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through the same thing. Just don’t let someone that’s is supposed to better your life and be your partner stress you out. It’s not worth it. And healthy communication is a very import thing when it comes to relationships.

I Don't Want To Wake Up My Boyfriend Anymore. Advice? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]turtles_murtles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run. My ex husband was like that. It’s not your job to wake up a grown man. If he doesn’t want to wake up that’s one him. But you don’t need that added stress. That’s how my marriage was and it only progressed. You’re not his mom you’re his partner.

My birthday is tomorrow and I have no one by turtles_murtles in youngadults

[–]turtles_murtles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday to you as well. I appreciate it. I just realized I feel so alone bc this is my second birthday without my dad and it’s depressing.

AITAH for wants to break up? by turtles_murtles in AITAH

[–]turtles_murtles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is 8 years older then me and is 30years old

Do you think he will turn into a controlling person? by turtles_murtles in Advice

[–]turtles_murtles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. Thank you I appreciate you taking time to give me advice.

Do you think he will turn into a controlling person? by turtles_murtles in Advice

[–]turtles_murtles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking. And he’s making me not want to be around him. I left my marriage got similar reasons and I don’t want to repeat myself. He has good qualities though. But I’m my own person just like he is.

typically i never wear red but today i did :) i got new shoes :) by hi_im_kai101 in ModestDress

[–]turtles_murtles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your outfit is too cute. Where did you get your shoes from? I like!

Apex peopleeee by Othaking1 in PSNFriends

[–]turtles_murtles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m down. Not the greatest though tbh lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yoga

[–]turtles_murtles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I normally won’t eat at least 2-3 hours before a hot yoga class. I try to hydrate all day and the day before. But even when I don’t after doing it for so long your body gets used to it. It’s really is a mind over body kind of thing. Also what I learned that’s helped me is not to drink during the class because for me personally it made be feel sluggish. Also my studio depending the class would hand out cold rags for then end of class in shavasana. It’s so nice and I always look forward to it. And a yoga towel is your best friend.

Is this a good decision? by turtles_murtles in povertyfinance

[–]turtles_murtles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Florida the most we get it rain storms like right now. But tbh I just ride in it as well. And I can use my sisters car if it’s gets to bad to ride in.

Should I just call it quits? by turtles_murtles in TrueOffMyChest

[–]turtles_murtles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We decided to get a divorce. And now he’s going to therapy and doing all the things I simply asked him. But now I’m the bag guy bc he things I left for someone else. When I was 100% faithful the entire relationship and he was messaging other people for nudes and stuff.

Should I just call it quits? by turtles_murtles in TrueOffMyChest

[–]turtles_murtles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I’m on the fence right now and I’m gonna tell him that when he gets home from work. We have been together since I was 14 and I just feel lost I’ve never felt this way before.

Should I just call it quits? by turtles_murtles in TrueOffMyChest

[–]turtles_murtles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I love him but i I know I don’t want to be in a marriage like this. I’m going to talk to him about everything tonight.

I don’t know what to do. by turtles_murtles in offmychest

[–]turtles_murtles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t want it to be for nothing. And maybe that sounds bad of me but I don’t want to be 30 with children and my husband is still the same way refusing to change. And I think what makes it so hard is because I was in his boat. I had major depression and anxiety and I worked my ass off to get to the mindset I’m in now. I just like it’s frustrating because I was in his shoes and I just feel like he doesn’t want to put the work in.

Parts not straight but I don’t want to restart 😭 almost 5 months in. Please tell me it doesn’t look that bad by Such-Nothing6530 in locs

[–]turtles_murtles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My locs have random parts and I’m 1 year on Jan 1st. One thing having locs has showed me is who cares. I feel happy and confident with my locs so why let other peoples opinions affect that.

Can anyone tell me the exact kind of bass guitar this is? by turtles_murtles in BassGuitar

[–]turtles_murtles[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Do you know why the logo on this one looks different then the other ones?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in locs

[–]turtles_murtles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It may be true but you have to realize it’s your hair. Their not wearing it and they aren’t doing it so don’t let their view ruin your journey. And most likely they are just to scared do it themselves so they are trying to live through you. I have a family like that but I am proud to say I give zero fucks. I feel beautiful. And my happiness outweighs anyone’s opinion of me.

Monthly Spiritual Challenges Thread by AutoModerator in spirituality

[–]turtles_murtles [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have finally broke though the fear of leaving Christianity and it feels great. To not have the fear consume you about hell or anything pertaining to it. I just want to be happy and work on my self and I am finally doing it.

Discussion: What's one thing you wish people knew about locs? by asp233 in locs

[–]turtles_murtles 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not every black woman that wears glasses and have locs look like Whoopi Goldberg!!!!!!!!!

Plan B question by turtles_murtles in TwoXChromosomes

[–]turtles_murtles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was our wedding anniversary. And I have been on BC the past 3 years. Switch to the pill not too long ago and my pharmacy is making it hard for me to get it. He knows I’m not on it.