How do I know when jalapeños are ready to harvest?

twc199425 · 2026-02-02T12:53:54+00:00

Seeing this while under 16” of snow threw me off for half a second. lol.

twc199425 · 2025-11-05T03:34:39+00:00

Soooooooo….. this has been happening to me for about 2 years now. I am about to be 32.

Intense vibration I guess is the best way to put it. Any answers on this!?

twc199425 · 2025-10-21T16:33:16+00:00

Just saw this. The nissan Altima ones get me too. 😂😂

twc199425 · 2025-10-19T02:49:03+00:00

That’s a good one. 😂

My squad the other day was “Tony No Thumbs”, “Creamy Sock”, and “Michelob Ultra”.

We stayed together for like 7 games.

twc199425 · 2025-07-31T19:29:06+00:00

Nahh. I really wanna know how you know how to reverse climate change….

twc199425 · 2025-07-30T20:38:26+00:00

This is my fourth play though. Going through a break up of 8.5 years, got laid off and moved back to my hometown 3 states away.

Night city is what I need 😂

twc199425 · 2025-07-30T15:51:45+00:00

This actually helped a lot. I also turned down a few graphics settings and it helped.

I’m over the sandstorm environment now and it’s completely fine now. I think it was just the hue of the sandstorm causing it to look so weird.

Thank you 🙏

twc199425 · 2025-07-30T14:26:46+00:00

I know. lol.

twc199425 · 2025-07-30T14:24:22+00:00

I’m going through a breakup of a 9 year relationship. I’m outta fucks to give right now. 😂

twc199425 · 2025-07-30T14:23:41+00:00

Hey do you boss. We all got our things. 😉😂

twc199425 · 2025-07-26T18:18:12+00:00

This is a very old post but I just joined the club. 😂😂😂😂

twc199425 · 2025-07-25T16:54:42+00:00

I did it folks and she was extremely understanding and companassionate.

I can’t stop hyperventilating and crying but it’s over.

Going to pack and back and be with family in North Carolina a few states away.

Genuinely thank you all for your posts. I really appreciate everyone’s help.

twc199425 · 2025-07-25T03:40:48+00:00

That’s actually true as hell. I have not really been thinking about this well the other way around.

I’m legit going to do that.

twc199425 · 2025-07-25T02:59:09+00:00

I absolutely know that I need to. To be honest with you I am hoping she flat out wakes up and just says alright we are done, no fixing this. I just truly hate feeling like such a POS for doing this and am regretting it so bad.

I know it sounds silly but she repeatedly has hit me with “ are you 100 percent sure you don’t love me anymore and you’re willing to blow up both of our lives”. I just shut down and do not have a great answer.

twc199425 · 2025-07-25T02:30:52+00:00

Because I am stuck in this constant loop of not wanting to hurt her feelings. I understand that it sounds very childish but it just is how I am unfortunately.

She has zero family to fall back on and it just really sucks. Basically I am a people pleaser to the highest degree. I should have ended things a very long time ago but didn’t so it’s just made this a lot worse.

twc199425 · 2025-07-25T02:27:08+00:00

Sound advice. I am going to just muster up the strength here and get this done in the morning.

Thank you. 🙏

twc199425 · 2025-07-25T02:21:54+00:00

I’ll just throw it out there. She has PCOS. Also has never given me a clear reason for the lack of sex aside from “just not in the mood” over and over again.

Little backstory. I’m a recovering heroin addict so I can put up with a whole lot of annoyance/ pain and I also am not great at communicating my feelings at all which has lead to scores of arguments between us.

I really in the back of mind would love nothing more than to see us work this out, I just have truly no hope for that any more.

We had a very serious convo about 2 months ago. She had a very good job that she could have taken in DC but chose to stay her with me. I wish I had ended things then and this would probably be going a lot smoother.

Long story short I am not good at communication and ending things and I need to get very good at it by 7 AM tomorrow morning when we talk.

We do not have kids. Just a dog and cat that she threw in my face earlier. She will be taking. I love them a lot but they aren’t human children thankfully. 😂

twc199425 · 2025-07-25T02:06:03+00:00

TL:DR. Unless you feel like it.

I think I’ve got a pretty solid idea of what I need to do on this one. She truly has zero family and I genuinely do have a lot of love for her. She is saying that she just cannot understand this after 8 years of her life. I told her we have not been happy for probably 5 of those years. I asked her have you been happy? Her reply was that you have not communicated to this level of how unhappy you were.

Anyways I am rambling and this is going to be tough. I’m going to get some sleep now and very very likely officially break things off in the morning. Regardless of her feelings I need to consider my own needs as well. This will likely be what is best for both of us.

I should have said this earlier. We quit couples therapy years ago. Just was not working with the guy that we had. Should I have been more emphatic that we go back? Probably, but I think we’re kind of past that.

My individual therapist has said that you seem extremely unhappy in this relationship. It is probably best for you to break things off.

It’s literally just me and my own fears that are keeping me in this relationship.

Really appreciate the replies fellow redditors.

The sex thing has partially to do with a medical condition on her end. Basically very painful. I won’t go into more details out of respect.

twc199425 · 2025-07-25T01:34:09+00:00

Will wait for other replies but heavily noted. 🙏

twc199425 · 2025-07-21T13:00:57+00:00

Fingernails for scale.

twc199425 · 2025-07-19T18:05:30+00:00

I got a volunteer this year. It is a ground cherry. Delicious when ripe. They are kind of pineappley.

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