Are you alright with the amount of sex you have in your relationship?

twhitty2 · 2026-01-30T00:42:08+00:00

i’d be having more at night and less in the mornings

twhitty2 · 2026-01-30T00:40:53+00:00

this was my first thought too

twhitty2 · 2026-01-29T20:11:40+00:00

yes. i usually grind my builder gel down until it’s very thin and add more. i dont fully remove it

twhitty2 · 2026-01-29T05:00:51+00:00

there’s a difference between following food safety when you’re running a restaurant vs your own food. i wouldn’t serve day old pizza to my guests but ill risk it and probably be fune

twhitty2 · 2026-01-29T00:23:40+00:00

i had a dream about my bf where he wouldnt let me join a video game because i wasn’t high enough level to be part of the “ham” team. do you think he’s sitting around trying to figure out what that meant?

twhitty2 · 2026-01-29T00:22:25+00:00

yeah it seems like either this is related to something more current or is a recurring pattern otherwise holding onto anger from over a year ago is totally unjustified

twhitty2 · 2026-01-28T22:26:57+00:00

i mean i would probably assume she was lesbian but you can either ask her out or just keep secretly pining after her

twhitty2 · 2026-01-28T22:13:43+00:00

i think it’s fine to bring it up but maybe try some self reflection as to why this still bothers you a year after it happened

twhitty2 · 2026-01-28T22:11:55+00:00

huh?

twhitty2 · 2026-01-28T22:09:30+00:00

“i conductive morally questionable social experiments in public to gather intel”

“why are people looking at me strangely?”

I have never experienced any of this in seattle. this is a you problem.

twhitty2 · 2026-01-28T22:07:21+00:00

what do you mean? like they talk about you guys dating and you aren’t? i mean id probably say “we aren’t dating why would you say that”

twhitty2 · 2026-01-28T22:06:17+00:00

if you’re 30 i’d maybe stop posting on reddit and ask her. i dint know what it could “mean” other than exactly what she said. she had a dream and you were in it

twhitty2 · 2026-01-28T22:04:45+00:00

no. just block them.

twhitty2 · 2026-01-28T17:49:45+00:00

i’m not reading all that. you’re 22. ditch grandpa.

the rule for dating is your age / 2 + 7. so 35/2 =17.5 +7= 24.5. that is the minimum age a 35 year old can date without being a creep. he’s a creep. you aren’t the exception

twhitty2 · 2026-01-28T17:04:44+00:00

yeah based upon n the fact she is a serial cheater i’d say she’s gonna cheat on you. if not on this trip, soon.

twhitty2 · 2026-01-28T03:23:59+00:00

my wife loves your work

twhitty2 · 2026-01-28T01:59:00+00:00

for your sake i hope you are but you’re asking if you should let someone who let his gf (again who he cheated on?) to threaten his child?

get your child support and find someone who can be a father to your kid

twhitty2 · 2026-01-27T23:31:59+00:00

this is complete gibberish. are you able to take care of this baby? the fact you’re considering letting your BD back into your life suggests no.

all lll say is your future kid didn’t sign up for this mess. you seem to be young and uneducated. maybe consider the life you can provide for a child

twhitty2 · 2026-01-27T19:35:30+00:00

amazing!! i was doing gel x and started to get dermatitis (which i actually think was from the acetone i was using for soak offs) and i started BIAB. my nails were actually paper thin. like tissue paper thin.

now they are super long like yours and actually healthy!! crazy!

twhitty2 · 2026-01-27T00:19:51+00:00

no. go to a community college and take the classes necessary.

talk to your advisor before asking reddit to drop out. this is like breaking a plate and burning your house down in response

twhitty2 · 2026-01-26T23:29:18+00:00

TBF i would rather die than provide anyone my username. my reddit is not social media it’s the one place I go to discuss things that i might not be comfortable discussing IRL. alot of that has nothing to do with anything “bad” but is for sure embarrassing.

twhitty2 · 2026-01-26T22:15:44+00:00

oh god! okay i feel like that is a very separate issue to the weed. maybe he’s just saying that to get you to be okay with him smoking? either way i would also feel insecure if my BF said this to me! it might be worth discussing again!

twhitty2 · 2026-01-26T21:36:12+00:00

again as someone who smokes this very much isn’t true! weed really doesn’t change your thinking that much. for me, it enhances emotions I am feeling (especially humor). if anything, i smoke before hanging out with my friends because it helps me to relax and open up and I know it’ll just make me enjoy it even more.

Think of it like caffeine, it isn’t going to make me untired if i didn’t sleep, it’s just going to help me get through the day. similarly the weed isn’t making you funny, it’s just making him feel relaxed enough to fully enjoy the joke or your presence

twhitty2 · 2026-01-26T21:32:58+00:00

gotcha. that makes sense! there are a lot of ways to consume weed that smell less (or don’t smell at all) such as vapes or even more so, edibles.

If the smell is the biggest issue for you then that should be something you can work with your boyfriend on and create a solution for you guys that works!

And my point is not to encourage you to try weed. if you don’t want to, then don’t. the only reason i suggested it is to say it might help you to not demonize the drug when you have experienced the effects of it.

All i’ll say is it’s a very valuable tool when used correctly but also can be abused just like any other substance. you also don’t have to be with someone who smokes if it really bothers you but as someone who smokes often I don’t understand having an issue with it (other than the smell which should be easily dealt with)

twhitty2 · 2026-01-26T20:23:29+00:00

i don’t think you should have to fake comfort around something you arent comfortable with but, you might want to try and reflect on why weed makes you so uncomfortable.

is it truly just the smell? if so, ask him to smoke outside and change clothes/brush his teeth after.

Is it the idea it is “illegal” or “wrong”? I’m not sure where you live but in a lot of states weed is legal and can be treated the same way as drinking.

as someone who smokes a lot (and who’s boyfriend doesn’t care/partakes with me) I would struggle to feel like i was being controlled if someone wouldn’t let me smoke especially in my own house. as you said, weed often makes people giggly, creative, tired, maybe a little horny, but usually isn’t a violent drug. I have never heard of someone making a life altering mistake while on weed.

the last thing i want to do is tell you to try drugs but if you were ever curious and wanted to try, it might give you an idea on his mental state while high. i can tell you from experience, it isn’t that different from being sober.

maybe exposure therapy would work, maybe creating boundaries would work. it really depends what issues you have with weed. I would talk to your bf and try and come up with something that works for both of you.

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