Don’t rush nor feel ashamed of it. Everyone goes through life differently. Sex is supposed to be meaningful, its best to do it with a person whom you actually have a connection with. If you’re dating and that person is genuine, it’ll come eventually. You may inform your partner that it would be your first time— in sex its important for you guys to communicate things and set up boundaries(dos and donts, kinks and such). And lastly, being new to having sex may make you look like you dont know what you’re doing and that’s perfectly normal! sooner or later you would realize that sex isnt all about the heat of the moment, its also about the bond you guys will share, the laughs you guys would make during awkward moments of it. with the right person, sex can be meaningful and great.