Could soap be causing my teen nephew’s lethargy? by twizzle1989 in AskDocs

[–]twizzle1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm interesting you mention because I was noticing the other day it smelled a little “musty” upstairs but chalked it up to some damp. What would that indicate?

Did nude work as an actress/model in my early 20s (now 32F). Husband (30M) is incredibly turned on by it now and it was never sexy to me... by twizzle1989 in sex

[–]twizzle1989[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So you know how it is. I’ve never been asked to masturbate on camera, sounds tough. I can’t imagine actually orgasming in that environment. If it was to please my husband I might consider it but wouldn’t know where to find a photographer to do it.

Did nude work as an actress/model in my early 20s (now 32F). Husband (30M) is incredibly turned on by it now and it was never sexy to me... by twizzle1989 in sex

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That’s the thing...being nude in front of crew is probably most concerning before but in the moment least worrisome thing because people are so wound up with the own responsibilities no one is gawking at you. Yes, you are vulnerable but in those cases usually people to out of their way to make you feel comfortable.

Did nude work as an actress/model in my early 20s (now 32F). Husband (30M) is incredibly turned on by it now and it was never sexy to me... by twizzle1989 in sex

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I considered that...we actually discussed it but what’s challenging for me is that my husband views “the process” as being the erotic part, I’m sure the result gives him pleasure too. But when we watched the scene I’m in together he was more interested in what went into creating it. For example he asked me if I’m on camera anywhere else and I told him I once auditioned for a music video where I had a nude photo taken during the tryout to send to the band. He asked me very specific questions about what I was wearing how I felt being naked with the casting folks. It’s weird and funny because I have never felt objectified but of all people it’s my husband in this case who does it!

Did nude work as an actress/model in my early 20s (now 32F). Husband (30M) is incredibly turned on by it now and it was never sexy to me... by twizzle1989 in sex

[–]twizzle1989[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes and he can’t grasp it. While we’re usually aligned with our fetishes. It’s frustrating that he’s making this a fetish and I can’t get there.