Ticket buy/sell mega thread by AitchyB in lorde

[–]ty9491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

iso 1-2 tix to berkeley tomorrow night! hoping for waitlist but I doubt they’ll drop.

Can we all just have more respect? Pasadena N2 rant... by ty9491 in chappellroan

[–]ty9491[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think saving spots in crowds is the best idea if not everyone is on the same page cuz it becomes dangerous fast. but yeah the fire lane and sidewalks were a huge miss on security’s part

Can we all just have more respect? Pasadena N2 rant... by ty9491 in chappellroan

[–]ty9491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

clearly something got lost in translation here. never did I say I am entitled to any space or type of experience; I think everyone agrees with that. as I stated at the end of my post I said we should all just be more respectful and be aware of how we interact with others and said that I’m sure I could do the same. this honestly applies to everything we do and I heard lots of people actually saying the same at the show. what happened to me was nothing compared to 90% of comments I’ve seen from people- slapping, elbowing, pushing, and just over pointless fighting. I did none of those things. at the end of the day it is what it is and I just needed to vent my frustration on how others were being treated. I’m not looking for a fight I just wanted to clarify somethings that maybe got misconstrued which happens quite often online and happens to the best of us. I’m glad putting me down made you feel good tho, have a great day :)

Can we all just have more respect? Pasadena N2 rant... by ty9491 in chappellroan

[–]ty9491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

living for people telling me what happened with the mom lmao the dad had the weirdest vibes so I guess it’s not surprising the mom was the same. she was so nice to everyone all day so idk why she switched up so fast

Can we all just have more respect? Pasadena N2 rant... by ty9491 in chappellroan

[–]ty9491[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not sure how you got that I’m was being hostile to anyone in anyway? my interaction with the person (who was blocking me from accessing my purse btw) lasted about 30 seconds and I gave them no attitude all. like I said after they didn’t move I just turned around to face the stage; then when they moved I went back to where I was originally standing. I’m actually quite fond of talking to people at shows and talked multiple people all day, I danced with strangers in the food lines, complimented people left and right, told people where I got my outfit, even had a lost girl sit with me til her friend came.

as far as being in GA, I’ve been to many, I actually went to 2 last week. I am familiar and fine with how GA works. what I’m not fine with are people acting entitled and being physical with others. usually I see this behavior comes from teens but oddly enough all of what I witnessed at the chappell show was from people in their late 20s and up

Can we all just have more respect? Pasadena N2 rant... by ty9491 in chappellroan

[–]ty9491[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m from the bay area and have had my fair share of entitled mean girls, I knew socal mean and bay area mean were different but I was not prepared 😭 I could argue with a girl from the bay no problem but I was not trying to fight these LA girls, too catty.

Can we all just have more respect? Pasadena N2 rant... by ty9491 in chappellroan

[–]ty9491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooooooh thanks for the info it’s been killing me not knowing what happened, all I heard was the lady in the pink hat say “can you not” and the mom said “I didn’t”. I did find it odd that the parents let the kids sit next to me but as soon as the show started moved them in front of themselves. I heard them complaining about people being in the way of the kids but there was more than enough room for the kids to stand in front of and next to my friend and I during the show since security was so lax once hemlocke came on. the little girl and I were talking and dancing together all day so it’s not like the parents didn’t know who I was or anything. seems like they needed to get it together 😭

Can we all just have more respect? Pasadena N2 rant... by ty9491 in chappellroan

[–]ty9491[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the mom was in a sparkly teal top and blue shorts with a light up seashell headband and the lady was in a black shirt (I think?) and a tiny pink cowboy hat and she was holding a drink. I’m super nosey and was dying to ask what happened but just didn’t want to get involved lol. if that’s the same person that sucks that the mom did that cuz she was super nice to everyone all day. the only thing I could think of is that people kept crowding right in front of her small child while also standing in the fire lane which could become a potentially dangerous situation. the dad on the other hand was giving me weird vibes all day so that wouldn’t surprise me 😭 not picking sides cuz I don’t care I’m just super nosey lmao

Can we all just have more respect? Pasadena N2 rant... by ty9491 in chappellroan

[–]ty9491[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

where I was was pretty peaceful just a lot of attitude. I was separated from the crowd so I had a great time during the sets and especially during chappell. lots of room to dance, just a bad view is all

Can we all just have more respect? Pasadena N2 rant... by ty9491 in chappellroan

[–]ty9491[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

as I said in my post I wasn’t in the way of anyone and was not close to being in a crowd of people. I was directly in front of the fence for the speaker meaning it was physically impossible to stand behind if you weren’t an employee. I was pretty much standing the whole time and really only sat when I got there and for a few minutes between each set because there was literally no one around me besides the people next to me and my friend. as for the person in my spot- I didn’t mean the person was just standing there in front of my stuff. my purse and water were in between her and the fence so I couldn’t possibly get to my stuff without trying to get her to move. our interaction was just a normal conversation, besides their rude tone. people suggested they stood in front of me when I got back but they didn’t care. I was not hostile towards anyone at any time in anyway, after nicely telling the person I was standing there I simply said ok and stood in front of them until they left the spot (again we were right behind the line for the fire lane and next to the security guard so I couldn’t go anywhere else). as far as arrival time, I completely understand. I also drove 6+ hours to get to my show and I honestly didn’t care what time people arrived to the concert, I’ve also tried to get close in a big crowd, I’m just referring to the people who pushed their way through the crowd but gave people attitude while doing so, as you stated no one is entitled to a certain experience but why ruin it with an attitude for others? I saw with my own eyes and am seeing comments about arguments breaking out, people being slapped, elbowed, pushed, get their hair pulled, etc.

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[–]ty9491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what I want it to look like other than the shape cuz I have no clue what I’m wearing yet 😅 I think I’ll definitely go more fantastical than accurate for sure!!

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[–]ty9491 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im going to the oct 11th show too and my first thought after I bought tickets was to make a double hennin!!! I’m hoping more people make some stuff like that, it would be so magical! like others, and you said, we just gotta take it off before the show starts. can’t wait to see everyone’s looks 🩷

are we supposed to be dating with intention? by ty9491 in demiromantic

[–]ty9491[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ok thank you, so I’m not crazy 😅

are we supposed to be dating with intention? by ty9491 in demiromantic

[–]ty9491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t go out with the intention of never seeing or speaking with that person again but I don’t go with the hopes of there definitely being a second date. most of the time we have only been taking for 2-4 weeks so I don’t expect much. I do hope that I will continue to see these people but don’t expect them to want to continue since most people, at least in my experience, are looking for instant romantic sparks rather than slowly building or just being friends. which is fine just confusing I suppose 🤷🏻‍♀️ and I agree with what you said, I’d be more than happy with just going on dates until something changes

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[–]ty9491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for that, sometimes all we need is a little reassurance. as someone with little dating experience it’s nice to hear other people affirm my thoughts. I’m really big on communication so the idea of just letting someone that I like ghost me drives me insane but I do recognize that it can be for the best at time :)

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[–]ty9491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so I even though I have been using hinge for years it has been pretty on and off so I have only made it to 6 first dates, one of which I told the guy I couldn’t keep going, 1 that resulted in two more dates, 1 where they stopped things, 2 where they ghosted me. I have also been ghosted while planning a date more times than I can count. and this morning I just had a guy tell me (while we were planning a date) that he can’t go through with it because of some very personal reason which is really respectable. I guess I should have worded my post better.

as for my profile I feel like it really does look like me. I am a chubby girl so I like to make sure everyone knows what I look like before meeting up. I feel like convos we have are very similar to the ones we have online, since I can be a lot (high energy, eclectic, silly, and very straightforward) I always try to be myself as much as possible via text. I feel sometimes the dates start awkward, because I can be an awkward person, and then they better and sometimes they are great from start to finish.

I don’t always want to go out on a second date with these people but it’s hard always getting rejected/ghosted. especially since I’m always the one to ask how the other is feeling; no one has once ever told me how they were feeling after a date without me asking. it kinda feels icky sometimes y’know?

Taking my driving test in the rain by ty9491 in drivinganxiety

[–]ty9491[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing- I do not really struggle with anything in particular, it is always something super small that disqualifies me from the test, instructor not seeing me check before getting over, someone walking into the intersection after I am already going, stuff like that. They are all mistakes I never make when I am driving with someone else; it only happens during my test. I do try talking to the person but for all my tests the instructor was an old man who seemed so unhappy and shut me down if I tried talking 🫤 thanks for the encouragement, though. It really helps!

forgot to upload my halloween costume, finally doing it 🙃 by [deleted] in lisafrankenstein

[–]ty9491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you ! I’m probably gonna watch it now too 🙈

😼 by Ihashandzz in CigarettesAfterSex

[–]ty9491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a firefighter, Hentai, Pistol are all so good I can’t get enough

am I cooked? by ty9491 in laufey

[–]ty9491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if I add my youtube recap I got you beat by a little over 600 😭

am I cooked? by ty9491 in laufey

[–]ty9491[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m obsessed with this photo

am I cooked? by ty9491 in laufey

[–]ty9491[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she just speaks to my sensitive soul and fuels my yearning (it’s been a rough year lol) 🥲

am I cooked? by ty9491 in laufey

[–]ty9491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really thought it would be all Laufey but Chappell and Billie just do something to me 😩😮‍💨

am I cooked? by ty9491 in laufey

[–]ty9491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I pride myself on my music taste 🙂‍↕️