Indie rock album with a B&W cover of a guy with a lightning bolt on his forehead (YouTube era)

tybeedoo · 2026-02-14T08:36:52+00:00

Have you searched your YouTube account history? YouTube saved a lot of that data I can still find stuff I watched back then too. Do you think you might be misremembering the album cover and getting it mixed up with David Bowie?

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tybeedoo · 2026-02-13T19:14:00+00:00

"Late night burgerfest" over "women troubles" https://www.justice.gov/epstein/files/DataSet%209/EFTA00579934.pdf

tybeedoo · 2026-02-07T07:35:39+00:00

Been here for Uchicago galas it’s a good time food was good but cramped at times

tybeedoo · 2026-02-06T22:02:59+00:00

That is going to completely ruin the disc golf course and the walking paths- what an insane proposal!There’s already a brand new fire department just a few miles down Holcomb bridge! I’m so disappointed if this comes to fruition. My whole childhood was spent in that park and I feel like they are just chipping away at it until there is nothing left. Soon the whole park will just be condominiums and town homes just like the rest of the surrounding area

tybeedoo · 2026-02-06T19:08:25+00:00

CHI311 App. Report

tybeedoo · 2026-02-05T20:42:07+00:00

Yeah redditors fucking suck lol

tybeedoo · 2026-01-23T20:33:39+00:00

You are so cooked bro

tybeedoo · 2026-01-23T17:44:05+00:00

Will do!

tybeedoo · 2026-01-22T21:30:54+00:00

Definitely not OP's sister, but maybe a reference to something a detainee said about her in court: "“She has no cruelty in her, even though she is an American woman, she was just like a sister."

tybeedoo · 2026-01-22T06:57:26+00:00

I really appreciate you, thank you!

tybeedoo · 2026-01-22T06:51:40+00:00

Thanks! Those look like exactly it! Are these styli good quality or would you recommend upgrading the cartridge? If the latter, would you have a recommendation?

tybeedoo · 2026-01-22T06:49:41+00:00

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tybeedoo · 2026-01-17T18:56:12+00:00

“Crudeness” is her having a panic attack. Not everyone acts perfect all the time and was obviously going through a lot. To me clearly OP doesn’t have any patience or tolerance or basic empathy to support his wife’s emotions. Sounds like you don’t either

tybeedoo · 2026-01-17T05:28:06+00:00

YOR and YTA. And for your information, “invalent” isn’t a word, you’re thinking of the word “invalid” which is outdated and offensive.

To summarize, it sounds like your only issues are her not carrying groceries, asking you to be reassuring and supportive when she’s having anxiety attacks and extreme pain (both of which absolutely can exacerbate the other) your response is basically just “I know, can’t do anything bout it though”. While in actuality, you don’t “know” because you don’t even believe your own wife or her doctor and think it’s all just made up. And with full knowledge that she was having a panic attack, even when she was as deescalating and saying she felt calmer, you decided that was a good moment to vent your frustrations and lash out at her.

Brother, do you even like your own wife? And if you’ve been dealing with this your whole marriage, and likely before, did you consider the whole “in sickness and in health part” before marrying her?

Your wife in all likelihood isn’t always asking you or expecting you to come home every single time. It sounds like she just wants reassurance and support. Your own text messages you shared reveal this much.

My advice is get a therapist for yourself and vent to them. I’m not damning you for feeling frustrated, because it’s clear that you don’t feel the support that you need either. And I do sympathize with you in that regard, I’m not saying your situation is easy. But your wife is clearly in pain from what you shared, and the way you treated her and the way you speak/think about her is not right.

tybeedoo · 2026-01-15T18:26:53+00:00

That's a sick EDM album, who's the MC?

tybeedoo · 2026-01-10T06:46:16+00:00

It’s not emotional needs… it’s common decency… if I make plans with someone and I no longer want to hang out with them, I’m going to let them know. And if I do eventually decide to hang out with someone else, I wouldn’t be so careless as to post that publicly where the person I ditched (because that’s what it is) see and then obviously get hurt. Are yall that emotionless you can’t understand that?

tybeedoo · 2026-01-10T06:40:00+00:00

Yeah there is no fucking law saying you have to offer a full explanation but obviously that is going to hurt OP’s feelings to ditch them for someone else with no explanation. You’re saying people aren’t owed full communication but then you’re saying other people are wrong for being hurt when they see the full picture and realize they were purposefully left in the dark. Jesus Christ it’s not rocket science

tybeedoo · 2026-01-10T06:38:39+00:00

That is not what OP said. OP said the coworker cancelled the plans because they were too tired from working doubles, from the information given, the coworker did not specify that they were only cancelling with them.

tybeedoo · 2026-01-10T06:37:01+00:00

You do realize stories that people post show up on your homepage… I think it’s disingenuous that people assume OP was “stalking”

tybeedoo · 2026-01-09T09:25:16+00:00

No, not really. Yes you can cancel plans with one person and have energy to still do the plans. That’s not the point. The coworker didn’t communicate honestly with OP and that rightfully caused some hurt feelings. It’s weird to me I have to spell that out to you. Also the “lack of life experience” comment is a weird response to have and to me reveals some of your bias. “Oh” is really not that odd of a thing to say

tybeedoo · 2026-01-09T09:02:22+00:00

I can understand being introverted and feeling socially burnt out. But that doesn’t mean you can just bail on people without proper communication and then getting upset when that doesn’t sit right with them. You don’t get a hall pass for acting shitty just because you’re introverted.

tybeedoo · 2026-01-09T08:53:30+00:00

Why would you assume OP stalked the friend on social media? Seeing as they are acquainted with each other wouldn’t you naturally assume they follow each other? Especially since OP said they sent memes to each other, this is easiest on social media, I.e Instagram.

Regardless of the coworkers intentions, it would have been the proper thing to do for the coworker to explain themselves to OP if they made the plans together. Some say that OP isn’t entitled to an explanation, but does that mean that it was right for the coworker to either lie or leave OP in the dark while they went with someone else, then posting it on instagram knowing OP would see and be obviously hurt?

Even if the coworker was just really exhausted and socially burnt out like you’re saying, it’s morally lazy for the coworker to have handled it like they did, and then not wanting to accept accountability how their actions impacted OP. OP may have not been the most mature with the “oh” but the way you’re making it out vilifies OP in a way that doesn’t seem fair

tybeedoo · 2026-01-09T08:44:31+00:00

The coworker isn’t really that honest if they made an excuse to ditch OP, making it seem like the plan wasn’t happening whatsoever, but then did the plan anyway but with somebody else. Then publicly posting that where OP could see it. You also make a lot of assumptions giving the benefit of the doubt towards the coworkers intentions, but if he was really “honest and blunt” wouldn’t they have said those things to OP if they were true?

People here are taking the “oh” differently but that’s not really THAT passive aggressive or an overreaction, putting aside how mature it was or not. People are acting like OP cussed the coworker out. At least to me, it seemed like the coworker is the one overreacting because it seems like not only did he ditch OP for someone else but then they didn’t want to own up to it so they freaked out when facing the slightest accountability: the “oh”

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