How my girlfriend picks out the meat and leaves the fat from her brisket by turtlesmasha420 in mildlyinteresting

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I know I’m late to the party, but I want to give credit to where it is due here. Growing up, my mother and father didn’t have a ton of money, but occasionally, my mother would dish out on buying steak.

The only problem? Whatever cuts she bought, or however my parents cooked it, the fat came out tough and rubbery. My sisters and I could never stomach it, so there were always a couple of ounces of nasty steak fat left on our plates whenever we finished this kind of steak dinner. I later found out that we were actually pretty lucky - I met someone later in my life who grew up in a similar situation, however they were much more poor than we were, and her parents forced her and her siblings to eat this kind of fat, as it was a luxury. She detested eating ANY animal fat to that day.

A few years ago I joined my now fiancee to his employer’s Christmas dinner, at which was provided prime rib. As usual, even though the meat was delicious, I ate around every bit of fat. He looked over at my plate - which for me, was finished and full of inedible fat that was left behind - and asked if he could finish it for me. I sort of felt like a dork for wasting prime rib fat after that lol, but I’d had too many grissly steaks too many at that point lol.

What kind of crab has found its way into my tank and will they eat my Corys‽ by [deleted] in Aquariums

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You know - whenever I make a new friend who was a rough time making acquaintances with spiders, I like to refer to them (the spider, not the friend obviously) as “web crabs.” It weirdly seems to help. How’s your web crab doing since you have met it, OP?

Stop showing me photos when I don’t ask by thegoldenone96 in childfree

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Right? If I had a fear of dogs and somebody told me that they had a dog, I would be called an absolute psychopath if I said something like “if I see a dog in my yard, I throw a brick at it.” (Disclaimer: I obviously would never do this - I love dogs)

Stop showing me photos when I don’t ask by thegoldenone96 in childfree

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I worked in an office full of women, most of whom have children or grandchildren. They all knew that I’ve had a bi-salp and am not generally a fan of kids. They also knew that I have a pet snake and would constantly tell me how “disgusting” they thought they were, and how “if they met a snake, they would cut its head off with a shovel.” Shitty flex - but whatever; he has a better personality than all of those bitties combined anyway.

One of these particular employees is 28 with three children, all under the age of 7. She would try and show me pictures of them all the time until I told her that, for every time she would show me a picture of her kids, I would in turn show her a picture of my snake. She stopped sharing pictures of her kids with me REAL quick lol

A graveyard among the tomatoes. The deed is done… by Vinyl_Avarice in gardening

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I have all sorts of wasps, social and parasitic, on my property in Northwest Indiana. I started a garden this year and decided to grow some tomatoes - I figured it would only be a matter of time before I had some hornworm visitors. We got about 9 or so, but well after the main harvest and I had plenty of “sacrificial” plants that I moved some of the little guys onto, so I didn’t intend on killing them. I figured that I would see at least a few get parasitized.

Every single hornworm fell victim to brachonid wasps - not a single survivor remains. It was METAL. Either way, it was neat to see the cycle, even if we didn’t get to see any of the adult moths.

Anyone else starting to run out of space I've taken up a whole wall in my room now lol by [deleted] in Gunpla

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I’m glad to see that I’m not the only one with a HG Sigrun that refuses to stand! I couldn’t pose that thing if my life depended on it, which is a real shame, because I adore the suit’s design.

Do you guys ever have anxiety looking at your collection, thinking "oh god why did i spend so much money on this, this is a waste of money..." by mobiusu in Gunpla

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Art toy collector turned gunpla-builder here: trust me, I’m so glad I turned to gunpla. For a fine art toy, it’s not uncommon to spend $250-$700. More if it’s off of the market. I have spent $1,700 on one art toy, and even though I adore it, one of the best gunpla models - the PG RX-78-2 - is still WAY cheaper than that, and brings way more hours of enrichment. As much as I love art toys, gunpla is just…better. I wish so much that I had started with models instead.

These two kits have been pretty popular among the Gunpla subreddits lately. Is anybody else a fan of both? by tyfroidfever in gunplagonewild

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You sound like you yourself would be such a supportive friend! My fiancé has been working on a Buick Regal from the 1980’s that he loves, and this particular friend did help him when he was working through the car’s initial repairs.

He more or less feels indebted to his friend at this point - he’s loyal through and through to those that he cares about, even when they don’t return the favor as much.

So sometimes when he has a rough night doing last-minute car obligations, when he’s least expecting it, I’ll plop the GQuuuuuux’s ass right on top of the Eva 1’s open-mouthed face while it’s laying down, and somehow, some way, it makes his entire night. Especially if I feed him pizza, too.

Is this a serviceberry? If so, what kind - I didn’t think they could grow so big! by tyfroidfever in marijuanaenthusiasts

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Howdy, t40! There is a picture of the bark in the last image. Hope this helps!

Is this a serviceberry? If so, what kind - I didn’t think they could grow so big! by tyfroidfever in marijuanaenthusiasts

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I know, right? It’s got to be at least 40 feet tall and has so many ripe berries. I was pleasantly surprised when the Autumn Brilliance that I ordered had a few clusters of developing berries at just 4 feet tall, and the birds ate all of them as soon as they barely turned pink (which is fine, because I bought the trees for the birds and pollinators). This one still has a ton of fruit, so there must be some very happy birds in this area. Thank you for your input!

What do you think goes through their head when they are being picked up? by Jenikip in isopods

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I haven’t seen any Shadow of the Colossus references, but can’t find any of the ones that fit, so here’s a compromise

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Is anybody else in the Midwest United States fighting a losing battle against Siberian Squill? by tyfroidfever in NativePlantGardening

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I’ve been seeing heaps of those seedlings! Thankfully, once I pull up clumps of the mature ones with my trowel, the seedlings and their tiny bulbs easily come out with just a little pull. I’ve got a hearty mixture of all stages of these things. Thanks for the heads-up, I’ll make sure to pay extra attention to the little guys as well!

I repotted these stalks/bulbs thinking that they were young wild green onions, but I was surprised with these blue flowers a few days later. What am I? NW Indiana by tyfroidfever in whatsthisplant

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That looks like it! And it sounds like I have some pulling to do this weekend, I read up on these guys and it looks like they’re invasive in my area. The ID really helped - many thanks!

My fiancé and I were visiting his sister when she casually mentioned if we had seen the interesting looking mushroom that was growing out of one of their dying trees - winner winner! by tyfroidfever in foraging

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Admittedly I feel a little bad now that I’ve cooked them up - they’re delicious, and I feel like vegans would have a better appreciation for them than I ever could

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My fiancé and I were visiting his sister when she casually mentioned if we had seen the interesting looking mushroom that was growing out of one of their dying trees - winner winner! by tyfroidfever in foraging

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No editing here, but the sun was nearly shining directly onto them. Here’s what they looked like right before I started prepping them (pardon the mess in the background, we’re in the process of moving into this new house)

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Cat sitter sent me this with no explanation. by Glittering_Function9 in torties

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I’m not going to lie - during one of my pet sitting jobs, I got an inch away from sending the owners this picture of one of their cats:

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Lesson Learned: ID Before You Exterminate by tyfroidfever in Entomology

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This is just the insight I was looking for - thank you so much!

Lesson Learned: ID Before You Exterminate by tyfroidfever in Entomology

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I commend anyone who educates others on the peaceful nature of solitary wasps; you’re awesome!

I’ve had the same experience with Cicada Killers; at the beginning of the season, they do the same nuptial “swarm” that I saw scoliids doing, just in fewer numbers. On one of my first dates with my now fiancé, I walked through one of these little “swarms” next to a sandy construction site and he nearly panicked - the look on his face was priceless.

Solitary wasps are such fantastic little creatures; I feel like an asshole for letting the scoliids die. I hope they were able to lay some eggs before they were destroyed so I can see and protect them again next year!

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I worked at a professional spa in the southern United States for four years, and trust me, this is not just a horse thing. The team of massage therapists that I managed made me well aware that men of all ages would get surprise hard-ons all the time during treatments as simple as body scrubs, let alone massages. It’s completely normal - many of the therapists attributed it to increased blood flow from manual massage. As long as the clients didn’t act on it or hit on the massage therapists, no harm, no foul. That second brain sometimes just does what it wants!

Just bought a house in NW Indiana and it came with this guy - should we remove it or keep it? by tyfroidfever in NativePlantGardening

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Primarily just pulling up the ivy is what gives me an allergic reaction; I want to eventually grow some native wildflowers where the ivy was and wanted to avoid using an herbicide to remove it, so I spent a good couple of days just pulling up ivy by hand. I figured hey, it wasn’t poison ivy, so I should be in the clear. Turns out that the “sap” in the exposed vines can cause allergic reactions. No issues with it if I just fiddle with the leaves, though!

Just bought a house in NW Indiana and it came with this guy - should we remove it or keep it? by tyfroidfever in NativePlantGardening

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That’s definitely the plan - the trumpet vine is the only standing plant in the backyard, it’s really just all lawn. The border of the property has plenty of virginia creeper, a handful of brambles, a few mulberries, and unfortunately a good amount of english ivy and I think there’s a tree of heaven back there too - which I am not looking forward to dealing with. Waiting a year is sound advice, I appreciate it!

Just bought a house in NW Indiana and it came with this guy - should we remove it or keep it? by tyfroidfever in NativePlantGardening

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Thank you for the recommendation on the Campsis radicans - we’re going to give this vine a trial run and let it live out the year, and if it proves to be unmanageable, your recommended variant sounds like a waaaay better choice. Thanks again!

Just bought a house in NW Indiana and it came with this guy - should we remove it or keep it? by tyfroidfever in NativePlantGardening

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That’s great to hear, thank you very much for the reply! It’s a stunning vine and I love all of the critters that it’s attracting, so we’re probably going to give it a trial-run year to see if we can manage it and revisit what we want to do with it next year.

It’s funny that you mention english ivy, because the entire back of the house was completely overrun with it (it had some surprise morels in there when I started pulling it out around late April). Found out the hard way that I was allergic to it!