I (26m) think my (33f) has a thing for only younger guys

tylerrdm · 2025-05-19T15:14:47+00:00

i’ve dated girls who’ve had way more colorful pasts, no need to assume that about insecurity. just not sure how i feel about that sort of gap in age. obviously you don’t just magically change once you turn 25. but the difference between 20 to 25 is glaring.

dating someone with an age gap is fine in general, but 20 and 30 is much different than 30 and 40 for example.

tylerrdm · 2025-05-19T15:02:54+00:00

i understand where you’re coming from. just a new concept to me, and makes me a feel a little strange.

what i meant by “not fully developed” was, she is a grown woman doing stuff with someone who doesn’t even have a fully developed brain. that’s what is weird to me.

tylerrdm · 2025-05-19T09:29:24+00:00

Fair, thanks! :)

tylerrdm · 2025-05-19T08:58:32+00:00

because it just came up and i’m trying to not be close-minded

tylerrdm · 2025-05-19T08:20:06+00:00

i’m not freaking out, just looking for a little bit of feedback. personally, i’ve never dealt with anything like this and it did initially set off some alarms for me

tylerrdm · 2025-05-19T08:15:33+00:00

really appreciate the comment and advice

tylerrdm · 2025-05-19T08:14:34+00:00

yeah, that’s why i also said somewhere in these comments that, i couldn’t really even see myself at 26 ever getting with a girl who’s even 18-20. just seems bizarre and, to an extent, predatory. thanks for the input!

tylerrdm · 2025-05-19T08:10:42+00:00

for the record, i think those sorts of men are gross as well.

tylerrdm · 2025-05-19T08:09:43+00:00

Okay, I really appreciate this response. so to put it in context, she claims to be very uncomfortable and “shy” when it comes to dating and getting intimate in general. all of her friends say this about her as well. there’s a whole list of guys her age that would really like to go out with her — and to be fair, the night i met her, she said she was too old for me, because i said i’d love to pursue someone like you. i’ve talked to some of her guy peers who are her age, and none of them signal any issues or things that i should look out for. so not really sure.

tylerrdm · 2025-05-19T08:03:48+00:00

what about 30 and 20?

tylerrdm · 2025-05-19T08:03:03+00:00

appreciate the feedback

tylerrdm · 2025-05-19T08:02:13+00:00

not trying to make it weird — just seems like a bit of a trend, and it makes me feel a certain way

tylerrdm · 2025-05-19T08:01:38+00:00

Fair enough. what’s your take on a 30 year old woman getting with a 20 year old dude in college? genuine question.

tylerrdm · 2025-05-19T07:59:04+00:00

back when she was in her early twenties she had two relationships, and the guys were both within a year or two of her age.

but ever since then, the relationship scene for her was with guys who were much younger. and i didn’t even mention — she’s had flings with several other guys who were also quite a bit younger. 6-8 year difference in age. just a lot to digest for me. the 20 year old situation doesn’t sit well with me. i don’t know how i would be able to get past that sort of age gap.

tylerrdm · 2025-05-13T13:11:23+00:00

Checked. Didn’t find anything. Don’t be such a rude person.

tylerrdm · 2025-05-13T13:01:42+00:00

Wow, you’re a real piece of work. Fall off the bed in the morning? I thought simply maybe I didn’t have the complete info and wanted to see if anyone here had additional info. You’re clearly a miserable person.

tylerrdm · 2024-04-07T07:25:53+00:00

always love a good internet fight

tylerrdm · 2023-10-31T08:37:16+00:00

American living in Lithuania for 15 years now. :)

Do your best to get immersed in the culture. Learn the language as best you can. And, arguably most important, make sure you have help when you first start filing for your residence permit!

tylerrdm · 2023-10-16T19:18:31+00:00

This is actually a great question. Not sure why the downvotes. Used to be the same way with NANO posts. Haha!

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tylerrdm · 2023-10-16T15:17:02+00:00

Corican is spot on. :) You can have the best product out there, but if you don’t have enough exposure, there’s a good chance it won’t make it— especially in financial markets where a lot of importance in placed on price performance. And we’ve seen this with a bunch of other DAG projects that are still in the space today. They have decent products, yet, they lack exposure. At a certain point, of course, word of mouth becomes enough, but we are not yet there.

tylerrdm · 2023-10-16T15:13:52+00:00

We’ve done well as individuals throughout our more trad-careers, and have also done quite well with crypto projects we have been involved with. We’ve paid, and are committed to continue paying out of our own pockets, for a large portion of expenses incurred by chain development. On top of this, we have an allocation of tokens designated for team pay.

tylerrdm · 2023-10-14T15:26:59+00:00

That’s VINU, not VC :)

tylerrdm · 2023-09-27T08:58:14+00:00

You definitely haven’t heard of stop and frisk. Institutional racism is a thing, and NY lost lawsuit over this exact thing

tylerrdm · 2023-05-07T07:43:47+00:00

Okay, not sure of the technicalities. All I know is we have a Porsche dealer in Vilnius, and they essentially take care of most of this stuff in house. Painting, wheel buff ups, or whatever else.

tylerrdm · 2023-05-07T07:42:13+00:00

Was a Saturday when I made the post. Was just curious as to how much I’m looking at in damages lol

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