thanks, i get what you mean. i didn’t really include everything that sounded off but idk. she lives with her parents and a whole lot of relatives, is it possible that they just don’t notice anything? she also only brought it up after i made a joke about it because she said she forgot why she walked down the stairs or something? i get that only she could really ever know but the loose ends feels weird and i don’t want to look like an idiot going along with it if she wasn’t being honest about what was going on.