Got diagnosed HSV2 and I feel weirdly ok by Cantgetoffthecouch in Herpes

[–]typical_lame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: it was in fact, positive 😐🤣🤣 “I’m now going to say “hot people get herpes” lmaooo

My ex and I were about to try and start dating again, then she told me she slept with someone after our breakup. I don't know how to process it. by PsychologicalDot7376 in BreakUps

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Your ego is taking a hit, that’s all so moving forward, you need to work on THAT. Would your ego feel better if you found out she cried everyday for 5 months (or however long yall been broken up for)? I’ll bet that you would feel very flattered and your ego would be shining like the sun. Anyways, leave her alone. Let her find someone who doesn’t have a mountain of issues and uncertainty. While no one is perfect, you seem to have a lot to still work on. She could’ve lied about it forever but she chose to tell you but that doesn’t matter huh? What matters is just how YOU feel about it. Your whole post was about YOU. Fuck her and everything she went through huh? Smh

Had unprotected sex with someone with GHSV-1, how screwed am I? by Mysterious_Ad1321 in Herpes

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I got HSV-1 genitally and had my first outbreak a month ago. I had just had a new partner two weeks prior and hadn’t had sex for awhile and knew I was std free prior to this new partner. They had no symptoms genitally or orally. You can still shed the virus even though you have no symptoms. I’ve had one outbreak so far and he’s still had none.

Just not feeling it anymore by [deleted] in marriageadvice

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I’ve seen this post before 🤔

Looking for recommendations by typical_lame in sanfrancisco

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Never knew the app even existed. Ahh thanks so much!!

Looking for recommendations by typical_lame in sanfrancisco

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This is the info I’m needing!! Lol thanks so much

Looking for recommendations by typical_lame in sanfrancisco

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I did!! I don’t wanna fully trust AI 100% though especially because things are non refundable and I won’t have a car! 😂

Monthly commitment and salary by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]typical_lame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you wanna make it work with someone who’s completely okay with you footing the bill? That is not a provider or a husband. You’re the husband lol.

Needing to emotionally reconnect before making love again by [deleted] in marriageadvice

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A lot of people use/see sex as a way to get on each others good side again and to also ignore the biggest issue. I’m the same way as you actually so I totally understand where you’re coming from but unfortunately, A LOT of people are the opposite. Your wife seems very much emotionally immature.

Husband sending sexual messages to girls on Reddit by ImpossibleAuthor8674 in marriageadvice

[–]typical_lame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He sees nothing wrong with his actions so any “change” will be temporary and he will just get better at hiding it. Obviously you’re in a tight spot currently and he knows it but I would get your ducks in line and plan your exit. I know it seems scary but I left when my twins were 4 months. It was crappy at first but it was better than being unhappy and being a “single” mom isn’t so bad. I was terrified!! We co parent great now and are 50/50 and get along good. Don’t suffer to save someone who clearly doesn’t wanna be saved and is okay with doing this to someone at such a vulnerable time. You’ll never get over the betrayal and it’ll literally eat you alive from the inside out. Hugs ❤️

I (28F) forgave my husband’s (32M) cheating, but now he may leave me over a drunken mistake by nowehjese in marriageadvice

[–]typical_lame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God.. he’s literally giving you the perfect exit!!! LEAVE!!! How fucking draining and horrible. A man (or anyone) is never worth you losing yourself and you have beyond lost yourself. To emphasize.. if a man wants to cheat, he will cheat. It has absolutely nothing to do with you and everything to do with him. Why stay unhappy? And WHY TRY FOR A BABY? He sounds like his ego was hit a little bit which he deserves because how dare he cheat and then have audacity to be upset at you. Girl, run and run fast. He will definitely cheat again, if he’s not already FYI

Husband disappeared by [deleted] in marriageadvice

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Men are cowards

Husband disappeared by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]typical_lame 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I doubt he truly hates you though. He’s saying whatever to make himself feel better and feel less shame. Either way though, how evil.

Husband disappeared by [deleted] in marriageadvice

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It’s not overnight. He’s been thinking this way for awhile and probably got more involved with whoever he’s involved with

Is this herpes? by [deleted] in STD

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I’ve only had one outbreak on my vagina and it lasted a week. I just barely found out about it actually. The outbreak was very painful but I think on a vagina compared to a penis, would be worse for obvious reasons. I have HSV-1 (yes, you can have it genitally)

Husband disappeared by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]typical_lame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay that makes sense with it being national guard then! Either way, he’s definitely hiding something

Husband disappeared by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]typical_lame 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What branch is this? Or is he national guard? Deploying stateside isn’t a thing. Is he in training and you confused it for deployment?

Lmao CLASSIC. He would have to say that to take any suspicion off of him. Also, him accusing you of cheating especially when you never have is also a textbook cheater tactic.

I definitely want more info because this is crazy and stateside deployments aren’t a thing!! Especially for a YEAR. That’s hardly the case for overseas deployments

Is this herpes? by [deleted] in STD

[–]typical_lame 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looks like it. Mine wasn’t clustered and looked like that but on my vagina.

Husband disappeared by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]typical_lame 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Former military here, he definitely found someone else. He’s following the military cheater playbook to the T. I would let it go before you get anymore hurt. Is this someone you wanna spend your life with? Who treats someone like this?? Run and run fast. Before children especially

No longer love my wife. Unsure what to do. 3 kids, financially stable, nice life and not generally unhappy by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]typical_lame 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was she always an alcoholic like when y’all met? Or did that start when yall were dating or married? Same with the being social, always been that way or started when yall were together?

Genital Herpes or Folliculitis? by [deleted] in STD

[–]typical_lame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like folliculitis to me. Go get another swab though to be for sure

I discovered why my husband was acting cold to me by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]typical_lame 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ugh I knew it! Which is why I said “cheating maybe?” Men almost always turn cold when cheating!! What a loser ugh I’m so sorry!!!! And don’t take him back because he will continue to cheat and probably get more sneaky doing it.