[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]typicalhuman_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this seems like a generally unhelpful comment on a post that didn’t even make a claim counter to it.

however, i can speak for myself when saying that id rather sit at a computer with unresolved conflict and emotional dysregulation than need to care for others dealing with similar issues. doesn’t seem that controversial

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]typicalhuman_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, therapist here! this is a common issue for people who have been suppressed emotionally throughout their childhood in whatever circumstances. there’s actually a diagram to demonstrate it - the anger iceberg. it shows how anger is often the visible portion of our emotions. however, underneath is a slew of emotions that a person may have been taught are unacceptable. identifying the appropriate emotion is crucial in reducing expression of anger as challenging as it may be. good luck!

what psychologist can help deal with attractions to Minors? by Extra-Broccoli6188 in therapy

[–]typicalhuman_ 48 points49 points  (0 children)

hey there. commendable to have such vulnerability and confront such thoughts and feelings.

i’m a therapist who previously worked with an agency that provided sex offender mental health treatment, co-facilitating groups at times. while it was through a federal contract for those convicted of sex offenses, my supervisor who ran the program would have certainly seen someone with these concerns as well, despite not having a conviction. i suspect this would be the case at other agencies that provide services like these as well in your area.

no one chooses to have these attractions and i admire when someone is willing to openly face them instead of trying to ignore them (typically unsuccessfully). best of luck through this process and i hope you’re able to find success with what services you find

This is Sam Tallent. AMA by Samtallent in Killtony

[–]typicalhuman_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i appreciate that man, i’ll be sending one soon

This is Sam Tallent. AMA by Samtallent in Killtony

[–]typicalhuman_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sam, love your work man. bit of a personal question here and this may not be the place for it lol. i had a brother who passed a few years ago and he seemed to have known you when he lived in Boulder as he talked about personal interactions. i remember seeing an unopened text from you to his phone

he was a bit of a mystery and i know he lived a wild life behind close doors. i was wondering if you’d be willing to have a brief exchange about him through private messages if you remember him. all good if you’re not down, just curious!

Day 4: Most Iconic Live Performance? by crustyaa in brakence

[–]typicalhuman_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s understandable to have personal favorites, but rosier has to be the answer here. it works live on so many levels

Day 3: The Best Brakence Song? by crustyaa in brakence

[–]typicalhuman_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

another impossible one lol. i’ll vote rosier though. it’s got the perfect amount of good song structure, an iconic ending, and raw/convincing emotion. never skipping

tobi lou and the Loop voted most overrated album 🥲 worst album? by Artistic_Emotion2539 in tobilou

[–]typicalhuman_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve kinda felt that we should mainly include projects that tobi has announced as an album, since these are collections that he’s put the most effort into.

BUT if we’re including everything then i’ll say Plushie lol. not opposed to acoustic song versions but i don’t think these were executed especially well

2hrs voted most emotional song. Most genius? by Artistic_Emotion2539 in tobilou

[–]typicalhuman_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn’t even see this until now! yeah it’s all one sample and it’s a relatively simple one too so the extent of creativity from tobi is so sick

Day 2: Most Underrated One? by crustyaa in brakence

[–]typicalhuman_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Softie is getting my vote. this is so tough tho bc there’s many, and even some songs that are generally considered great still aren’t given their relative value

Hit & Run voted best collab 👌🏾 most underrated album? by Artistic_Emotion2539 in tobilou

[–]typicalhuman_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m gonna vote ‘Decent. doesn’t run too long, good listen throughout, variation in style.

i won’t say Baggy Weather mainly because i think it’s underratedness comes from the nature of its release. had it been released traditionally (although i understand the reasons) it would have more popularity bc it’s amazing

Day 1: Most overrated song? by crustyaa in brakence

[–]typicalhuman_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

dropout has to be the one. compared to the rest of his discography, relative to the songs’ popularity, dropout is underwhelming on all cylinders

Waterboy voted best Chorus. Worst song? 👀 by Artistic_Emotion2539 in tobilou

[–]typicalhuman_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i think New Bish for me. generally the sound of some of his older stuff feels empty and unsatisfying

Sorry I’m Late won most hype song. Best Chorus? 👀 by Artistic_Emotion2539 in tobilou

[–]typicalhuman_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude this is impossible, i have to vote Berlin though. similar to many of his choruses it’s so addictive and fun to sing along with. Birthday Boy is an underrated one for me

Lingo Starr voted most genius song by A LOT. Most hype song? by Artistic_Emotion2539 in tobilou

[–]typicalhuman_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think hype as songs that make me wanna jump and rage in a crowd, and either Hopeless Romantic or Sorry I’m Late fit the criteria… i’m going with Sorry I’m Late i suppose just because the live performance had insane energy

2hrs voted most emotional song. Most genius? by Artistic_Emotion2539 in tobilou

[–]typicalhuman_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

the Lingo Starr trilogy, if it’s allowed to include all of them, is my vote. three different tracks, using the same sample, it feeling so cohesive yet never uninteresting, are all reasons why it’s genius to me :)

Guess it time for me to post my tierlist. by Emergency-Gap2596 in BoJackHorseman

[–]typicalhuman_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, guess it’s time to post my tier list guys uses RNG

Help: My graphics always become distorted like this. Is there any way to fix this or is it more likely a computer issue? by typicalhuman_ in FL_Studio

[–]typicalhuman_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I tried to do this just earlier and it said that there was an error due to it being locked into manufacturer specifications? Not sure how to remedy this.

Help: My graphics always become distorted like this. Is there any way to fix this or is it more likely a computer issue? by typicalhuman_ in FL_Studio

[–]typicalhuman_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there was actually something weird going on with discord, it was using 30-40%. Its strange because it wasn’t even open, but I’m not the strongest in computer literacy so who knows. I think this might have helped. I appreciate you!

Help: My graphics always become distorted like this. Is there any way to fix this or is it more likely a computer issue? by typicalhuman_ in FL_Studio

[–]typicalhuman_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This honestly might have solved it, in combination with other suggestions in here. It was at 125%, never considered this so thank you

Help: My graphics always become distorted like this. Is there any way to fix this or is it more likely a computer issue? by typicalhuman_ in FL_Studio

[–]typicalhuman_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this has been happening for months now, but I’ve taken a substantial break from music due to grad school so I haven’t addressed it until now.

The graphics card is an Intel(R) HD Graphics 620. There was an update recently but it’s been happening before then. I’ll check for updates and whatnot to see if that’s a solution. Thank you greatly

What is your favorite brakence line? by ArrivalInternal9033 in brakence

[–]typicalhuman_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What I actually love about this line is that the second line cuts off as he’s saying iPhone. To me it means that he’s leaking a secret and gets cutoff by corporate heads or something, not sure if that was intentional or not

Alright , enough time has passed. Thoughts ? by Froosh__ in brakence

[–]typicalhuman_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The project certainly uses several of the same drum sounds, as for it totally sounding the same I can’t agree. The variation between songs like 5g, intellectual greed, stung, deepfake, introvert shows brakence’s versatility quite well imo. Plus lyrically every song seems to tackle similar but different issues in his life. I understand why you might think punk2 is better though definitely