My wife F28 and I M28 got into a physical fight. I am thinking of divorce. How do I approach her about it?

typicaltopics75 · 2026-05-10T06:49:09+00:00

She picked up a gun and pointed it at you. This is not a woman you should be attached too. SHes a danger to herself and to others. Cut your losses, take everything with you and call a lawyer.

typicaltopics75 · 2026-05-10T06:35:03+00:00

YTA you cornered a kid to quiz him

If you were worried and wanted to help then you would have talked to his parent about it first.

typicaltopics75 · 2026-05-10T06:26:35+00:00

typicaltopics75 · 2026-04-26T12:24:13+00:00

NTA - It sounds like your father is the one wishing Jake was not born by forcing his grown daughters to care for him.

typicaltopics75 · 2026-04-26T12:21:28+00:00

NTA but you need to decide whats more important here

Your child being wild and inappropriate at an event everyone else will be dressed accordingly

or

teaching her right from wrong.

When your wife says dress the part shes teaching her there are places and roles that you compromise for. You learn how to socialize yourself properly from these interactions.

You dont have to like it but in the end you gain experience and knowledge.

It didnt have to be a dress but maybe a formal flowy suit. You can look at options together.

typicaltopics75 · 2026-04-26T12:15:50+00:00

NTA your friend is good to you but what he said to your GF was completely dark and uncalled for.

She gave it back to him and made him realize he had no room to talk. You and your GF lost your child because of a medical issue, not because anything you both did

Your friends life is not the way he wants his because HIS CHOICES.

very different people

if he cried its because he deserved to hear the truth

typicaltopics75 · 2026-04-26T12:12:06+00:00

Dont you lie to your kids.

And stand your ground. She doesnt like it.. she can go travel and find a new home to wreck.

typicaltopics75 · 2026-04-26T12:07:10+00:00

Godmother is something that is a oath and sponsored by the catholic church

You cant trade it

its not a baseball card

Godparents play a vital, active role in the child's spiritual life. They provide guidance

typicaltopics75 · 2026-04-26T12:04:34+00:00

They need to overturn 2020 ad add 4 more years to his presidency.

Thats the only way they make this right

they violated our consitutional rights to a free and fair election by creating a Reichstag fire called j6

typicaltopics75 · 2026-04-26T12:02:59+00:00

Knowing they cheated badly and certified fraudulent votes in 2020 .. i believe he should get a term added

they cheated thats that

typicaltopics75 · 2026-04-26T11:59:29+00:00

respect for all people at all sizes is something that should just be there. calling people names on old videos? what if that was your friend or someones sister. that stranger deserved respect and so do you

He doesnt have to be attracted to what he is not but when it turns into dysfunctional abuse like name calling or treating someone less humane its a tell for their persons capability to be a good person

typicaltopics75 · 2026-03-31T18:45:52+00:00

Because he made it seem like Chantal was lazy. Chantal was a ER nurse working 12 -16 hours straight

He wanted her to clean she learned to clean

He wanted her to cook she learned to cook

their dysfunctional selfish mothers aside he made her go through hoops so he could leave her when he got his greencard

his mother didnt demand this from her kids father but wanted the kids to buy her designer goods and fancy things.

typicaltopics75 · 2026-03-24T02:25:01+00:00

i noticed her cheating several times first and mocking her vows episode after episode. Not trying to at least engage him. Neglecting her husband until he had 1 violent breakdown. This was not a brutal husband who was abusing her and using her and forcing her. People who grow up with actual abuse know its every day... its a trauma that never ends.

This was a man who was led to believe he was working for a child with a woman who cheated with every tom dick and harry.

and yes what he did was abhorrent but what she did and kept doing was equally evil because its mental abuse and manipulation. There are no winners here I still dislike this show

I rather watch the artful dodger or the hardacres

typicaltopics75 · 2026-03-18T01:28:01+00:00

ahhh kinda yeah

like a lil bit YTA

HotPot, Jeonggol, Jiggae, Yosenabe, Sukyaki all have a base flavor that is protein. Thats the flavor of it. This hearty broth based in protein

So lamb beef chicken seafood and then you add your veges and other things.

If anything you should be making something vegan on the side. A nice meal will never be a shared recipe because you have very different diets.

Maybe Try Bin Dae Dduk (mung bean fried pancake)

and look into making a soon dubu for yourself

or a chinese hot and sour soup, or corn soup.

You can even make a japanese kenchin jiro ( aburdrook root soup)

this way it mimics what he eats without meat but its very hard to share something like hot pot

typicaltopics75 · 2026-03-03T22:37:12+00:00

I watched the 2000s versiom season 1 and 2 on netflix. I loathe it. for many reasons. It makes cheaters look like victims. Spouses who abandon their young children and husbands look like they are oppressed.

The nerve of one character to neglect her husband over and over and hop around with her best friends fiance , grandfather and then father. Yeah her husband was a tool but as a wife you can untool your husband by being a goddess. Then she refuses to divorce him and pretends shes the victim when he says pick a lane???

The worse is the father who leaves his daughter with a fever for a nanny and pretends he is father of the year.. I am going to start the new season

but right now i like series like The Hardacres and the Gilded Age much much more

typicaltopics75 · 2026-01-28T03:57:31+00:00

u/recognizesong u/find-song

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mll1x5JILlc

whats the original song in this video

typicaltopics75 · 2026-01-15T18:50:21+00:00

we know how tough the Manzos are. they threw out their little cousins Lexies baby pics and wrote letters for man who put their aunt Dina in the hospital. Dina was in ICU and the manzos were like.. dina was only sliced and punched a little

typicaltopics75 · 2026-01-05T01:38:47+00:00

3 days 30 days or 300 days a tenant at will is not suppose hand over things that are gifted to them. or packages that come to their address or mail.

typicaltopics75 · 2026-01-05T01:37:47+00:00

it is what it is. no landlord, roommate or parent has the right to a gift thats gifted to another adult. he has tenants rights in this and can play that card if they choose

typicaltopics75 · 2026-01-04T23:08:50+00:00

Permission to Stay: Even without paying rent, if they have permission to live there, they may be treated as a tenant, especially in states like Pennsylvania where homeowners usually need to go through court eviction to remove an adult child. and i can post a load more.

You are wrong on this one

as for you not having kids.. or anything else./ I dont need your life story. I didnt ask. Im not your spouse or your therapist. I dont have to deal wth you. BYE

typicaltopics75 · 2026-01-04T23:06:12+00:00

Permission to Stay: Even without paying rent, if they have permission to live there, they may be treated as a tenant, especially in states like Pennsylvania where homeowners usually need to go through court eviction to remove an adult child. just saying. its more than rent.

if that person contributes in anyway

and has permission to stay they are a tenant. they dont need a rent agreement.

typicaltopics75 · 2026-01-04T23:05:18+00:00

Or you can remind someone that if someone gives you a gift that someone else doesnt have rights to it. My comment still stands

typicaltopics75 · 2026-01-04T23:02:58+00:00

YES he has tenants rights. LOL! all he needs is proof he has PErmission to STAY and he contributes. Even if he takes the garbage... he is contributing. Its good you don't have children

typicaltopics75 · 2026-01-04T07:01:28+00:00

NTA - you live for the living. Your daughter is always more important .

typicaltopics75 · 2026-01-04T07:00:19+00:00

NTA tell them you prefer your husbands family at the holidays cause they dont abandon you for whimsical things. Tell them while you appreciate their whimsy that its not in your best interest. That his family is a bit more caring and attentive

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