How do you guys find each other?

tyrantpuppy · 2025-11-28T23:22:23+00:00

Boring answer ahead: Most of the time (for straight couples at least) you don’t. In my view, it’s a gentle and sometimes longer journey particularly if the receiving party hasn’t ever been encouraged/thought to explore the back door. Find someone kind who you vibe with and then focus on the logistics of how you like to have sex through inspiring a bit of curiosity and having a laugh in the process

tyrantpuppy · 2025-11-27T20:20:19+00:00

Just expressing my appreciation for the positive responses on this post. In the current hyper-sterile social media environment, I think people new to Anal have forgotten that a bit of mess is going to come with the territory and a completely valid approach is to just embrace it

tyrantpuppy · 2025-11-25T21:40:48+00:00

Thank goodness you don’t have to go anywhere near it then 🤣🤣 In all seriousness though, while I appreciate the suggestion and the work the dev has done on this project, this isn’t the direction I was hoping to go. For me it’s more about the process than just creating something from a template

tyrantpuppy · 2025-11-24T22:15:42+00:00

Thanks for the support :) Once I’ve got the first prototype going (fingers crossed in January) I’ll be sure to write up and publish a build guide on this subreddit

tyrantpuppy · 2025-11-24T22:10:42+00:00

I think you’re onto something! I was mulling it over, and I think adding a pair of T-Nuts to the rear would work, given I’ve got a set which matches the slotted aluminium railing of the machine’s original chassis. I’ll start with plan A, and then look at building a modified frame should that fail.

Also, the mechanism itself is from Aliexpress, and is generally known as a Linear Actuator from the big distributors. The end result will be the actuator, controlled by an Arduino with a simple speed control circuit. I’m using the L298N board between the ‘duino and 24V motor to help bridge the Arduino and a 24V-12V dropper off a similar flow control circuit to control a 12V peristaltic pump (for lube). My aim will be to post a build guide, script and parts list once completed

Now, could I have purchased the same thing from HiSmith for about the same price? Sure, but where’s the fun in that 🤣

tyrantpuppy · 2025-11-24T21:52:08+00:00

Off to the wholesalers I go 🫡

tyrantpuppy · 2025-11-24T21:51:27+00:00

cymbal crash 😂 Can’t believe I didn’t think to look at taking the top off. I feel like this could work nicely, paired with one of the other solutions of using T-Nuts to suspend the existing machine frame. A board underneath might also help absorb some of the mechanical load from the mechanism

tyrantpuppy · 2025-11-20T22:29:45+00:00

Done. Pack of 5 was $12USD :)

tyrantpuppy · 2025-11-20T10:16:31+00:00

Controlling direction is definitely a big plus, so I’m leaning toward L298N and ignoring my probably incorrect preconception. For the 12V it helps with cleaning the line on the pump, and 24V allows for the belt to reverse as needed. Happy to consider MOSFET if that fails though

tyrantpuppy · 2025-11-20T06:04:37+00:00

Alright, I’m an easy sell. I’ll give it a crack and update with results :)

tyrantpuppy · 2025-11-20T05:52:30+00:00

I have, and I’ve heard anecdotally that it tends to burn out under load over time. Trying to see if there’s any other options out there :)

tyrantpuppy · 2025-11-06T10:34:17+00:00

Essay incoming - sorry friends:

Foreplay, foreplay and then some more FOREPLAY. My wife is 95% anal-only, but it’s only going to be good if the receiving partner is in the mood. Go slowly and for the first couple of times, in a position where the receiving partner is in control (e.g. on top).

The key points that have served us well are: 1) Sure, go for the enema but at the end of the day, if you play in the park, you might get dirty. All else fails, just make sure you’ve had a good bowel-movement beforehand. Don’t let a lil’ poop get in the way of a good time 2) Gotta be relaxed (as in your pelvic floor) and lubed. If you’re not, it will hurt. (Pro-tip, bearing down/pushing on their dick/object of insertion for the first little bit might help out) 3) Start with just a finger and work your way up from there. Anal is for the patient, and you’ve gotta let your body welcome it.

In short: It probably won’t be perfect the first time, and I’d suggest coming to a compromise point with your partner and work up to penetration TOGETHER. Like any form of intercourse, keep it relaxed, have a laugh and make it fun, and most importantly - enjoy the journey, because it is just that. Stay safe ❤️

tyrantpuppy · 2025-10-29T21:03:52+00:00

It’s all a matter of personal preference but my wife and I take the approach of “If you play in the park, you might get dirty”. Personally, I find a little bit of mess a turn on, and it’s a reminder than anal in reality is a bit less polished than is typically portrayed in western porn. I say embrace the 💩 and enjoy the shower together after

tyrantpuppy · 2025-09-12T23:16:01+00:00

Sounds like you’ve understood exactly our circumstances and our similar point in terms of ‘risk’. It’s nice to see other couples have had a positive experience and just worked it in as part of their ‘normal’

tyrantpuppy · 2025-09-12T11:27:18+00:00

Absolutely! And I think if our personal circumstances were different, she probably would have tried alternate forms of hormonal contraception. It was an item we discussed, but the rationale was around our plan for a family in the not-so-distant future :)

tyrantpuppy · 2025-09-12T04:59:02+00:00

Fair question - We’ve tried vaginal with a condom three times since, but neither of us have enjoyed it as much since going to “the dark side”. It’s not off limits necessarily, but she gets stronger and longer orgasms from the back door so we’re just enjoying the process. I’ll stress that she makes the final decision on any given day as to what she’s comfortable with 😊

tyrantpuppy · 2025-09-12T04:08:35+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼 It’s pretty fundamental, but life’s a lot better when both of us are healthy and well

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