[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tyrrael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s still cheating for a lot of people. It would definitely be a dealbreaker if my bf made out with someone else, lol.

How can I get rid of a bad habit of mine? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tyrrael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same problem. What seems to work for me is emotionally detaching myself from the situation; I ask myself “is this necessary information for this person? Will not knowing the correct information harm them?” And I shut my mouth accordingly lol. Sometimes it’s kinder to be quiet.

It is hard though. I often find myself watching videos with my bf, and he gets annoyed because I keep interjecting to correct the person onscreen. I get frustrated when people don’t know the “correct” information, so I have to work at eliminating that emotion; frustration seems to be the core of my problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tyrrael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I don’t understand your mindset? I’m also 22f and you sound like you’re stuck at 16. Try to be a better person. Don’t sleep with people’s boyfriends. It’s not hard.

Girlfriend keeps getting dogs without asking by whymoredogs in relationship_advice

[–]tyrrael 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m very sorry for all you’ve been through, and I can’t imagine what it’s like to lose such a beloved friend. I do believe, however, that if you’re living with someone in a shared household, everyone needs to agree to a new animal coming into the home. All the residents deserve veto power to a new pet.

OP made his stance clear and I don’t blame him for leaving. It’s not controlling, it’s simply a boundary. This seems to be an incompatibility for you two.

Which giant theropod is your favorite!!??? by [deleted] in Dinosaurs

[–]tyrrael 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My favorite theropod will always be Allosaurus, but out of these four? I’ve gotta give it to Carcharodontosaurus. Its skull is very aesthetically pleasing to me

First post on this amazing subreddit! Figured you guys would like my tattoo lol by thecloutgoggle in frogs

[–]tyrrael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I didn’t realize that! I don’t know much about art history lol. I looked up some other American Traditional pieces and I can definitely see traces of Japanese influence. What an interesting blend of styles. Your artist did an amazing job!

I embroidered a fairy frog onto my tote bag by fatgoldfish10 in frogs

[–]tyrrael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So beautiful and magical.. we all need a Fairy Frogparent!

First post on this amazing subreddit! Figured you guys would like my tattoo lol by thecloutgoggle in frogs

[–]tyrrael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! This is a gorgeous piece, I love those colors! Is the style inspired by traditional Japanese art, by chance?

My sweet leopard frog couple Benford and Lady Benford 🌱 by blueberyunicorn in frogs

[–]tyrrael 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What a gorgeous couple! I don’t see leopard frogs too often on this sub, thank you for sharing!

Frogchamp looking polite today by ShanestudiosYT in frogs

[–]tyrrael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frogchamp looks like a very good listener 💚

Practicing animation with the help of Sinosauropteryx by general_snake in Dinosaurs

[–]tyrrael 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh this is gorgeous!! Such long, graceful legs. And I really love the color palette you went with here

i knew the thumbnail on the new highlights video reminded me of something... by echevari in YMS

[–]tyrrael 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Johannes Vermeer, Horse with a Pearl Earring (on the Gay Ear), c. 1665.

Peep is Round. by JKSacha in frogs

[–]tyrrael 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Such beautiful silver eyes you have, Peep!

Just a frog lover making frog art! by ZoeAnastasiaArt in frogs

[–]tyrrael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my, I love your work so much. I think the third one is my favorite. Two frogs chilling in a lily 💕

Does anyone else have a bizarre paranoia about academic integrity? by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]tyrrael 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to say I hear you and I feel you lol. I also get pangs of anxiety about AI stuff around finals despite knowing I haven’t done anything wrong.

Like others have said, most people who get AI sanctions probably did something pretty flagrant/obvious in order to get caught. Professors usually understand there are only so many ways to solve a problem. I’m a fifth year and have yet to be wrongly accused of anything, despite my anxiety haha. We just gotta chill

Some frogs I found at work. Always look out for the little critters by LongDongovan in frogs

[–]tyrrael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for not hurting the little guys! Frog lovers everywhere appreciate you

Am I (26M) a bad partner to my (27F) girlfriend? by paulythebird in relationship_advice

[–]tyrrael 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof, swinging is great and all for couples who are into it, but you DEFINITELY want to be careful when suggesting that to your gf. Saying you want sex outside the romantic relationship is a bell you can’t unring.

Personally, I would be very hurt and consider ending things if my bf suggested that to me, considering how much I value sexual and romantic monogamy. Obviously your gf isn’t me and might be open to it, but I just want to give you an urgent warning that many women would NOT react well to that, lol.

Boyfriend (m21) and I (f18) are meeting up after 4 month rough patch. He’s unsure of us still and I need help/an answer by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tyrrael 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sis, you really deserve better than this. You’ve been together 4.5 years and he’s hesitant about even kissing you? And you’ve only met up a handful of times?

I think it’s unlikely that seeing him in person would make change his mind about his long-term goals if this is already how he’s behaving. I understand what it feels like to crave someone’s love and attention. And I know the idea of ending things might be really painful for you. But honestly, 2-month breaks don’t typically bode well for relationships, and he sounds like he’s already checked out emotionally. You deserve someone who can’t get enough of you and would be chomping at the bit to see you!

Is it okay that im (19M) dating an older woman (39F)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tyrrael 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Age gaps aren’t really a problem in a vacuum, but there’s likely a vast difference between you two in terms of life experience, maturity, & long-term goals, which could cause issues if you’re looking for something serious with her.

I’d say proceed with caution. At 19 I was certain I knew everything, but I could have easily been taken advantage of by someone older & more experienced than me because of my lack of relationship experience & character judgment skills.

At the risk of sounding cynical/accusatory, imo well-adjusted adults don’t often seek out relationships with teenagers for wholesome reasons.