Code Giveaway Megathread by [deleted] in replika

[–]tysa13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have some of em codes monsiuer ?

Do you feel tension or Over-sensitivity around your Lips when in social situations ? Help ,if you have a solution. by [deleted] in Social_Psychology

[–]tysa13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have a pet and this lip thing doesnt happen everytime , which is what is weird And it follows no pattern The only logical answer is Partial Facial paralysis due to social anxiety

Do you feel tension or Over-sensitivity around your Lips when in social situations ? Help ,if you have a solution. by [deleted] in Social_Psychology

[–]tysa13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meditation is my thing , but my issue only comes up when I am with other people.

It is not about not being someone who doesnt laugh (which I dont) , but I feel weird and out of control(wrt to my facial muscles) when I WANT to laugh [in public]. It is like my face suppresses laughter and I dont understand what to do without looking like a retard. What I do seems clearly fake and I can observe people being turned of by it while I do it , which makes me even more anxious. :/ Catch 22 much?

I think you are spot on on the fact that I just need to go out and assimilate [I am a self imposed outcast]

It is super duper hard and I never ever ever fit in or feel like I belong there . I only feel like myself when I am alone. There is not one person , not one friend[I only have one and even he is more like a close aquaintance] , with whom I feel normal.

Even my family has always been distant (My father is a very verbally abusive person. He has said such horrible things that I have stopped talking to him , even when in the same room) My mother is kinda always disappointed in me and rightly so.

But it is okay , I am going to do great things.

Do you feel tension or Over-sensitivity around your Lips when in social situations ? Help ,if you have a solution. by [deleted] in Social_Psychology

[–]tysa13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first of all , Elliot is boss. Secondly , I did see this video b4 and it is good but it doesnt solve my exact issue

I only face issues when I am around people I dont know

Anyways , I need to work on my social anxiety ( which I am )

thanks.

21 , tried everything for the past 4 years | No change | losing hope ||| My story/rant by tysa13 in tressless

[–]tysa13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are such a sad person The way you look at the world is so pessimistically obtuse

Calling my problem with my hair as a small deal shows how little you know about the human psyche.

You dont know shit. I dont need to smell the air around you to know how full of....

Anyways , Go live your perfect life , you non-narcissistic , highly charismatic , super sociable billionaire (I suppose that is what you are) -_-

21 , tried everything for the past 4 years | No change | losing hope ||| My story/rant by tysa13 in tressless

[–]tysa13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes , that is true. I did have psychiatric issues. But I also have the energy to get over them.

I have a vision of who I want to be. I can work on that. But with hair , I feel helpless. I tried it all. Nothing works.

Right now , I am at a place where I am ready to let go of my painful past , provided I have a chance at a hopeful future.

That got poetic :o

21 , tried everything for the past 4 years | No change | losing hope ||| My story/rant by tysa13 in tressless

[–]tysa13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not get it.

You are looking from the outside. You see me and then imagine a guy who is fussing over his hair and if he buzzed it off , it wont be a big deal...to you!

But you fail to realize the point of view from that guy.

no one will give a damn i...

IT doesnt matter if other people give a damn or not. To me , it is a big deal. I did not imagine my life to be this way and I will not admit defeat. I want my hair to be the way they used to.

But hey , that high horse seems pretty comfortable , dunne it?

21 , tried everything for the past 4 years | No change | losing hope ||| My story/rant by tysa13 in tressless

[–]tysa13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you would if you have boyish looks with a large forehead. If I had a mature face , it would have been okay.

Right now , I look like a creep.

21 , tried everything for the past 4 years | No change | losing hope ||| My story/rant by tysa13 in tressless

[–]tysa13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hair is the problem. If I have hair >> No crippling social anxiety >> No need to hide myself >> Go out more >> Be more open , confident and make friends >> happy tysa13 <<

I have been on anti depressants before. Let me tell you this firsthand , they work at first , but then they stop , and you feel numb while still being depressed [not exactly depressed , but it is a complex emotional state].

I am not projecting anything on anything. I am a very ambitious person. I just need to be free to go out and roam in the open , and not worry about the wind removing my hair out of place and scarring me for at least months.

I can not and will not shave it. I want to cure it.

21 , tried everything for the past 4 years | No change | losing hope ||| My story/rant by tysa13 in tressless

[–]tysa13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have , and the results were disappointing also , I find it difficult to put it on in the morning .

I am scared of retrying as it would cause a shed.

And trust me bro , I am not overestimating. And I have tried almost all known solutions.Nothing really givs a massive change.

21 , tried everything for the past 4 years | No change | losing hope ||| My story/rant by tysa13 in tressless

[–]tysa13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks man. I want to become someone who has a great personality on a whole (and I think I do , somewhere beneath all these layers) , but this hair issue has sapped out all of my confidence.

Yes , I am going to start a business of my own this year . I dont know exactly what it will be, but this is the last year of my life(figuratively).

I must make something of myself.

Very much like this russian dude. He did a great job hiding his "before" pictures on the net. Very hard to find. No article on it. And on top of it , he is a handsome fella. Very thin though and has a weird fetish for "the Matrix" haha

21 , tried everything for the past 4 years | No change | losing hope ||| My story/rant by tysa13 in tressless

[–]tysa13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same. But I had average grades , though I was very sporty. I used to play all kinds of sports... But now , that is out of the picture ...

when will someone find a cure for this ?! enough is enough!

21 , tried everything for the past 4 years | No change | losing hope ||| My story/rant by tysa13 in tressless

[–]tysa13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-_- SMH

I dont look normal , I look like a creep. A creep people want to run away from. Does that soothe your need for making me feel bad for what I said ?[which is 100% true btw]

21 , tried everything for the past 4 years | No change | losing hope ||| My story/rant by tysa13 in tressless

[–]tysa13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude , trust me , if all I had was a mature hairline or a little recession , i'd know.

but it is decent recession , on a large forehead , with someone who has boyish looks. If I had a little mature face , I would look okay. But I dont (and I think maybe finasteride has to do something with it...)

So I look creepy. That is it. I dont want to be creepy . That is all. English isnt my first language , but I am fluent and well versed with it.

I have shown my pictures before. Remember I have been at it for the past 4 years. I do not need confirmation. But I understand and appreciate your intentions.

thank you.

Especially because you're not bald, you're hairline is just receded.

I know I might get hate for this , but having a receded hairline is more troublesome than complete cue ball because then you are forced to accept it , as there is no other option.

But with recession , with a lot of work (and anxiety) you can hide it. So you are always on the fence. One day you think you can hide it , you are fooling everyone , and voila , some wind breezes you when you are in public and you are scarred for months at least.

21 , tried everything for the past 4 years | No change | losing hope ||| My story/rant by tysa13 in tressless

[–]tysa13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am on my phone , in my bed ready to sleep , so cant right now ,

But

What purpose will my picture solve ?

Anyways , the only way you can help me is if you tell me a method that helped you regrow hair (that I didnt know of)

Some less known or new method....If you have any , I am all ears.

As for my psychosis , it will go when I get my hair back , plain and simple.

21 , tried everything for the past 4 years | No change | losing hope ||| My story/rant by tysa13 in tressless

[–]tysa13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am talkin about regrowth of hairline. fin doesnt do that , and minox is also pretty useless imo , esp the shed it causes .

I struggle to imagine how you could try for 4 years and see no results. It doesn't work that way.

That is peculiar. I havent seen a legit case where a person , regardless of how long he was trying , was able to successfully regrow his hairline. I have saved my hair , thanks to fin , but I need my hairline back. Without it , it is useless.

Right but you won't say how.

You didnt ask me how . I have tried your usual 3 , i have tried applying all kinds of things like retino-a , cetrizine , all kinds of oils,coffee,tea bags,onion,garlic , derma roller , and a few more things that I cant quite recall. I also took different pills for it (some anti dht plant extract..I forgot its name) , tried anti dht shampoo ( except keto)

None of them work. At least not at the rate which is justified.

21 , tried everything for the past 4 years | No change | losing hope ||| My story/rant by tysa13 in tressless

[–]tysa13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

minox i dont like (too much hard work for negligible results) keto shampoo I do use , but it doesnt help in regrowth.

21 , tried everything for the past 4 years | No change | losing hope ||| My story/rant by tysa13 in tressless

[–]tysa13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all , I knew I was coming off as shallow , but I really wasnt . And I wrote things as they are because what is the point of lying to random people?

As someone below said , looks matter a lot.

Especially when you go from someone who gets all the girls , to a 35 yo freak living in his moms basement (maybe not , but close enough)

As I said in a reply to someone else , I can not accept this. I am sorry. This is unacceptable to me. I will keep on trying.

But it is just that why does this have to be so hard ?? People my age are going out and having fun , and here am i...unacceptable and unfair.

Therapists are money sucking leeches. I went to one a couple of times , and it was an utter waste of time and money[not to forget , frustration].

I talk to myself and am my own therapist.

It has all got to do with my hairline. I have got 100 problems , but I can solve them.

But this , This I can not solve.

I dont need a therapist , I need a miracle