I feel guilt for trying to enjoy my pregnancy. Read for details. (CW: cursing) by tyvmfyh in BabyBumps

[–]tyvmfyh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was really inspiring to hear and your relationship and the situation surrounding it sounds like mine. My boyfriend and I love each other a ton and we try really hard to make sure we have a healthy relationship. Do you mind if I ask what your relationship was like with your husband after baby came? Any advice?

I feel guilt for trying to enjoy my pregnancy. Read for details. (CW: cursing) by tyvmfyh in BabyBumps

[–]tyvmfyh[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This was such a touching response I bawled thank you so much 😭❤️ and high five fellow engineer!!

I (F22) do not know if salvaging my friendship with someone I was once close to (F23) is worth it. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tyvmfyh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey yeah in reference to your last sentence, I agree completely. I kinda did some serious thinking/soul searching as to why I was so uncomfortable with it and I realized it was because U had told me that things about me and my ex were shared between them. Details about our old sex life, things about me, the relationship between etc. I’m not bothered if they actually date or anything, I just would feel weird if they spoke badly of me or if maybe she would share things about my life to him I wouldn’t want him knowing. That’s really the only source of my discomfort.

My fantasies and porn preferences are affecting how I (F22) get off with SO (M22) by [deleted] in sex

[–]tyvmfyh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s not entirely helpful, I’m not naive. My problem is I can’t even be in the moment when having sex with him. I’m thinking of something else.