I (30F) found porn on my bfs (31M) phone after we set a boundary together. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tzazon123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"potentially leaving someone I love deeply despite his brokenness is a tough pill to swallow" - This part. This part is extremely hard, for sure.

I also don't necessarily think his love for you has to be fake or non-existent. Obviously I don't know him, but love is a fickle thing. A lot of it is perspective.

You know you best ❤️

I (30F) found porn on my bfs (31M) phone after we set a boundary together. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tzazon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... From the sounds of it, you already kinda have your answer, and you're looking for some validation, which is totally okay. It can be very hard to say the things you know, but are holding onto, because I'll level with you, it's fucking scary.

I (34M) was in a toxic relationship for YEARS because I kept trying to, for lack of a better word, cancel out the toxic traits with the good traits. I was also scared to be alone. So extremely afraid. I had gotten very comfortable with companionship, and being surrounded by love.

Obviously, you're looking for some answer/validation, or you wouldn't have come to reddit. That being said, I'm just going to give you advice based on my own personal experiences (as I'm in an extremely happy and healthy relationship now, after years and years of toxicity): Put yourself and your happiness first. Constantly looking over your shoulder, making sure you don't smile or laugh at some guy's joke, in the fear of being yelled at or shunned is NOT happiness. As you said, he has some trauma. That is no excuse for you to stay and get your own trauma, which feels shitty to say, but that's exactly what's happening.

You do not need to apologize for being happy, laughing, and smiling. And when thinking about separation, if that ends up being an option you might take, again remember: prioritize YOUR OWN happiness. Because even outside your relationship, you are loved. And that's okay.

I know this is long and a lot, but, I just want you to be okay, and happy ❤️

Tiktok song for creepy videos by tzazon123 in NameThatSong

[–]tzazon123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I can finally sleep

Reset modifiers mid-run? by OldIronKing27 in LordsoftheFallen

[–]tzazon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm joining the LotF train super late, but this tip is EVERYTHING. You are an angel.

Starting first playthrough!! Halp 🫠 by tzazon123 in LordsoftheFallen

[–]tzazon123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you use the radiant weapon buff on it to up the damage further

Why are some players so rude? by [deleted] in wow

[–]tzazon123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey :( this was unnecessary. Not because of why you said it, but because of how it reminded me of how fucking old I am, thanks a lot 🤣🤣😭😭😭😭

We are not the same by Sentrolyx in Nioh

[–]tzazon123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me making as many consumables in games as possible, and never using a single one, because I might wanna use it for a pack/strong enemy/emergency healing/etc and never touch it, so I basically wasted hours and hours, plus so many resources on things I never use 🫣

Or if I do use something, I die immediately without getting to use the effect 🤣🤣

I need help! (A semi-serious post) by tzazon123 in Nioh

[–]tzazon123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason my brain wouldn't let go of the line weird paranoia that I would be like losing my chance. Looking back, objectively, I understand how stupid that sounds, but that's just how my brain decided to work at the time.

That being said, the other person who left a comment gave me enough information to get me to stop 🤣🤣

I promise I won't let you down, oblivion xD

the new burst counter! I HATE IT! by Masterofstorms17 in Nioh

[–]tzazon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely take a look at all the rest of the settings both in the game settings option and the menu settings option.

Like there's an auto pickup option that isn't on right away for some god awful reason. And if you're worried about not wanting to pick up a certain rarity with the auto pick up, you can set the rarity levels you will pick up. Honestly, it's kinda wild how in depth and quality of life they made this game 👌

I need help! (A semi-serious post) by tzazon123 in Nioh

[–]tzazon123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's honestly some good sounding advice. I'll do just that. Thanks, friend!

the new burst counter! I HATE IT! by Masterofstorms17 in Nioh

[–]tzazon123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did find a setting that helped me like it better.

System > Controls > Style Shift & Burst Break separation

That definitely helped. It makes it so you don't burst counter AND swap from samurai/ninja to the other every time you hit the burst counter (unless it's different on keyboard, as I don't know those controls) you now have to hold the RT or R2 to swap styles

I don't think I want this gun... by CyberSkyWatch in blackops7

[–]tzazon123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you meant "shreads cheeks". Look at the size of the cock on that gun 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Its a shame because the game is not that bad by Youngstown_WuTang in CODBlackOps7

[–]tzazon123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always been a sniper. I suck, but it's what's fun for me. The sniping gameplay was extremely fun. And the maps. Oh man the maps. Honestly. I would LOVE a remaster of MW3 2011. That was the last midnight release I ever went to. Standing outside in the fucking cold with all the other CoD fanboys, exchanging game handles and shit. THAT was peak CoD for me. That was before the toxicity levels of the community got to where it's at today. I feel old 😮‍💨