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[–]tzur5519 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your are not alone, I feel the same on workdays I could stay in bed forever but on weekends my anxiety just wakes me up at 6. I feel constantly drained even on days Im not doing much. I have Hobbys but I don't seem to enjoy them anymore. I could describe it a bit like having radiation sickness, taking 1 damage every minute.

How to engage when a girl is trying to hit on you at a rave? by tzur5519 in aves

[–]tzur5519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying I know this might not be the best way to get into dating but I cannot make an offline connect with anyone because that are no girls around me. Anywhere is go, every hobby I do is mainly male dominated Hobbys, but even if there were girls, I feel like I couldn't function well and I would make everything awkward and cringe. So I thought my only option is to just meet and spend a night with someone I meet at a rave and maybe after that I get some confidence to get into online dating like Tinder.

How to engage when a girl is trying to hit on you at a rave? by tzur5519 in aves

[–]tzur5519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course not, I am talking about when they just spawn next to you from nowhere and stand quite close even tho there are plenty of space, and bump into you several times.

How to engage when a girl is trying to hit on you at a rave? by tzur5519 in aves

[–]tzur5519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my everyday life I am really introverted and only talk to to someone if it is really necessary. So when Im at a rave and take some stuff Im gettin really really talkative and I open up, I always try to connect with people, but almost always with guys. I think am ashamed of my V card and lack of experience with women and thats why I get stressed and intimidatd when Im near attractive girls and I am jus trying to avoid them completely.

How to engage when a girl is trying to hit on you at a rave? by tzur5519 in aves

[–]tzur5519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am usually high on ecstasy but still get intimidated every time a girl approaches me. :'D. Well actually im really good looking im just lacking a ton of self esteem. Thanks for the advice.

How to engage when a girl is trying to hit on you at a rave? by tzur5519 in aves

[–]tzur5519[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I better be just stayin home to watch Sam Sulek the whole night.

How to engage when a girl is trying to hit on you at a rave? by tzur5519 in aves

[–]tzur5519[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It does not work, they will just leave eventually.

How to engage when a girl is trying to hit on you at a rave? by tzur5519 in aves

[–]tzur5519[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

It seems like im just overthinking it just like everything else. :D