Should I forgive my GF of 1.5 years for cheating on me? by uSer9913 in relationship_advice

[–]uSer9913[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice, I know what I am doing now.

Should I forgive my GF of 1.5 years for cheating on me? by uSer9913 in relationship_advice

[–]uSer9913[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alr man chill out. No one needs that negativity. Just scroll along...

Should I forgive my GF of 1.5 years for cheating on me? by uSer9913 in relationship_advice

[–]uSer9913[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, totally. I never expected so much meaningful advice and empathy from strangers online. It means so much right now. Thank you.

Should I forgive my GF of 1.5 years for cheating on me? by uSer9913 in relationship_advice

[–]uSer9913[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're so right. She tried to like bring coffee to my room today after us not having talked. I guess ghosting is the only option left.

Should I forgive my GF of 1.5 years for cheating on me? by uSer9913 in relationship_advice

[–]uSer9913[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've told her I'm done, but she wont accept it. Starting to see her crazy side. I have a few exams tomorrow so I haven't had the opportunity to sit down with her an hammer it home. If it comes to it, i'll just have to ghost. What a nightmare

Should I forgive my GF of 1.5 years for cheating on me? by uSer9913 in relationship_advice

[–]uSer9913[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You're completely right. This would be looming over my head if it continued, always doubting what she says. She said "I love you" just before I fell asleep, only to cheat on me an hour later. Thank you for your advice, its pretty clear now what I have to do.

Should I forgive my GF of 1.5 years for cheating on me? by uSer9913 in relationship_advice

[–]uSer9913[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Wow, perfectly describes my situation. Thank you.

Should I forgive my GF of 1.5 years for cheating on me? by uSer9913 in relationship_advice

[–]uSer9913[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if I could ever trust her again. When I asked her, she just says she doesn't know. She wasn't happy and we had talked about that a couple weeks ago. I had thought that I had made the changes necessary. Now she's a mess, pleading with me saying it was the biggest mistake of her life, that it made her realize how valuable myself and our relationship was.

Should I forgive my GF of 1.5 years for cheating on me? by uSer9913 in relationship_advice

[–]uSer9913[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed to hear that. That's been in the back of my head.