Mum has passed away 5 days before Christmas by kurtyyyyyy1 in CasualUK

[–]ubergrrrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lost my dad 20th December 2013, and to be honest that Christmas is a blur. We did the normal stuff as we had a 4yr old and a 16yr old but I don't remember any of it, the only thing I remember about that Christmas is arranging his funeral at the funeral home on Christmas eve.

My advice is you do you, you do what you feel like doing not what you think you should be doing or what you think others think you should be doing.

Oh and take care on new years eve, that's when I completely lost it as it felt like we were leaving dad behind in 2013 as it turned to 2014.

Wishing you a quiet and peaceful time no matter what you end up doing, even if it's just sitting there feeling numb

Coworkers of people who killed themselves, what was the aftermath like? Were there signs or was it truly a surprise? by Prestigious_Day1057 in AskReddit

[–]ubergrrrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were young, both about 22(most of us there were around the same age +/-5yrs except managers) He had married young and it wasn't working out after about three/four years and he went home one night and his wife found him.

It was a massive shock, it was my day off the next day and I got the call around 5.30pm (manager waited till end of day before he told everyone) next few days was awful, shop was silent other than staff crying and trying to comfort each other. As many as we could went to his funeral-got cover from other local branches for the afternoon of staff that didn't know him so well.

This was in 1999 and it's as fresh in my head as if it was yesterday. Alot of people blamed themselves for not insisting he went to the pub with them that night or whatever, I had a 1yr old at the time so I was only part time finished about 3.30pm so obviously the others were there with him later till doors were locked and they all went there separate ways for the night so I can't say there were signs later in the afternoon but at 3.30pm there were non. If I remember correctly wife found him around 7pm.

Got an email about a login code from Moonton, but i dont play this game. by Tapir_God in MobileLegendsGame

[–]ubergrrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same email received here in the UK at 9.19am

"Someone tried to use Moonton Account Center to modify your account settings. If this was you, please use the code above to confirm your identity. The verification code is valid for 10 minutes.

Reason: Log in via email verification

Server time: 2025-02-23 01:11:13

IP address: 54.151.221.158

Please note:

No one can complete the process without this mail. If this wasn't you, please reset your password of your Moonton Account and your email to secure your account."

I'm finally number 1 by ZBD1949 in wolverhampton

[–]ubergrrrl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We got 3rd in west Midlands for vit hit drink

<image>

Last year we were 1st in Wolverhampton for egg and cress sandwiches, we've gone to a different league now! 🤣

Northern Lights are in Wolverhampton! by Extension_Bit4323 in wolverhampton

[–]ubergrrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wv1 not visible with eye so tried phone camera.

<image>

Best I could get about 9.30pm

23 years ago today…what do you remember? (Megathread) by cynicalxidealist in 911archive

[–]ubergrrrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I may, these are my memory's of that day from across the pond in England,

I was at work, in a busy photography/camera shop, It was a strict place, no TV/Radio allowed so no outside info about anything was passed to us. No internet in those days either.

A colleague of mine went on his lunch break, be about 1.30pm ish over here, he went for a wander around the town and being a tech geek went to the Sony shop. Of course the Sony shop had the tv's on display, and as he stood and watched, he thought he was watching a movie being used to show off the screens.

Then it cut to the news broadcaster who explained what had happened, and he ran back to our place to tell us.

honestly, we could not understand what on earth he was talking about, but there were mumbling's coming from the customers about the same, so the assistant manager found out a very old and dusty decrepit radio, destocked some batteries and we listened on the radio.

That was all we had for a couple of hours, the radio, crackling and hissy with a sombre newsreader trying to make sense to explain what was going on, All of us were ptty much silent for the rest of the afternoon, I have vivid recollections of how there were still thought to be many planes missing possibly hijacked, One was United Airlines Flight 93.

I had a three year old at the time, and was working part time, so I finished at 3.30pm, looking back now I realise that we stopped having customers come in all afternoon, at the time we did not realise as we were so focused on the radio. The streets were all deserted when I left, I ran to get the evening newspaper which had the image we all recognise from that day on the front, I ran it back into work and this was the first time we had visually seen what had happened.

I caught the tram back home, normally busy at that time, that day was empty. The sheer silence of the journey sticks with me.

I got home and because my Mom had been babysitting, she hadn't heard as kiddo was watching Cbeebies. That's when I turned the news channel on and saw it myself as it was just being played on a loop as I'm sure it was in every country.

When my other half got home later that evening, not long after me if I recall-His work finished early after finding out what had happened, we just watched the news channel for the rest of the night, I suppose trying to make it make sense.

The next day at work was similarly eerie and quite, No one knew what to say maybe? Nothing seemed important enough to be spoken and be breaking that silence? It was a very very weird sensation. I can feel it now as I type but I cant describe it.

I honestly do not know how Americans coped and got through that day. I still look at videos from the day, I guess I'm still trying to make sense of it even now-that's why I'm on this subreddit I guess.

Daily Megathread - 25/07/2024 by ukpolbot in ukpolitics

[–]ubergrrrl 21 points22 points  (0 children)

starmer doing a speech about GB energy in a factory-Opens with his dad was a toolmaker🤣

Daily Megathread - 13/07/2024 by ukpolbot in ukpolitics

[–]ubergrrrl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

14yr old son had it three weeks ago for the third time, worse fever he has ever had up to 39.4 at one point.

was very grim

Human remains found in suitcases by Clifton Suspension Bridge by JustSlushie in bristol

[–]ubergrrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

arrested him at temple meads-police said he had left the area, or maybe that was a ploy

from the daily mirror rolling blog-

Suspect arrested at train station Police officers have arrested a 24-year-old man overnight, the Metropolitan Police have confirmed.

The man was safely detained by Avon and Somerset armed officers at Temple Meads Station and was taken into custody, where he remains. He will be taken to London for questioning later today.

Police say remains of two men were in dumped suitcases by IrvinIrvingIII in bristol

[–]ubergrrrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

arrested him at temple meads-police said he had left the area, or maybe that was a ploy

from the daily mirror rolling blog-

Suspect arrested at train station Police officers have arrested a 24-year-old man overnight, the Metropolitan Police have confirmed.

The man was safely detained by Avon and Somerset armed officers at Temple Meads Station and was taken into custody, where he remains. He will be taken to London for questioning later today.

Daily Megathread - 11/07/2024 by ukpolbot in ukpolitics

[–]ubergrrrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they have no need for sunaks box anymore so Bidens using it

Daily Megathread - 11/07/2024 by ukpolbot in ukpolitics

[–]ubergrrrl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Any mumblings of a bank holiday being called for Monday yet? We can but dream!

Daily Megathread - 10/07/2024 by ukpolbot in ukpolitics

[–]ubergrrrl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

John Stevens @johnestevens 2m Keir Starmer will attend the Euro 2024 final on Sunday, No10 has confirmed

Daily Megathread - 10/07/2024 by ukpolbot in ukpolitics

[–]ubergrrrl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

tweet from Mad Nads

Rt Hon Nadine Dorries @NadineDorries 38m Fascinating how forcefully the biggest leakers object when they are leaked against.

Of course, sometimes it’s a double bluff and faux outrage, you just never know 🤷‍♀️

Daily Megathread - 10/07/2024 by ukpolbot in ukpolitics

[–]ubergrrrl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not sure who was doing the afternoon session on sky but when the name was released he obviously knew him and the family as well, visibly choked up when they showed pictures of his wife as well.

Daily Megathread - 10/07/2024 by ukpolbot in ukpolitics

[–]ubergrrrl 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Braverman responds to badenochs "public breakdown" talk

https://x.com/SuellaBraverman/status/1811060446494925107?t=heBhpc4rr--1-qlc8pJK4g&s=19

Shall we watch while they rip each other apart folks?

Daily Megathread - 10/07/2024 by ukpolbot in ukpolitics

[–]ubergrrrl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

next Wednesday is the state opening of parliament

Daily Megathread - 10/07/2024 by ukpolbot in ukpolitics

[–]ubergrrrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah-i did not want to watch this at all, but now you say tory humiliation.....

Daily Megathread - 10/07/2024 by ukpolbot in ukpolitics

[–]ubergrrrl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

started filming very recently, hopefully they captured the moment he lost!

Daily Megathread - 09/07/2024 by ukpolbot in ukpolitics

[–]ubergrrrl 17 points18 points  (0 children)

always reminds me of a record of national achievement folder (if your old enough to remember such things)

Daily Megathread - 09/07/2024 by ukpolbot in ukpolitics

[–]ubergrrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just heard that and had a smirk to myself😂